Personally, I never had problems with translating my feelings into words, so my motivation to get this book was pure curiosity: how and why do people struggle with such a (seemingly, to me) basic act as articulation? I was pleasantly surprised that the book enlightened me not just with that information, but some familiar philosophy of language-type topic. Why, in the first place, do we verbalize our feelings of fondness? Was one of the questions that sparked in my mind while reading. I highly recommend it not just for people with "oshi", but for philosophy enjoyers :)