I haven't decided if I like this book or not. It was very interesting to read about Charlotte O'Neill Boughtman and her rebellious spirit. I had never read a book like this before where you see the story through the eyes of someone who turned away from the security and safety of a good home to one that was full of hardship and pain. (Although the good home could be argued with her father being a little on the harsh disciplinary side.) The interesting thing is that Charlotte never really saw the difference. It is evident in her choices, because once she had a chance to leave her abusive relationship with Jack, her husband, she chose to return.
After reading this book, I am a little more sympatehic to women who are in an abusive situation and feel they cannot leave. Charlotte could see no way to leave without damaging her children, although in the end, who was hurt the most? What a horrible thing to watch your daughter die, because of the lies your husband told about you, and your daughter following in what she thought was your footsteps. So, so sad. I was surprised Charlotte didn't fight more for her own integrity with her children.
How ironic that the one thing she feared the most in staying with the "mormons" was sharing her husband with another woman, in polygamy. But, what she despised the most, she eventually learned to live with-- sharing her husband because of his bad choices. What a sad tale. It was frustrating to me, that after all those years, she never did return to her family.
I could not believe that the story ended with her never finding love, true love. But, I guess that is why there is a second and third book. Warning: there is some swearing in the book. As my friend would say, farmer swear words--h___and d____. Very appropriately, it was Jack who used those words many, many times.
I do not know if I really could recommend this book to my friends. There was value in me reading it, but I would recommend it with caution. It is not your happy, good ending, love is hard story.