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If You Must Go, I Wish You Triplets: A Memoir
Sometimes, we know the least about those we love the most.
It took less than an hour for an old life to end and a new one to begin. When Virginia DeLuca’s sixty-year-old husband abruptly walked out on their serene and happy—even joyful—marriage, proclaiming a sudden desire to have babies, everyone had a theory. He already knocked someone up. Nervous breakdown. Brain tumor.
After DeLuca met her husband, she learned that it was possible for her to love with abandon and entwine her life with this caring and compassionate man. But fourteen years later, she was only left with the mystery of the ending.
DeLuca, a psychotherapist, spent decades helping clients cope with sudden losses and dramatic changes—and now it’s happened to her. Now, she must hunt to find the truth of her own story.
In the tradition of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb, If You Must Go, I Wish You Triplets is an unflinching exploration of love and relationships from a woman who ultimately found that life can expand in unanticipated ways.
It took less than an hour for an old life to end and a new one to begin. When Virginia DeLuca’s sixty-year-old husband abruptly walked out on their serene and happy—even joyful—marriage, proclaiming a sudden desire to have babies, everyone had a theory. He already knocked someone up. Nervous breakdown. Brain tumor.
After DeLuca met her husband, she learned that it was possible for her to love with abandon and entwine her life with this caring and compassionate man. But fourteen years later, she was only left with the mystery of the ending.
DeLuca, a psychotherapist, spent decades helping clients cope with sudden losses and dramatic changes—and now it’s happened to her. Now, she must hunt to find the truth of her own story.
In the tradition of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb, If You Must Go, I Wish You Triplets is an unflinching exploration of love and relationships from a woman who ultimately found that life can expand in unanticipated ways.
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Published September 23, 2025
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Virginia DeLuca
5 books53 followers“You think your pain and your heartbreak are unprecedented in the history of the world,” James Baldwin reflected, “but then you read.”
I love this quote. (Marginalian, Maria Popova.) Falling in love and heartbreak are so universal and yet each of us experiences it as unique and brand new. Reading has given me glimpses into others hearts and minds.
I’m a writer and psychotherapist, living and working in Boston, MA. When not writing, I am often reading, sharing books, drinking coffee, and sharing stories.
I’m the author of the novel, As If Women Mattered. The story was inspired by my own experiences with feminism and I wanted to share the exhilaration of those times. My memoir, If You Must Go, I Wish You Triplets is currently available for pre-sale. My essays have appeared in the Iowa Review, The Writer, and The Huffington Post.
I love this quote. (Marginalian, Maria Popova.) Falling in love and heartbreak are so universal and yet each of us experiences it as unique and brand new. Reading has given me glimpses into others hearts and minds.
I’m a writer and psychotherapist, living and working in Boston, MA. When not writing, I am often reading, sharing books, drinking coffee, and sharing stories.
I’m the author of the novel, As If Women Mattered. The story was inspired by my own experiences with feminism and I wanted to share the exhilaration of those times. My memoir, If You Must Go, I Wish You Triplets is currently available for pre-sale. My essays have appeared in the Iowa Review, The Writer, and The Huffington Post.
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