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Seen: What French Men Taught Me About Being Visible
Seven men. Seven conversations. One radical truth.
What do a Parisian artist, a sex therapist, a former male escort, and a three-times-married entrepreneur have in common? They all understand something about desire, authenticity, and being truly seen that Western culture has completely gotten wrong.
Tanja Bulatovic spent fourteen years invisible. Chronically ill. Silent. And then she moved to France and everything shifted.
Not because French men are magical. But because they taught her something she couldn't learn anywhere that the deepest form of seduction has nothing to do with perfection, youth, or fitting into an impossible standard.
In SEEN, she sits down with seven men to understand how they see women. What emerges is far more powerful than dating advice or cultural analysis. It's a masterclass in authenticity, freedom, and what it actually means to be desired.
You'll
Why desire dies in long-term relationships (and how to resurrect it)
What women really want (according to a man who's been paid to know)
How to stop performing and start being magnetic
Why aging is your superpower, not your expiration date
The one thing that makes someone truly unforgettable
This is a book about French men. But it's really a book about you—and what happens when you finally decide to be visible.
It's a wake-up call disguised as a love letter.
And it's your permission slip to stop hiding.
What do a Parisian artist, a sex therapist, a former male escort, and a three-times-married entrepreneur have in common? They all understand something about desire, authenticity, and being truly seen that Western culture has completely gotten wrong.
Tanja Bulatovic spent fourteen years invisible. Chronically ill. Silent. And then she moved to France and everything shifted.
Not because French men are magical. But because they taught her something she couldn't learn anywhere that the deepest form of seduction has nothing to do with perfection, youth, or fitting into an impossible standard.
In SEEN, she sits down with seven men to understand how they see women. What emerges is far more powerful than dating advice or cultural analysis. It's a masterclass in authenticity, freedom, and what it actually means to be desired.
You'll
Why desire dies in long-term relationships (and how to resurrect it)
What women really want (according to a man who's been paid to know)
How to stop performing and start being magnetic
Why aging is your superpower, not your expiration date
The one thing that makes someone truly unforgettable
This is a book about French men. But it's really a book about you—and what happens when you finally decide to be visible.
It's a wake-up call disguised as a love letter.
And it's your permission slip to stop hiding.
144 pages, Kindle Edition
Published January 18, 2026
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