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The Blueprint Decoded main points:


"Hey guys, welcome to the blueprint"


We assess validity of information subconsciously by:
-how certain they are with their ideas
-how coherent they are
-the number of other people that listens to this

We've been designed to think short term, that's why we suck at long term projects.
Shave the magic mist, the pill mentality!

Qualities a guy should have to attract: decisiveness, resourcefulness, dominance.

In an effective system the supply meets the demand, that's why there's so much reinforced bullshit.
Social conditioning is more than stupid, it's retarded.

You need to have your own values; the one with the stronger frame of reality creates spectators.

You need to focus on a deep identity change not just learning a few tricks.
The self always comes through.

You need to test her - that makes her attracted!

Guys that are good with women know how to pull their RAS to their advantage.

Inside your head: micromanaging, trying to fit in by altering behaviour.
Outside your head: in the moment, you have core value.

Situational value & confidence is a huge aspect.

The way for people to like you is for you to be yourself, you are conveying value that way.
Don't react more than the other is reacting to you.
Nobody wants you to give your power away.
We thought when we were little that by hanging with the dominant guys and fitting in the group they will appreciate this, truth is everybody wants to hang with the cool guys, be a cool guy not giving away value ever.

When a girl is in a situation her brain associates that situation with the world, that's how we're wired… and falls for the least reactive and cool guy.

Love is self-hypnosis.

You get to know a person's personality based on how much value you elicit.

Initially enjoy the experience itself when you hook up with a girl, don't crush the flower by being possessive from the get go.

Don't give a fuck about what people think!
Be yourself!

Identity is what links and separates you from the outside world.

We perceive the world through a sense of identity… That can work against us or it can help us... It's so arbitrary!! It depends a lot on the arbitrary social feedback.

Everybody has a sense of that they deserve.

You can't figure how the world is out on your own, we ping constantly for good behaviour in others or for bad behaviour, we're trying to see how to fit in the environment - that's social feedback.

Your radar is saying: oh so this guy is confident then it's true, if you seem not sure no matter the quality they go NOPE.

Your mind is always assessing the situation and your situation is always changing.

You don't want humiliation… more so than a beat up... that's because a beat up is part of who you define yourself to be, humiliation isn't.

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Blueprint decoded lectures 7 onwards:

You’re in state when you have value to offer.
You’re out of state that means you don’t want to bother people with value in that circumstance.

State sub-communicates value.

When you’re in state jokes work better; you get the right rhythm; everything falls into place... People are attracted to this because the guys who are in state naturally have some sort of value. People want to be on the receiving end of value.

Resistance is when the world around you is not what you want. The more you resist those emotions the more they persist. Accept them to make room for the good ones.

Get in state by:
1) Social conditioned standards

Chode crystal
You have to alter your state thermometer to lower it down.

2) Alliances help
Start to make them.
The night builds up as you get to know more people.

3) Competencies

Openers: “Hi my name is Owen ;)” or “Who do you think lies more boys or girls?”

4) Role playing

Leaders, followers.

When somebody nukes your role you go down, you get shut down.
Trading the roles, guys will try to tool you out to get more value constantly.

Reverse the cause and effect: understand that charismatic people dictate styles and trends.

Core confidence: you know you have value even though other people in certain circumstances don’t see that.
You have to value your opinion of you more than others value it.

Core confidence people don't branch.

The one with the stronger reality wins over the other guys who will then try to interact through that reality!!

“If I want something I take it but for now I want to chill.”

The shortest distance between 2 points is a straight line... Don’t waste energy if you don’t have to.


This is really key:
In an interaction who loses their sense of values and who is unaffected?
Who is trying to change the way they act in order to get value from other people?
You have to be unreactive but but but expressive artistic and you... Grounded
Don’t try to impose your reality to other people actively.

Most people don’t exert decision making- they wait for others to take them to lead.

If a person that’s in your RAS insults you it will hurt.
In order to tackle this you need to see the world through your own ideas and have independence – there’s where creativity comes from.
You need to be the island and the woman the explorer... You don’t think “hmm what can I do to get to her?”

Certainty of reality is like a muscle. If you ask a girl what she wants so you 2 can do then you give your power away.

Grounded identity:
1. Values.
2. Tastes.
3. Personal boundaries.
4. Expect certain behaviour.

-Stop searching for yourself in the opinions of others. That’s none of your business.
-Being above dictatorship and manipulation.
-Dictating your own reality.
-Not letting anyone produce spikes in your self-esteem.
-Search for energy within you not outside.
-I see I take mentality.
-Be in the moment.

Spread your wings, have fun, search within you.
You are not your mind.

You say give me the instruction manual, your speeding, how about now? How about now??!!
You don’t want to procrastinate and go in your head.
You need to train your way through, it becomes easier.
Initially say “oh well I guess this will suck:))”
You have the instruction manual but the brain won’t give it.
When you screw up you just remind yourself why you do this, why you’re in self-development!

Congruence tests are there to test how strong your reality is.
Men act girls react.
Be authentic and own everything you do.
Be at home in the environment.
You have to go to her like prince Williams and say “Who are you?”

As a man you don’t have the luxury to draw your state from the environment.
Guys experience a lesser range of emotions than girls 90% of the time because that’s their sweet spot.
Girls need the whole range of emotions and they draw it from the environment.

State is more inner generated for a guy than outward generated... That changes everything.

She will drop the indicators of interest… so you can’t draw your state from the environment because you go dooown with her mood then.
Your state must hold.

You have a reality of yourself that you believe in and you need it validated all the time that’s what’s happening hence the consistent behaviour.

You need to be able to stay in set mildly aroused and very important don’t scratch the surface, have depth.

Proactive social strategy is preferable to a reactive social strategy, people will appreciate that, proactivity is a series of habits you gathered through your day to day existence.
When you are being authentic and proactive people will look at you and will wonder “What is this person gonna do next?”

Reactive social strategy corresponds to performance anxiety!

Cool guys when they go to a girl they don’t have something to say, they feel it.

What you have to say is interesting because it comes from You just in the same way a hot girl makes you think she says cool stuff.
She is interested not in the content but in what you find interesting.

You go to a girl only with this, no more:
1. Let’s see if she’s cool.
2. Let’s expand the party.
3. I wanna ask her this question.

When a girl senses you don’t think ahead but you stay in set then she is drawn to your cockiness.

I see I take mentality is very attractive to a woman, she can’t blame you for this.

You can’t let your awareness go in ineffective places.

Keep your focus on the road as it unfolds yourself… Everything is perfect, future projections about the cliff make it bad.

Don’t get in your own way, there are all these forces that try to numb your presence, your awareness that make you fear; they are like diseases; they take over in the form of useless thoughts that keep you from spoiling the moment.
Think through your own intention; don’t let thoughts pull you away constantly.

You will only get your mental faculties in the moment in accordance with your awareness!!
It’s the same as if you were remembering stuff based on your mood/awareness.
Trust that the words will come, trust everything you want, have the underlying trust, you don’t think about it you know it!

You hit a convergence point: walking through the world with ease: Values, polarity, being in the moment.

You need the understanding that you are an indispensable part of a large whole.
It’s a belief like the ground is stable.
You move along with life.
You are not above it and not below it.
You don’t attach yourself to your identity.

You know that guy that seems as if everything will be good and cool and awesome with?

Success barrier: the more you change your reality the more anxiety you will feel.
Changing your reality to fit a better theory all the time fucks with your confidence.

Social calibration junkie gets shy but doesn’t have blindspots.
Delusional confidence is the opposite – has loads of blindspots.
You need to balance it, to understand the feedback but focus on what you need, on what is effective in that situation.

The map is not the territory; every label of reality is just finite to give you knowledge at what you look at.

pain and crumbling = you base your state on how the world reacts to you.

Even if you get sight of the high peak your mind is a lazy mind ... your mind is trying to conserve energy... you need to take tiny steps... you have to train your mind to get there!!

Your mind and body always wants you to get by and spread the seeds and then you can go fuck yourself because it doesn't care if you thrive or not or if you’re happy or not.

Continually hammer on the positivity of a proactive activity!!

If you are a chode you remember the bad stuff
If you have an empowering belief you get all the good references that reinforces that!

See the best in yourself and see the best in other people (because you naturally assume that the other people assume the best in you)

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Blueprint decoded - at lecture 16 starting

Success barriers will obstruct you from living in high status.
Living in high status is easier than living in low status.
You have to train that emotional muscle because when you live in high status you will have loads of criticism.

Anticipated response: the way you expect your input or similar inputs to be treated.

You are valuable for what you are that comes in the vibe not a show off... That’s the key to everything.

People always do stuff to make their anticipated responses come true.
Sometimes you sabotage good input just because you’re not used to receiving it.
People are always trying to make their world make sense, take advantage of that.
Somebody who expects certain behavior from you will get it from you be it good or bad.
If you assume the girl will be friendly and attracted to you she will then become that way.
If you always compliment your girlfriend for qualities that she doesn’t even cultivate she will become like that.

If you’re jealous and she cheats on you she will say “Oh well he thinks I’m doing it anyway.”

Fully believing in yourself:
1) Trust in a foreign set of bearings (for which you don’t have references); so no internalization yet.
2) To beat the newby paradox: fully assume and don’t go down when you are rejected.
3) The halfway point between total belief and total fear is indifference!!
At this point you need references!!! Key key key

You are stifled because you don’t know what is acceptable in the new environment... So what you need to do is be indifferent at first so you are unstifled then cross that barrier as soon as possible!

When you have a Maths problem to do but you don’t feel like doing it you need to go to the state of wanting to do it as quick as possible.

To unstifle yourself: imitation game (imitate a lion): “Chode vaporization”

Memory is access state dependent.

The path of excess leads to wisdom.

Say bye-bye to friends and old habits that don’t support the new outcome that you want.

When you learn about this stuff you become cool, if you talk about it and show it or feel the need to show it or use push pull and stuff because you need it and others see it your value decreases.

The ego distorts reality – it’s a filter it’s not accurate.
Self-esteem is default state.
Ego is based on comparisons on linking stories together.
The world is an arena for heroism!
The ego is looking for getting a grip into something undefinable.

Bear in mind:
The result is anticlimactic!
Self amuze!
Offer value!
Stay authentic, centred and in state.

Your flaws in the presence of self-esteem are endearing quirks, otherwise they are an embarrassment.

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April 20, 2017
Well this is my second time going through this series of DVDs. This course is focused on deep identity change. The idea of being rather than doing. The course is not focused only on pick up but there are some spirituality like Tyler talking about the power of now and being present. The Ego needs to be feed by external factors when you are creating false identity and when you are being yourself you are starving the Ego.

Some of the social conditioning in the game are that you need to be rich to get girls and Owen examines the Provider/Lover perspective. If you meet a girl as a provider like paying for the drinks in a night club it is hard to get out of this frame. Women will have a secure boyfriend who will be providing for them but when they feel fertile they will go out and get impregnated by some Alpha because they want their children to be healthy and strong with the best genetics. The second social conditioning factor is that guys need to be looking good to get girls. And he acknowledges that it is better to be good looking chode than a bad looking one but it does not matter for a person that is charismatic. Social conditioning is a good things overall, you do not need to experience jumping from a plane without a para shoot to know that you are not going to survive or get hit by a car without serious physical damage.

What is value for man and women is different. When a men sees a woman he knows within seconds if he is attracted to her based on her physical attributes like face, boobs, ass. Men provide value in different way like women seek an alpha male who is going to provide her with the best genetics for future generations. Women judge men every second on their behavior to see if they are congruent. That is why core confidence is something you can rely on rather than situational confidence. Core confidence comes from within, situational confidence comes from external factors like your job, your car and your bank account.

Being in state is offering value. You are the provider of positive emotions. It also sub communicates that are getting laid which is attractive to women showing pre-selection. Going to the set with no agenda is very attractive quality because you are offering value, you are not seeking value, if you are seeking value people sense that quite easily on sub conscious level and quickly reject you.

People that are trying to use contact lenses for the first time are at unease, when the hand is coming close to the eye the eye has a mechanism of protecting itself and is closing, at first the lenses feel uncomfortable but eventually if you persist this process becomes natural. It is quite similar when you start to practice day game, initially your anxiety and nervousness are high but if you persist you will develop a habit and make the whole process natural part of your life.

You can get in state by playing/imitating different animals and putting emphasis on the voice or gathering in circle, jumping and shouting creating great energy. When you are in state you are in position of giving value because women draw state from the environment and you are making her environment funny and interesting. The girl is taking value from you and you are in higher position. If you go to talk with the girl with agenda she can sense that and is quickly reject you.

20 hours of great content that is definitely worth the time.Highly recommend it!
Next is The Hot seat at home by Tyler if I can find it in the torrents.
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