The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction

by Randy Lyman, Hannah Kates (Editor)

What if your emotions held the secret to unlocking the life you’ve always wanted?

In The Third Element, physicist, multi-millionaire entrepreneur, and emotional mastery expert Randy Lyman reveals how unprocessed emotions are the invisible barriers to success, fulfillment, and abundance. This transformative guide blends groundbreaking insights with actionable strategies to help you master your emotions, align your thoughts, and tap into your innate power.

Packed with wisdom and real-world application, this book is your key to creating a life of unlimited possibilities.

224 pages, Paperback

Published March 5, 2025

Reviews

[Rosey S · Rating 5 out of 5]

If you feel like something’s missing in your manifestation journey, this book might be the missing piece.
I was gifted The Third Element and honestly didn’t expect it to shift my perspective the way it did.

It focuses on something we don’t talk about enough with the Law of Attraction—our emotions. Lyman explains how unprocessed emotions, especially from past experiences, can actually block us from manifesting what we want. And the way to move past that? Not by ignoring them, but by sitting with them, understanding them, and letting them move through us.

He offers real examples and even includes tools like tapping in the appendix to help you work through emotional blocks.

If you’ve read other LOA books and still feel like something hasn’t quite clicked, give this one a try. It was super helpful for me.

[Nessa’s Book Reviews · Rating 4 out of 5]

What if your emotions weren’t just reactions, but the key to success, fulfilment, and personal transformation?

In The Third Element, physicist, multi-millionaire entrepreneur, and emotional mastery expert Randy Lyman presents a fresh, science-backed perspective on how emotions shape our reality.

This isn’t just another self-help book full of motivational quotes. Lyman combines cutting-edge neuroscience, quantum physics, and practical exercises to help readers rewire their thinking, process unresolved emotions, and take control of their lives.

The Core Idea: Emotions as the Missing Link

We’re often told that success comes from hard work and positive thinking, but according to Lyman, that’s only part of the equation. The “third element” is emotional mastery: the ability to understand, regulate, and harness our emotions to unlock true potential.

Without mastering our emotions, we unknowingly create self-sabotaging patterns, holding ourselves back from abundance, happiness, and achievement. Through a blend of scientific principles and real-world application, Lyman provides a roadmap to reprogram our subconscious mind and break through invisible barriers.

What Makes This Book Stand Out?

✅ Science Meets Spirituality – A rare blend of physics, psychology, and personal development that feels both intellectual and deeply personal.

✅ Actionable Steps – Practical exercises to help readers identify emotional blocks and shift limiting beliefs.

✅ Real-World Examples – Inspiring stories from entrepreneurs, scientists, and everyday people who transformed their lives by mastering their emotions.

✅ Fresh Perspective – Moves beyond traditional “positive thinking” approaches, offering a deeper, more holistic method for self-growth.

Who Should Read This?
* Entrepreneurs & High Achievers looking for the secret edge in business and life.
* Anyone Stuck in Self-Sabotage who wants to break free of limiting beliefs and emotional baggage.
* Personal Growth Enthusiasts who love books that mix science, psychology, and self-improvement.

The Third Element isn’t just a book, it’s a roadmap to self-discovery and success. If you’re ready to break through emotional blocks and step into your power, this guide offers the tools to help you do just that.

[Melissa (Nissa_the.bookworm) · Rating 4 out of 5]

𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐃 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐈𝐅 𝐘𝐎𝐔
📖 enjoy reading nonfiction
✨ believe in manifestation
💭 want to have a life you love
🖊️ like making checklists

• 𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐈𝐓’𝐒 𝐀𝐁𝐎𝐔𝐓

If manifestation is so great, why does it feel like banging your head against a brick wall?

Sure, you may have the discipline—the drive, strength, and perseverance it takes to build the life of your dreams. Yes, you may have the intellect—the understanding that you have the power to shape your own reality and a foolproof, step-by-step plan to do so.

So why isn’t all the planning, hard work, and visualization working? And when you do finally start achieving success, why does it still feel like something’s missing?

When it comes to creating abundance or finding inner peace, most people assume that mind-body alignment is enough. But we’re still missing one critical element—the long-neglected key to manifestation.

Each and every one of us holds the answer to unlocking the life of our dreams: the power and limitless potential of the Third Element.

Join entrepreneur, engineer, and speaker Randy Lyman as he unpacks his own journey and shows us exactly how our emotional experiences—the pains, the joys, and everything in-between—are both our greatest obstacles and our most powerful assets.

And this book is going to show you how to use it.

• 𝐌𝐘 𝐓𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐆𝐇𝐓𝐒

This is such a great read for people who want to make the most of their lives. It includes so much information to help you achieve your goals and then some. There are real world examples, which I always appreciate, because I like to hear about other people’s experiences, whether those be successes or failures or both! What’s unique about this nonfiction book is its seamless blend of science and spirituality! This makes for a new kind of perspective that you might not have seen before. It also includes the steps necessary to start yourself on this path. This book really does have everything to set you on the path you’re seeking!

[Angela Thompson · Rating 5 out of 5]

The Third Element Blends Science and Spirituality to Offer Readers Insights. If you are a reader or "student" of the Law of Attraction and manifesting, this book is a unique "next step" for you on the path to success. I have always created vision boards and believe in many of the elements of the Law of Attraction--and I have focused on the action steps and positive thinking pieces of that journey. This book encourages readers to dig deeper into the process of manifesting by addressing their personal emotional energies fueling their journey. The author combines scientific thought and logic along with the more philosophical and spiritual ideas of the Law of Attraction--and then offers actionable ideas to help readers address deep-rooted emotions that may be limiting their manifesting and growth.

Expect a Well-Written, Relatable, Personal Development Book. The author brings the readers engaging stories and relatable examples to help them better understand the concepts presented in the book. The author presents complex ideas regarding the relationships between emotions, past traumas, and the "feelings" that weigh down our thought processes and decisions. The author presents the information in an easy-to-read format that helps readers both understand the ideas and learn to develop actionable plans for personal growth.

Would I Recommend The Third Element by Randy Lyman? The Third Element is a valuable personal development book--and one that is especially useful to readers interested in the concepts of the Law of Attraction and manifestation. Addressing human emotions is certainly a key "element" in accomplishing goals and this book offers readers well-drawn insights into facing the emotional pieces involved in life, leadership and self-improvement.

I received a copy of this book from the author or publisher for use in a blog review. All opinions are my own.

[Vidhika Yadav · Rating 5 out of 5]

Book Review: The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction by Randy Lyman

Randy Lyman's The Third Element is a powerful and life-changing book that reconciles science, emotion, and personal growth. Different from the usual self-help books that stress only positive thinking, Lyman offers a more profound, integrated model, contending that emotional mastery is the missing piece to success and fulfillment.

The book synthesizes neuroscience, quantum physics, and psychology to explain how emotions build reality. Lyman presents the concept that unresolved emotions generate self-destructive patterns, inhibiting abundance and joy. Using exercises and real-life examples, he offers a step-by-step guide for readers to reprogram their subconscious, destroy limiting beliefs, and empower their lives.

What makes The Third Element stand out is its synthesis of science and spirituality. Lyman presents complex concepts in simple terms, making the book both for analytical thinkers and those interested in personal development. The exercises are practical and perceptive, allowing readers to recognize emotional blockages and reframe their minds successfully.

This book is especially useful for entrepreneurs, achievers, and anyone who faces self-doubt or emotional blocks. Whatever your goal, personal change or professional achievement, Lyman's insights provide a new way to break through to full potential. The Third Element is not just a book—it's an empowering resource to emotional freedom and self-realization. Recommended highly for anyone who is willing to take responsibility for their lives.

[Sachin Karnik · Rating 5 out of 5]

Book Review: The Third Element by Randy Lyman – The Missing Key to Manifestation?

Can emotions be the hidden force behind manifestation? In The Third Element, Randy Lyman takes a fresh approach to the Law of Attraction, revealing why many people struggle to achieve their desires. The book highlights emotional mastery as the missing key to unlocking success, abundance, and personal transformation.

Lyman, a physicist and entrepreneur, explains that while positive thinking and visualization are crucial, unprocessed emotions can silently sabotage progress. He provides science-backed insights and practical exercises to help readers overcome emotional blocks and harness their full potential.

The Third Element's blend of science, spirituality, and psychology makes it stand out. Unlike typical manifestation books, this one goes beyond mere wishful thinking—it delves into self-awareness, energy alignment, and emotional healing.

If you've ever felt stuck despite following the Law of Attraction techniques, this book offers a game-changing perspective. It’s an insightful read for those seeking real, lasting transformation in their personal and professional lives.

📚 Verdict: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ (5/5)
💡 Best For: Fans of self-improvement, manifestation, and mindset coaching
🔥 Must-Read If You Want To: Unlock emotional mastery & manifest with ease!

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[Keila (speedreadstagram) · Rating 4 out of 5]

"The Third Element" by Randy Lyman is a transformative and insightful guide. The author offers a unique and authoritative perspective on how unprocessed emotions can act as invisible barriers to success, fulfillment, and abundance. The book combines groundbreaking insights with actionable strategies that are both practical and easy to implement. Lyman's approach to mastering emotions, aligning thoughts, and tapping into one's innate power is truly enlightening. The wisdom and real-world applications presented in this book are invaluable and provide a clear path to creating a life of unlimited possibilities.

I found the concepts in "The Third Element" to be both thought-provoking and inspiring. The way the author integrates scientific knowledge with emotional intelligence is particularly impressive. Each chapter is packed with valuable information and exercises that have helped me gain a deeper understanding of myself and how to overcome the emotional obstacles that have been holding me back.


Thank you to @iamrandylyman @lauren.ireadbooktours @ireadbooktours for my copy of this book. All thoughts are my own.

[Bookofy · Rating 4 out of 5]

❤️‍🩹This book came to me when I need a good short ,powerful,influential and a transformstive read .this book really helps me with uplifting myself from the phase where I was ,i never thought that i will ever read a nonfiction book  that will clearly understand how i feel but this book does change my perspective and now i guess I'll read nonfiction once in a while.

💙Book starts with giving us proper introduction about Third element and starts like a conversation that connects us with the book ,the writer asks the same questions  that we have in our mind or we ask after reading certain points .
But all the questions are answered till the end . At the end we see each situation with a new perspective about all the things around us.

🦋What i feel is that Third element is the unactualised, mostly unacknowledged power of our natural selves.our emotions are our asset or obstacle but it is what we think it is . We have the keys to manifest but what we don't know how to do it by keeping a balance with our needs and emotions,this book does help in a good way

📚💙People who don't know what to do ,then just read this book ,you will feel good and uplifted.

[Ag · Rating 4 out of 5]

I have read quite a lot of books about the so-called law of attraction. Most of them are super vague and end with something disappointing like implying that this works for everyone, yet if it doesn’t work for you, well, that’s your own fault because you must be doing it wrong and it’s on you.
This one? Not vague. Very clear, in fact. And not pushing pages upon pages of fluff, only to end up being yet another sales pitch for some paid manifestation course. Seriously, I’ve seen so many of those. Omg.
Ok, back to what this book is – EMOTIONS. It talks about emotions and emotional regulation as the missing element. Makes sense, as emotional regulation skills seem to be a major missing key to, well, to literally everything – if you want to achieve anything at all. I believe so many fail at what they do just because they are not too good with their own emotions, with their own attitude towards the way they feel, act, react.
I’d say it doesn’t really matter if you believe in the law of attraction at all – this book has actionable steps to recognize and manage your emotions, your emotional background, and your emotional reactivity. And that is a lot.

[Atul Sharma · Rating 4 out of 5]

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐤𝐞𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐬𝐞𝐭—𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧?

🗝️ “𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙧𝙙 𝙀𝙡𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩” 𝙗𝙮 𝙍𝙖𝙣𝙙𝙮 𝙇𝙮𝙢𝙖𝙣 offers a refreshing take on manifestation, diving deep into the emotional experience as the missing piece in the process.

🗝️ Unlike most books that focus solely on positive thinking or visualization, the author introduces the “third element” as the emotional alignment that gives true power to intention.

🗝️ Blending personal insight with practical guidance, this book invites readers to move beyond surface-level techniques and into a space of authentic emotional resonance. It’s about more than thinking your way into a new reality—it’s about feeling it into existence.

📌 This book is perfect for spiritual seekers and self-growth enthusiasts ready to explore the emotional side of manifestation. If you’ve been doing all the right things but still feel stuck, The Third Element may reveal what’s missing.

📌 Grounded, thought-provoking, and empowering, “𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙧𝙙 𝙀𝙡𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩” 𝙗𝙮 𝙍𝙖𝙣𝙙𝙮 𝙇𝙮𝙢𝙖𝙣 is an essential read for anyone ready to unlock deeper levels of clarity, purpose, and abundance.

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐟𝐭 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐰⁉️

[Harsh Tyagi · Rating 4 out of 5]

Randy Lyman's The Third Element delves into the complex world of manifestation and emotional alignment. The author, blending his experience as an entrepreneur and physicist, explores the idea that while we often have the right mindset and discipline to succeed, something crucial is missing from our pursuit of abundance and inner peace.

The book blends quantum physics, neuroscience and human psychology. It shows how by addressing our emotional experiences,both the struggles and the joys, we can channel our inner growth. Randy’s approach makes sense in a way that feels both scientific and deeply personal, as the book is backed with real life examples and the author's own experiences. He gives real, practical strategies on how to master our emotional state and transform our lives.

It's a deep exploration of how we can unlock our potential by understanding the emotional experiences that shape us. Initially I felt a bit difficult to get into the topic but once I was in i understood the greater concept. Good material for those interested in spirituality and self growth!

[Gina Rae Mitchell · Rating 4 out of 5]

The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction by Randy Lyman is one of those books that quickly surprises you. While you might be expecting a typical personal improvement book, you will soon find that this one is a bit different in its approach. It blends science, philosophy, and storytelling with a profoundly personal sincerity.

Lyman takes a fresh look at the Law of Attraction, offering insights that go beyond the usual surface-level advice. Instead of just telling you to “think positive,” he digs into the deeper mechanics of how energy, intention, and consciousness really work.

Read an interview with the author including a video on my website


The writing is thoughtful and informative without becoming dry. You can tell there’s a real heart behind every idea. If you’re into books that make you think, feel, and maybe even shift your perspective, this one’s worth picking up.

I received a copy of the book for the tour. This review is my honest, unbiased opinion.

[Inconceivably Bookish | Ren · Rating 5 out of 5]

▶ In The Third Element, physicist, multi-millionaire entrepreneur, and emotional mastery expert Randy Lyman reveals how unprocessed emotions are the invisible barriers to success, fulfillment, and abundance. This transformative guide blends groundbreaking insights with actionable strategies to help you master your emotions, align your thoughts, and tap into your innate power.

▷ A unique, and truly fascinating guide that tackles topics we often overlook. Unprocessed emotions are the bane of human existence but there ARE ways of coping. And Randy Lyman provides new and exciting ways to process these emotions to live a more fulfilling life.

{I was gifted a complimentary copy of this book. All reviews are my own.}

[Leanne · Rating 4 out of 5]

The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction is a very powerful story that explores emotions and spiritual growth. The author Randy Lyman writes about his own experience and then asks questions to get you thinking about yourself. I felt touched and enjoyed exploring my emotions on a deeper level. The chapters are insightful and helpful. I particularly like idea of a guide to happiness. It's a raw and honest material which is both scientific and non-technical and the author has some wonderful knowledge which he shares.

[Shreya · Rating 4 out of 5]

I admit it, the synopsis sounded very preachy but it was a very nice, helpful read about healing and transformation and it couldn't have come at a better time!

The book mostly deals with repressed or unprocessed, subdued emotions and how to tackle them when they pose a problem, which they do. While it's not a preachy guide it does offer advices and a sort of help to anyone who is looking.

For me, I like the grounded ideas and advices this book provides and I think I would like to use it in my real life.

A great, quick read.

[Val · Rating 4 out of 5]

if you’ve ever felt stuck, like the law of attraction isn’t quite working for you, this book might be the missing piece. lyman explores how unhealed emotional wounds block abundance — no matter how much positive thinking you do.

what i loved: it’s practical, not just theory. lyman offers hands-on exercises (like the "plastic bat/pillow exercise") to help release negativity. plus, his chariot metaphor — where mind, body, and emotions must work together — really hit home.

🔹 perfect for: self-growth junkies, manifestation lovers, and anyone feeling emotionally stuck.

[Kat Mullen]

The Third Element walks you through our emotional are key to the law of attraction.

Randy uses his own story as an example and then asks the reader questions so we can start exploring our emotions ourselves. He’s a man of science, so his strategy combines both science and faith.

Each chapter builds on the last and we are given actionable strategies to apply in our lives.

Thank you ireadbooktours for the copy

[Michelle Godard-Richer · Rating 4 out of 5]

I found this to be a very relevant read for our tumultuous present times. The idea of using emotional mastery is interesting, and I appreciated the author’s scientific explanation of how emotion is a part of our journey to achieving our goals and can be a barrier to success. In my experience, being able to accept professional feedback as someone’s way of trying to help you rather than getting defensive can make such a difference.

[Jill Jemmett · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book is about how to unlock the life you want. Randy teaches how to embrace your emotions and accept your past to move forward with your life. I liked that he mentioned the potential critiques people would have for each point he made. He acknowledged that people could push against these theories, but these are the things that worked for him.

The Third Element is an inspiring read!

Thank you iRead Book Tours for providing a copy of this book as part of a paid campaign!

[Amy · Rating 5 out of 5]

I found Randy Lyman's The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction to be a powerful book to read. The messaging can be life changing. The author does a fantastic job in helping the reader in finding themselves in a deeper, spirtual selves. He teaches on how to better oneself, how to be happier, finding their purpose. I thought it was great for myself as I am trying to heal from losses of my significant other of 15 years, my best friend of 40 years, and lifelong toxic relationships. It helped me how to take those situations to use as a tool to learn and grow from them. It was insightful for me to see things in a different perspective. It really spoke to me in ways other self help books have not been able to do.



The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction will be getting a very deserved five plus stars from me. I would have given it one hundred if I could. I highly recommend it for readers who are searching for inspiring read on learning about personal growth. I would love for Randy Lyman to release more books like this one in the near future.



I received a digital copy of Randy Lyman's The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction from the publisher, but was not required to write a positive review. This review is one hundred percent my own honest opinion.

[Annie · Rating 5 out of 5]

I’ve read a lot of books on spiritual growth and manifestation and this is the only book that reveals unprocessed emotions block abundance and also gives practical solutions on how to break through for lasting fulfillment.
It’s a quick, easy read with actionable steps to live the life you’ve always wanted. It’s definitely a game changer!