This book is by my cousin Maja, with whom I stayed in Munich in 1999 when I was there for my grandmother's memorial. I haven't read it because, alas, neither my German nor my Italian are up to scratch. It's a revelation re-meeting overseas cousins, though. She's tall and thin and smart and literary ...and she smokes. Kind of like looking in a mirror... although I have thankfully both given up smoking and been back to Berlin since then.