Love in the Time of Nudie Mags is a, sharp immanent elegy themed as a laddish reminiscence. On the surface it’s about growing up in 80s Estuary Dartford, finding an attunement to erotica within the sublime. That un-guided missile, energy of attraction towards alluring femininity, pre internet desire, awkward rituals of male adolescence. .
What works immediately is the texture....Even the nudie mags aren’t treated as crude objects but more like cultural artefacts, secret stashes, the ritualised shame and excitement of possession there's a focus on seemingly trivial or humorous memories which, in retrospect, become poignant.
The writer Chris Dangerfield manages to capture that desire used to be slow, mediated by effort, secrecy, and imagination, how at 14 years old we view and judge the world of adults around us,.. faults and all.
This gives the piece much of its emotional gravity.
Made me feel that something has been lost but then i am of a similar vintage.
There’s also an intelligence in how the piece avoids deliberated easy nostalgia. It doesn’t claim the past was “better” (although it was)... it does however suggest it was different in a way that shaped people more deeply. Desire had friction,... Discovery required risk.... Love wasn’t yet flattened into pixels and algorithms even with a Sinclair ZX 81/82 Spectrum.
That subtext lands well, especially for readers old (not that old) enough to recognise themselves in it.
Stylistically, the voice sits somewhere between an authentic working class memoir and a kind of cultural archaeology. There’s a lack of self pity. The humour is often perfectly observed, unforced, occasionally brutal but never cruel. ...Giving the read credibility.
The title does a lot of work and earns it. It’s funny, yes, but also quietly tragic. It frames the story as a love letter to a vanished emotional ecology, not just to teenage lust.
A deceptively modest yet layered piece with real soul....Quite how one can re-live being 14 again and allow the reader an open window upon that world is a masterpiece in itself.
P.S Was more a Suzanne Mizzi... than a Lusardi or Kathy lloyd kinda guy back then.