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How to Deliver a Ransom
Ever wanted to learn about the kidnap for ransom business?This book is for the families of those who have just been kidnapped,
It’s for professional security managers,
And it’s for those with a fascination of true crime, who want to learn.
Understand the risks so you can avoid getting kidnapped in the first place.Learn about what to do if it has just happened to your loved one or colleague. This book includes guidance provided through extensive checklists on what to do, and what not to do, when responding to live kidnap for ransom cases.Take a look in detail at how kidnap for ransom works as a business, so you can understand how to beat kidnappers at their own game.Explore the topic from abduction through to recovery from both the criminal and the good guys perspectives.This illustrated book is packed with case studies, anecdotes, scenarios and dilemmas.
Rob Phayre and his team specialised in the delivery of ransom, for the release of hostages for humanitarian purposes.
Over a three-year period
Rescued over 800 hostages.Recovered more than 2 billion dollars’ worth of shipping assets and cargos.Delivered more than a hundred million US dollars in cash as ransom.Some of those individual ransoms broke the world records for the largest ransoms ever paid at sea.
Those records still stand today…
It’s for professional security managers,
And it’s for those with a fascination of true crime, who want to learn.
Understand the risks so you can avoid getting kidnapped in the first place.Learn about what to do if it has just happened to your loved one or colleague. This book includes guidance provided through extensive checklists on what to do, and what not to do, when responding to live kidnap for ransom cases.Take a look in detail at how kidnap for ransom works as a business, so you can understand how to beat kidnappers at their own game.Explore the topic from abduction through to recovery from both the criminal and the good guys perspectives.This illustrated book is packed with case studies, anecdotes, scenarios and dilemmas.
Rob Phayre and his team specialised in the delivery of ransom, for the release of hostages for humanitarian purposes.
Over a three-year period
Rescued over 800 hostages.Recovered more than 2 billion dollars’ worth of shipping assets and cargos.Delivered more than a hundred million US dollars in cash as ransom.Some of those individual ransoms broke the world records for the largest ransoms ever paid at sea.
Those records still stand today…
244 pages, Paperback
Published February 1, 2025
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About the author
Rob Phayre
6 books10 followersRob's debut novel, The Ransom Drop won the Audiobookreviewer.com Reviewers Choice Award, and the Best new Author 2021 award.
In 2021 he published Jungle Heist, book 2 of The Response Files Series. Jungle Heist won the international runner up prize for best thriller from Indies Today.
The Insurgency was published in 2023.
In 2025 he published How To Deliver A Ransom, a true crime, non-fiction guide to the kidnap for ransom business intended to help families deal with a real life kidnap incident.
Rob delivered his first ransom to Somali pirates about twelve years ago. Since then he has helped resolve nearly 40 hostage incidents both onshore and offshore across Africa.
Rob started his career as a military helicopter pilot. After that, he moved to Africa and worked as a security and crisis manager.
Rob has led projects all around the world. From the ice and snow above the arctic circle to the deserts in the Sahara. From the jungles in Africa to the rippling waves of the Indian Ocean.
Robs experience in so many places with so many fascinating characters who have all done such daring deeds makes him the ideal author for The Response Files
After 18 years living in Africa he now lives in the UK and is lucky to do so with his wife and daughters.
Rob is currently writing The Last Rocketship, a YA sci-fi novel, due in September 2025.
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February 18, 2025
I came across this little piece of the internet, Military Thriller Book Group, about two (maybe two and a half) years ago. This Facebook group has introduced me to a slew of great authors and books to read (or to add to my precariously stacked TBR pile). As I read each book, I try to offer a review of said work and my "humble" thoughts. I wish to offer my thoughts on the book by the author, Rob Phayre, and his latest offering, "How to Deliver a Ransom" (to be released 17 February 2025). I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
Recently, a Facebook group (Military Thriller Book Group) turned me onto an author (who is also a member of the same group), Rob Phayre, and his new literary release (How to Deliver a Ransom). After reading Phayre's book and experiencing some of experiences, I could definitely see wanting to read some more of his works of fiction that appear to deal with the same subject.
Kidnap for ransom is not a new phenomenon. It is, however, becoming more prevalent worldwide as international travel - particularly for business - presents opportunities for both criminal gangs and politically motivated groups. Kidnaps for ransom, however, in North America and parts of Europe (such as Russia) are relatively rare.
How to Deliver A Ransom by Rob Phayre is a deep dive into the real world of kidnapping for ransom (K&R) in its various forms, such as traditional K&R, ideological abductions, tiger kidnaps, and express kidnaps. Phayre details the stages of a K&R event, from selecting victims to ransom negotiation and delivery. He talks about the different types of ransom payments, including cash, cryptocurrency, and even livestock, each with its challenges. Phayre also speaks on the logistics behind ransom handovers, the risks kidnappers and victims face at different stages, the role of governments in negotiations, and the importance of security measures. Phayre shares personal experiences, like his involvement in a mission to recover a ship and its crew held by Somali pirates. Additionally, he gives readers practical advice on preventing kidnappings, surviving captivity, and managing the psychological impact.
One of the ways that Phayre mentions to solve the problems of being kidnapped is with kidnap and ransom insurance (aka K&R insurance) which is one of the methods designed to protect individuals and corporations operating in high-risk areas around the world. Locations most often named in policies include Mexico, Venezuela, Haiti, and Nigeria, certain other countries in Latin America, as well as some parts of the Russian Federation and Eastern Europe. Central Asia is also seeing increasing numbers of incidents, particularly in Afghanistan and Iraq.
These types of policies may be written to cover high-profile companies, non-governmental organizations, C-Suite level executives, similar strategic individuals, or individuals who represent local or multinational organizations. Some policies include kidnap prevention training.
Kidnap and ransom coverage is often provided as part of a corporate insurance portfolio. Companies often use it when they have employees who frequently travel to areas where kidnapping is a problem. K&R insurance can include coverage for spouses, relatives, guests, nannies, housekeepers, or just a single individual.
Kidnap and ransom insurance is an important but relatively niche product that usually sits within special contingency risks or security risks, which include kidnap, extortion, hijack, and detention. Demand for kidnap and ransom insurance fell during the pandemic, but insurers and brokers are now seeing an increase in demand, particularly with the return to business travel.
Not being well-versed in the field of crime (though still aware) and being exposed to this rabbit hole of information, I decided to do a bit of research in this field to see what the risk would be to an individual such as myself. When the reader looks at a global map to decide upon their scope of risk, this almost appears to be a case of desiring isolationism (tongue-in-cheek comment).
Usually, the kidnappers are using the victim to get something. They hold the victim and contact their family or employer to negotiate their release.
Reasons for kidnap may include:
Ransom or money
Ideology; or
Politics.
Where kidnapping is a risk
Kidnaps can happen anywhere, anytime, including in destinations that are typically at lower risk.
Types of kidnapping
There are different types of kidnap:
Express kidnapping
Virtual kidnapping
Kidnapping using online scams
Kidnapping by pirates
Kidnapping by terrorists
Cross-border kidnapping
Express kidnapping
Criminals often kidnap and threaten tourists to force them to withdraw large amounts of money from ATMs or from banking applications on their phone. The kidnapping often ends when the victim can no longer withdraw money. In some places, this is called 'express kidnapping'.
It is common in Central and South American countries, especially Mexico and Colombia, and South Africa. But it happens in other countries.
In some cases, kidnappers have killed victims for fighting back.
Use ATMs located inside banks, hotels, and shopping centers during daylight hours. Don’t display money or valuables in public.
Some criminals pretend to be unlicensed taxi drivers. Once the victim is in the cab, they're held until they agree to withdraw money. Always use licensed taxi services.
Virtual kidnapping
Virtual kidnapping is a scam. It targets the family and friends of people traveling, not the traveler.
In this scam, the fake kidnapper contacts a family member of the traveler. They often tell a believable story about the traveler being kidnapped, injured, or arrested. The story may include things the traveler has posted on social media to make it sound genuine. They then ask for money.
If the traveler has a lot of videos and photos of themselves online, the virtual kidnapper may also use artificial intelligence (AI) to create "deepfakes." These could be altered photos, videos, or audio recordings of the traveler. They're used to convince the traveler's family or friend that the kidnapping is real.
In most cases, the scammer tries to keep the person they've contacted on the phone. This stops them from contacting the traveler to confirm they're safe.
Virtual kidnapping is more common in China and Mexico. But it can happen anywhere.
Kidnapping and online scams
Sometimes, kidnappings can be linked to internet scams. This includes romance scams and Nigerian letter scams.
Some kidnappers run very advanced operations. Often, they build a relationship of trust over months or years with the victim before asking them to come overseas.
Be careful of any online invitation to travel somewhere you don't know. Especially if someone is offering you romance, a job, or money.
Piracy
Piracy can include kidnapping. Some pirates kidnap people who travel by boat and demand a ransom.
Pirates attack all types of boats. This includes commercial vessels, pleasure craft (such as yachts), and luxury cruise liners.
Terrorist kidnapping
Terrorists and militant groups often target tourists for kidnap. In some situations, terrorists have killed their victims when their demands weren't met.
Some kidnappings happen for ideological or political reasons. This doesn't leave much room for negotiation.
Kidnapping by Terrorists
Terrorist groups have numerous targets because they have various interests: financial, social, and self-perpetuation. Terrorists keep files of news clippings of potential kidnapping victims and follow a 2-phase victim analysis process. The first phase involves analyzing this data. The second phase is an operative one which begins with an investigation of the life of the potential victim.
Foreigners at higher risk of kidnapping by terrorists
Terrorists often kidnap foreigners who are:
(1) Journalists;
(2) Oil and mining industry employees;
(3) Aid and humanitarian workers or volunteers; and
(4) Tourists, especially where tourism is rare
Cross-border kidnappings
Kidnappers may take hostages in a neighboring country. For example, terrorists have kidnapped humanitarian workers and tourists in Kenya but held them in Somalia. People kidnapped in Afghanistan have sometimes been taken to Pakistan.
In Afghanistan, most kidnappings are by the Taliban. The risk is country-wide but more severe in the southern and eastern states in areas prone to insurgency. Local and foreign aid workers, journalists, and security contractors are targeted, often for political motives but also financial gain.
Pakistan has been a top 10 nation for kidnapping for several years and the situation is getting worse. Targets are wealthy nationals and expatriates; demands are political as well as financial. Kidnap for ransom is geographically widespread and is perpetrated by a mixture of criminal and Islamic militant groups for financial and political gain.
Kidnapping for ransom is not a new phenomenon. It is, however, becoming more prevalent worldwide as international travel - particularly for business - presents opportunities for both criminal gangs and politically motivated groups.
Kidnaps in North America and parts of Europe, such as Russia, are relatively rare. Most kidnap hotspots run in a belt on either side of the Equator and cover problem regions in Africa, Asia, and Central and South America.
As for where the kidnap and ransom ‘hotspots’ are “The risk of kidnapping and extortion is fluid and isn’t tied directly to a specific country or territory. Today’s vacation hot spot may become tomorrow’s kidnapping hot spot. Rather, it is the balance of rewards to kidnappers for undertaking the crime and the risks of getting caught and prosecution that drive criminal behaviour. Like any other business, kidnapping flourishes in areas where the risks are outweighed by the reward. Places where the risks are minimal and the rewards are high see rates of kidnapping and extortion that far exceed those where traditional policing and judiciary are competent and effective.”
Nevertheless, there are current hotspots, and Tricker says territories to be aware of include:
Central & South America, Caribbean: Mexico, Honduras, Venezuela, Haiti, and Colombia;
Middle East: Yemen, Syria, and Iraq;
Central & South Asia: India, Pakistan, Afghanistan, and Philippines.
------------------------------------
While there are conflicts in the estimated figures and some of the sources remain unclear, there's consensus that the problem is enormous—and increasing.
War zones are extremely dangerous, particularly Iraq and Afghanistan, as well as nearby Pakistan and, of course, the notorious Yemen, where commandeering ships and their crews for ransom is legion.
In just about every region of the world, kidnappings can and do occur and no one is completely safe. In Africa, kidnappings often involve humanitarian workers.
The statistics make one point very clear: wherever there is political and social unrest, the possibility of becoming a kidnap victim is increased.
How to Deliver A Ransom: The Complete Guide to Kidnap for Ransom by Rob Phayre is the book that no one ever hopes to use but that everyone who travels or operates in a way that could make them a high-value target should read.
However going into this book, I have to admit that this is not a topic I was particularly versed in. I found his style of writing to be clear, authoritative, and grounded in real-world experience, making it as interesting as it is informative. Phayre’s extensive background in crisis management is undeniable. While areas like the meticulous breakdown of the steps required in such a crisis are intriguing, its strength is in how well the author balances the technical with the human element, addressing not just logistics, but the moral dilemmas surrounding ransom payments.
That said on my self-defined five-star scale, I would rate this book a solid four stars as I believe that this work of non-fiction by Phayre would be of interest to the action/crisis management demographic with plenty of case studies and in-depth interpretations. Aside from recommending the book to the reader demographic previously mentioned, I think this guide would be a spectacular resource for fiction writers as well.
As with all my literary ramblings, these are a few of my five cents worth.
Recently, a Facebook group (Military Thriller Book Group) turned me onto an author (who is also a member of the same group), Rob Phayre, and his new literary release (How to Deliver a Ransom). After reading Phayre's book and experiencing some of experiences, I could definitely see wanting to read some more of his works of fiction that appear to deal with the same subject.
Kidnap for ransom is not a new phenomenon. It is, however, becoming more prevalent worldwide as international travel - particularly for business - presents opportunities for both criminal gangs and politically motivated groups. Kidnaps for ransom, however, in North America and parts of Europe (such as Russia) are relatively rare.
How to Deliver A Ransom by Rob Phayre is a deep dive into the real world of kidnapping for ransom (K&R) in its various forms, such as traditional K&R, ideological abductions, tiger kidnaps, and express kidnaps. Phayre details the stages of a K&R event, from selecting victims to ransom negotiation and delivery. He talks about the different types of ransom payments, including cash, cryptocurrency, and even livestock, each with its challenges. Phayre also speaks on the logistics behind ransom handovers, the risks kidnappers and victims face at different stages, the role of governments in negotiations, and the importance of security measures. Phayre shares personal experiences, like his involvement in a mission to recover a ship and its crew held by Somali pirates. Additionally, he gives readers practical advice on preventing kidnappings, surviving captivity, and managing the psychological impact.
One of the ways that Phayre mentions to solve the problems of being kidnapped is with kidnap and ransom insurance (aka K&R insurance) which is one of the methods designed to protect individuals and corporations operating in high-risk areas around the world. Locations most often named in policies include Mexico, Venezuela, Haiti, and Nigeria, certain other countries in Latin America, as well as some parts of the Russian Federation and Eastern Europe. Central Asia is also seeing increasing numbers of incidents, particularly in Afghanistan and Iraq.
These types of policies may be written to cover high-profile companies, non-governmental organizations, C-Suite level executives, similar strategic individuals, or individuals who represent local or multinational organizations. Some policies include kidnap prevention training.
Kidnap and ransom coverage is often provided as part of a corporate insurance portfolio. Companies often use it when they have employees who frequently travel to areas where kidnapping is a problem. K&R insurance can include coverage for spouses, relatives, guests, nannies, housekeepers, or just a single individual.
Kidnap and ransom insurance is an important but relatively niche product that usually sits within special contingency risks or security risks, which include kidnap, extortion, hijack, and detention. Demand for kidnap and ransom insurance fell during the pandemic, but insurers and brokers are now seeing an increase in demand, particularly with the return to business travel.
Not being well-versed in the field of crime (though still aware) and being exposed to this rabbit hole of information, I decided to do a bit of research in this field to see what the risk would be to an individual such as myself. When the reader looks at a global map to decide upon their scope of risk, this almost appears to be a case of desiring isolationism (tongue-in-cheek comment).
Usually, the kidnappers are using the victim to get something. They hold the victim and contact their family or employer to negotiate their release.
Reasons for kidnap may include:
Ransom or money
Ideology; or
Politics.
Where kidnapping is a risk
Kidnaps can happen anywhere, anytime, including in destinations that are typically at lower risk.
Types of kidnapping
There are different types of kidnap:
Express kidnapping
Virtual kidnapping
Kidnapping using online scams
Kidnapping by pirates
Kidnapping by terrorists
Cross-border kidnapping
Express kidnapping
Criminals often kidnap and threaten tourists to force them to withdraw large amounts of money from ATMs or from banking applications on their phone. The kidnapping often ends when the victim can no longer withdraw money. In some places, this is called 'express kidnapping'.
It is common in Central and South American countries, especially Mexico and Colombia, and South Africa. But it happens in other countries.
In some cases, kidnappers have killed victims for fighting back.
Use ATMs located inside banks, hotels, and shopping centers during daylight hours. Don’t display money or valuables in public.
Some criminals pretend to be unlicensed taxi drivers. Once the victim is in the cab, they're held until they agree to withdraw money. Always use licensed taxi services.
Virtual kidnapping
Virtual kidnapping is a scam. It targets the family and friends of people traveling, not the traveler.
In this scam, the fake kidnapper contacts a family member of the traveler. They often tell a believable story about the traveler being kidnapped, injured, or arrested. The story may include things the traveler has posted on social media to make it sound genuine. They then ask for money.
If the traveler has a lot of videos and photos of themselves online, the virtual kidnapper may also use artificial intelligence (AI) to create "deepfakes." These could be altered photos, videos, or audio recordings of the traveler. They're used to convince the traveler's family or friend that the kidnapping is real.
In most cases, the scammer tries to keep the person they've contacted on the phone. This stops them from contacting the traveler to confirm they're safe.
Virtual kidnapping is more common in China and Mexico. But it can happen anywhere.
Kidnapping and online scams
Sometimes, kidnappings can be linked to internet scams. This includes romance scams and Nigerian letter scams.
Some kidnappers run very advanced operations. Often, they build a relationship of trust over months or years with the victim before asking them to come overseas.
Be careful of any online invitation to travel somewhere you don't know. Especially if someone is offering you romance, a job, or money.
Piracy
Piracy can include kidnapping. Some pirates kidnap people who travel by boat and demand a ransom.
Pirates attack all types of boats. This includes commercial vessels, pleasure craft (such as yachts), and luxury cruise liners.
Terrorist kidnapping
Terrorists and militant groups often target tourists for kidnap. In some situations, terrorists have killed their victims when their demands weren't met.
Some kidnappings happen for ideological or political reasons. This doesn't leave much room for negotiation.
Kidnapping by Terrorists
Terrorist groups have numerous targets because they have various interests: financial, social, and self-perpetuation. Terrorists keep files of news clippings of potential kidnapping victims and follow a 2-phase victim analysis process. The first phase involves analyzing this data. The second phase is an operative one which begins with an investigation of the life of the potential victim.
Foreigners at higher risk of kidnapping by terrorists
Terrorists often kidnap foreigners who are:
(1) Journalists;
(2) Oil and mining industry employees;
(3) Aid and humanitarian workers or volunteers; and
(4) Tourists, especially where tourism is rare
Cross-border kidnappings
Kidnappers may take hostages in a neighboring country. For example, terrorists have kidnapped humanitarian workers and tourists in Kenya but held them in Somalia. People kidnapped in Afghanistan have sometimes been taken to Pakistan.
In Afghanistan, most kidnappings are by the Taliban. The risk is country-wide but more severe in the southern and eastern states in areas prone to insurgency. Local and foreign aid workers, journalists, and security contractors are targeted, often for political motives but also financial gain.
Pakistan has been a top 10 nation for kidnapping for several years and the situation is getting worse. Targets are wealthy nationals and expatriates; demands are political as well as financial. Kidnap for ransom is geographically widespread and is perpetrated by a mixture of criminal and Islamic militant groups for financial and political gain.
Kidnapping for ransom is not a new phenomenon. It is, however, becoming more prevalent worldwide as international travel - particularly for business - presents opportunities for both criminal gangs and politically motivated groups.
Kidnaps in North America and parts of Europe, such as Russia, are relatively rare. Most kidnap hotspots run in a belt on either side of the Equator and cover problem regions in Africa, Asia, and Central and South America.
As for where the kidnap and ransom ‘hotspots’ are “The risk of kidnapping and extortion is fluid and isn’t tied directly to a specific country or territory. Today’s vacation hot spot may become tomorrow’s kidnapping hot spot. Rather, it is the balance of rewards to kidnappers for undertaking the crime and the risks of getting caught and prosecution that drive criminal behaviour. Like any other business, kidnapping flourishes in areas where the risks are outweighed by the reward. Places where the risks are minimal and the rewards are high see rates of kidnapping and extortion that far exceed those where traditional policing and judiciary are competent and effective.”
Nevertheless, there are current hotspots, and Tricker says territories to be aware of include:
Central & South America, Caribbean: Mexico, Honduras, Venezuela, Haiti, and Colombia;
Middle East: Yemen, Syria, and Iraq;
Central & South Asia: India, Pakistan, Afghanistan, and Philippines.
------------------------------------
While there are conflicts in the estimated figures and some of the sources remain unclear, there's consensus that the problem is enormous—and increasing.
War zones are extremely dangerous, particularly Iraq and Afghanistan, as well as nearby Pakistan and, of course, the notorious Yemen, where commandeering ships and their crews for ransom is legion.
In just about every region of the world, kidnappings can and do occur and no one is completely safe. In Africa, kidnappings often involve humanitarian workers.
The statistics make one point very clear: wherever there is political and social unrest, the possibility of becoming a kidnap victim is increased.
How to Deliver A Ransom: The Complete Guide to Kidnap for Ransom by Rob Phayre is the book that no one ever hopes to use but that everyone who travels or operates in a way that could make them a high-value target should read.
However going into this book, I have to admit that this is not a topic I was particularly versed in. I found his style of writing to be clear, authoritative, and grounded in real-world experience, making it as interesting as it is informative. Phayre’s extensive background in crisis management is undeniable. While areas like the meticulous breakdown of the steps required in such a crisis are intriguing, its strength is in how well the author balances the technical with the human element, addressing not just logistics, but the moral dilemmas surrounding ransom payments.
That said on my self-defined five-star scale, I would rate this book a solid four stars as I believe that this work of non-fiction by Phayre would be of interest to the action/crisis management demographic with plenty of case studies and in-depth interpretations. Aside from recommending the book to the reader demographic previously mentioned, I think this guide would be a spectacular resource for fiction writers as well.
As with all my literary ramblings, these are a few of my five cents worth.
June 17, 2025
How To Deliver a Ransom: Thoughts
This book by Rob Phayre (Copyright © 2025) is one that I hope you will never need. Then again, if you read it and learn and follow some of the tips and suggestions it might diminish your potential for needing it. Like your policy for fire insurance that you never use, that would be a good thing.
The most important thing might be the “4 rules of surviving a kidnap”:
• Rule 1: Survive the crime.
• Rule 2: Keep hope alive.
• Rule 3: Do not self negotiate
• Rule 4: Do not panic. Think
Now, kidnapping is a big thing in the world. It falls under Human trafficking which is a huge criminal Now, kidnapping is a big thing in the world. It falls under Human trafficking which is a huge criminal endeavour. Even in a country like Canada there were 3,727 reported kidnappings in Canada in 2022. The United States recorded 56,652 cases of kidnapping in 2021, making it the country with the highest number of kidnappings.
These figures include all types of kidnappings, a significant portion are likely related to parental abduction or other familial situations, with only a small number of cases involving strangers. As the author explains, “it’s worth talking about abduction. That is the taking of someone against their will. An abduction is not automatically a kidnap for ransom. If no demand is ever made, then it’s an abduction, not a kidnap.”
Statista reports that in 2023, 3,921 kidnappings were reported due to terrorism. Additionally, Statista reports that between 2007 and 2022, between 4,980, to a high of 15,664 in 2015. The author explains that ideological kidnappings are often the most dangerous kinds.
Statista also reported that in 2023, 3,921 kidnappings were due to terrorism. Additionally, Statista reports that between 2007 and 2022, between 4,980, to a high of 15,664 in 2015. The author explains that ideological kidnappings are often the most dangerous kinds.
“U.S. tourists in Colombia caught in new wave of kidnappings” Headlines like this might startle you. But kidnappings are way down in Colombia, which used to be hotspot. But then it only takes one to potentially change your life forever.
“Well, that can’t happen to me.” That is a common sentiment. And the numbers are in your favor. Until it does happen to you. Then this book becomes very useful, but truth be told, how many of us would have the stoic fortitude to read it then? That is why reading it now, and avoiding the ‘kidnapping’ business is better. And if you are a loved one does get nabbed, remembering and following some dos and don’ts is also handy!
The book deals mainly, but not exclusively, with “Kidnap for ransom, or K&R is quite literally a business model, albeit a criminal one.” The reality is that if someone is kidnapped while abroad, “that you 100% need professional advice in this situation. A specialist consultant who knows how to manage a response, and who knows what the market rate is” in that geopolitical setting.
The author, Rob Phayre, has been involved in the release of more than 800 hostages and more than a hundred million dollars in ransom payments. There is experience there. He even provides a website with current resources. It is worth a look: www.howtodeliveraransom.com
“PART 2 THE ANATOMY OF A KIDNAPPING” goes on to explain “what does a typical kidnap incident look like?”
• Day 1- Surveillance.
• Day 2 – Abduction.
• Day 3 – Movement
• Day 4 – Negotiation.
• Day 5 and 6. – Continued negotiations
• Day 7 – Agreement.
• Day 8 and 9 – Ransom Logistics.
• Day 10 – Exchange.
• Day 11 – Release.
• Day 12 and 13 – Escape.
“PART 4 HOW TO AVOID BEING KIDNAPPED” – this is surely the most important part of this book. It is useful and insightful. “Without doubt, prevention is much better than the cure, and there are lots of things that an individual can do to keep themselves safe not only from kidnappers, but from other criminals too.”
But if it does happen you need to get help. You need a team that is experienced in that geopolitical part of the world and that are:
• Trustworthy and discrete
• High emotional intelligence
• Available for the duration
• Not a very close relative
• Can listen
• Can take advice
• Can follow a plan
Let’s hope, and plan, for it never happening to you or yours, but if it does, you can now be better prepared. SIGH!
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This book by Rob Phayre (Copyright © 2025) is one that I hope you will never need. Then again, if you read it and learn and follow some of the tips and suggestions it might diminish your potential for needing it. Like your policy for fire insurance that you never use, that would be a good thing.
The most important thing might be the “4 rules of surviving a kidnap”:
• Rule 1: Survive the crime.
• Rule 2: Keep hope alive.
• Rule 3: Do not self negotiate
• Rule 4: Do not panic. Think
Now, kidnapping is a big thing in the world. It falls under Human trafficking which is a huge criminal Now, kidnapping is a big thing in the world. It falls under Human trafficking which is a huge criminal endeavour. Even in a country like Canada there were 3,727 reported kidnappings in Canada in 2022. The United States recorded 56,652 cases of kidnapping in 2021, making it the country with the highest number of kidnappings.
These figures include all types of kidnappings, a significant portion are likely related to parental abduction or other familial situations, with only a small number of cases involving strangers. As the author explains, “it’s worth talking about abduction. That is the taking of someone against their will. An abduction is not automatically a kidnap for ransom. If no demand is ever made, then it’s an abduction, not a kidnap.”
Statista reports that in 2023, 3,921 kidnappings were reported due to terrorism. Additionally, Statista reports that between 2007 and 2022, between 4,980, to a high of 15,664 in 2015. The author explains that ideological kidnappings are often the most dangerous kinds.
Statista also reported that in 2023, 3,921 kidnappings were due to terrorism. Additionally, Statista reports that between 2007 and 2022, between 4,980, to a high of 15,664 in 2015. The author explains that ideological kidnappings are often the most dangerous kinds.
“U.S. tourists in Colombia caught in new wave of kidnappings” Headlines like this might startle you. But kidnappings are way down in Colombia, which used to be hotspot. But then it only takes one to potentially change your life forever.
“Well, that can’t happen to me.” That is a common sentiment. And the numbers are in your favor. Until it does happen to you. Then this book becomes very useful, but truth be told, how many of us would have the stoic fortitude to read it then? That is why reading it now, and avoiding the ‘kidnapping’ business is better. And if you are a loved one does get nabbed, remembering and following some dos and don’ts is also handy!
The book deals mainly, but not exclusively, with “Kidnap for ransom, or K&R is quite literally a business model, albeit a criminal one.” The reality is that if someone is kidnapped while abroad, “that you 100% need professional advice in this situation. A specialist consultant who knows how to manage a response, and who knows what the market rate is” in that geopolitical setting.
The author, Rob Phayre, has been involved in the release of more than 800 hostages and more than a hundred million dollars in ransom payments. There is experience there. He even provides a website with current resources. It is worth a look: www.howtodeliveraransom.com
“PART 2 THE ANATOMY OF A KIDNAPPING” goes on to explain “what does a typical kidnap incident look like?”
• Day 1- Surveillance.
• Day 2 – Abduction.
• Day 3 – Movement
• Day 4 – Negotiation.
• Day 5 and 6. – Continued negotiations
• Day 7 – Agreement.
• Day 8 and 9 – Ransom Logistics.
• Day 10 – Exchange.
• Day 11 – Release.
• Day 12 and 13 – Escape.
“PART 4 HOW TO AVOID BEING KIDNAPPED” – this is surely the most important part of this book. It is useful and insightful. “Without doubt, prevention is much better than the cure, and there are lots of things that an individual can do to keep themselves safe not only from kidnappers, but from other criminals too.”
But if it does happen you need to get help. You need a team that is experienced in that geopolitical part of the world and that are:
• Trustworthy and discrete
• High emotional intelligence
• Available for the duration
• Not a very close relative
• Can listen
• Can take advice
• Can follow a plan
Let’s hope, and plan, for it never happening to you or yours, but if it does, you can now be better prepared. SIGH!
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March 17, 2025
K & R. "Kidnap and Ransom." My own introduction to the term K & R came from a run of episodes of the Aaron Sorkin TV program Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip, of all places. Sorkin undoubtedly had access to someone like Rob Phayre, given how familiar much of HOW TO DELIVER A RANSOM feels.
Phayre identifies 7 different types of abductions, including one or two I'd never heard of. The one most readers will likely recognize is Kidnap and Ransom, or K & R, which has spawned professional outfits that assist those receiving ransom demands, with the aim of making the safest moves for both the victim and the person or company the ransom is demanded from, usually paid for through insurance policies for managing risks. TV crime shows and movies have dramatized how the FBI handles such scenarios, and non-governmental organizations (NGOs) follow very similar tactics to those honed over decades by the law enforcement organization, which typically handles all kidnappings reported to the authorities. Kidnap for ransom is Phayre's focus here - hence the name of the book, which deals with the methods of private K & R companies, with only occasional reference to law enforcement.
Phayre utilizes several different types of examples in discussing his subject: anecdotes, scenarios, case studies and dilemmas - the latter being the wrinkles that arise within the decision trees of any given incidents. I would argue that "case studies" promises more than it delivers. A typical example chosen at random was compromised of a seven sentence summary of a case that decades later I remember far more about than Phayre's summary offered. As interesting examples illustrating certain of his points, they are fine. But nowhere in this short book will you find the kind of detailed account the term "case study", in the opinion of this reader, implies.
Other details Phayre maintains, with total honesty and integrity, are left out to insure criminals don't use them to adapt their own methods through inside knowledge. K & R professionals cannot do their jobs safely or correctly if such details reach the enemy.
This limits both the informational and entertainment value of a book like this, but there is still plenty of good advice - and a few salacious details - left to fill the book.
The average reader will find this a fine introduction to K & R. And for those looking for something more action oriented Phayre writes fiction as well, drawing on the same expertise he gained during decades working K & R in different capacities, from random delivery to general manager and a directorship in the company.
A complimentary review copy was provided by the author through Booksirens in exchange for this review.
Phayre identifies 7 different types of abductions, including one or two I'd never heard of. The one most readers will likely recognize is Kidnap and Ransom, or K & R, which has spawned professional outfits that assist those receiving ransom demands, with the aim of making the safest moves for both the victim and the person or company the ransom is demanded from, usually paid for through insurance policies for managing risks. TV crime shows and movies have dramatized how the FBI handles such scenarios, and non-governmental organizations (NGOs) follow very similar tactics to those honed over decades by the law enforcement organization, which typically handles all kidnappings reported to the authorities. Kidnap for ransom is Phayre's focus here - hence the name of the book, which deals with the methods of private K & R companies, with only occasional reference to law enforcement.
Phayre utilizes several different types of examples in discussing his subject: anecdotes, scenarios, case studies and dilemmas - the latter being the wrinkles that arise within the decision trees of any given incidents. I would argue that "case studies" promises more than it delivers. A typical example chosen at random was compromised of a seven sentence summary of a case that decades later I remember far more about than Phayre's summary offered. As interesting examples illustrating certain of his points, they are fine. But nowhere in this short book will you find the kind of detailed account the term "case study", in the opinion of this reader, implies.
Other details Phayre maintains, with total honesty and integrity, are left out to insure criminals don't use them to adapt their own methods through inside knowledge. K & R professionals cannot do their jobs safely or correctly if such details reach the enemy.
This limits both the informational and entertainment value of a book like this, but there is still plenty of good advice - and a few salacious details - left to fill the book.
The average reader will find this a fine introduction to K & R. And for those looking for something more action oriented Phayre writes fiction as well, drawing on the same expertise he gained during decades working K & R in different capacities, from random delivery to general manager and a directorship in the company.
A complimentary review copy was provided by the author through Booksirens in exchange for this review.
June 9, 2025
A masterclass in building suspense, exploiting character flaws, and delivering a satisfying, albeit often twisted, resolution. Crafting such a scene requires a delicate hand, a keen understanding of pacing, and a willingness to subvert expectations. The effectiveness of a ransom delivery hinges on the meticulous build-up. The initial demand, the haggling, and the establishing of seemingly impossible deadlines are crucial.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
March 6, 2025
I couldn't believe how much information was packed into this book! It's shocking how kidnapping is a business in some places, and very, very scary.
Usually, I'm not a non-fiction fan, but this topic was fascinating. There was a lot of research and care that went into it. I liked that there were personal stories, theories, statistics, and more. I was shocked at how complicated each component of a kidnapping and paying ransom could be.
There was some information purposefully missing so as to not help the bad guys, which I completely agree with, but I did want to know the answers to some of those questions!
Usually, I'm not a non-fiction fan, but this topic was fascinating. There was a lot of research and care that went into it. I liked that there were personal stories, theories, statistics, and more. I was shocked at how complicated each component of a kidnapping and paying ransom could be.
There was some information purposefully missing so as to not help the bad guys, which I completely agree with, but I did want to know the answers to some of those questions!
March 23, 2025
My reason for reading might be a bit unorthodox, but as a fiction writer who wants to delve into darker themes like kidnappings, this was essential reading! Learning from first hand experience of hostage crises is going to give my stories much more realism rather than vaguely blowing through the technicalities of these delicate situations.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
March 23, 2025
Interesting. Not quite what I was hoping it would be, but it was good none-the-less. Would recommend to anyone that is looking to beef up a mystery/thriller.
March 22, 2025
Phayre’s How to Deliver a Ransom is a gripping, no-nonsense guide to one of the highest-stakes crises imaginable: a kidnapping for ransom. The book is divided into six sections, each tackling a different aspect of the kidnapping business. Phayre breaks down the types of kidnappings, the phases of an abduction, and the legal and logistical hurdles of ransom delivery. He explores the high-risk nature of transactions, the ethical dilemmas of ransom payments, and strategies for avoiding abduction. He also offers a rare glimpse into the emotional toll on both victims and negotiators.
Phayre’s Red Team vs. Blue Team approach challenges readers to think like a kidnapper before shifting to the mindset of a negotiator. The book concludes with reflections on his career and the evolution of hostage negotiations. Despite the heavy subject matter, the book is highly readable. Phayre simplifies complex concepts, guiding readers through ransom payment methods, proof-of-life protocols, and the intricate planning behind a ransom drop.
Equal parts manual, memoir, and case study, the book blends technical expertise with real-world stories, offering a clear-eyed view of hostage rescue operations. Phayre’s background—handling more than 40 ransom cases, including record-breaking maritime payouts—gives the book undeniable credibility. Readers walk away with a deep understanding of how kidnappings unfold, from criminal motivations to the logistics of a ransom drop. Indispensable for professionals and travelers facing the realities of kidnapping threats worldwide.
Phayre’s Red Team vs. Blue Team approach challenges readers to think like a kidnapper before shifting to the mindset of a negotiator. The book concludes with reflections on his career and the evolution of hostage negotiations. Despite the heavy subject matter, the book is highly readable. Phayre simplifies complex concepts, guiding readers through ransom payment methods, proof-of-life protocols, and the intricate planning behind a ransom drop.
Equal parts manual, memoir, and case study, the book blends technical expertise with real-world stories, offering a clear-eyed view of hostage rescue operations. Phayre’s background—handling more than 40 ransom cases, including record-breaking maritime payouts—gives the book undeniable credibility. Readers walk away with a deep understanding of how kidnappings unfold, from criminal motivations to the logistics of a ransom drop. Indispensable for professionals and travelers facing the realities of kidnapping threats worldwide.
March 22, 2025
Phayre delivers a sharp, no-nonsense guide to navigating the high-stakes world of kidnap-for-ransom. With nearly two decades in crisis management, Phayre distills his experience into a sharp, authoritative look at how ransoms are negotiated and delivered. He uses real-world case studies, hypothetical scenarios, and step-by-step strategies, delving into how kidnappings unfold, negotiations play out, and the safest ways to deliver a ransom. His approach is methodical yet accessible, stripping away Hollywood dramatization to reveal the brutal logic behind ransom demands.
The book places heavy emphasis on risk mitigation. “Avoidance is always better than negotiation,” it warns, detailing how situational awareness, behavioral tactics, and travel planning can reduce one’s target profile. For those already in captivity, he stresses psychological resilience: “The moment you panic, you hand control to your captors.” Despite some sections diving into the logistics of ransom drops and corporate security measures, the content remains digestible.
Phayre’s expertise and straightforward writing make it a must-read for security professionals, corporate risk managers, and even travelers looking to better understand personal safety in high-risk areas. A thorough and pragmatic resource for anyone navigating the realities of kidnap-for-ransom situations.
The book places heavy emphasis on risk mitigation. “Avoidance is always better than negotiation,” it warns, detailing how situational awareness, behavioral tactics, and travel planning can reduce one’s target profile. For those already in captivity, he stresses psychological resilience: “The moment you panic, you hand control to your captors.” Despite some sections diving into the logistics of ransom drops and corporate security measures, the content remains digestible.
Phayre’s expertise and straightforward writing make it a must-read for security professionals, corporate risk managers, and even travelers looking to better understand personal safety in high-risk areas. A thorough and pragmatic resource for anyone navigating the realities of kidnap-for-ransom situations.
July 13, 2025
“How to Deliver a Ransom” is a non-fiction book all about how to deliver a ransom, facilitate a ransom for a loved one, or survive if you’re the one taken. Interested in true crime? This might be for you, too!
Overall, I enjoyed this book. It’s a non-fiction, so there aren’t spectacular characters or suspenseful moments to boast about. However, the author does an excellent job in providing a voice and tone that reflects the seriousness of the content while also providing bits of levity to not make it utterly depressing. Find the full blog post at heatherlbarksdale.com
I received a copy of this story in exchange of a fair and honest review.
Overall, I enjoyed this book. It’s a non-fiction, so there aren’t spectacular characters or suspenseful moments to boast about. However, the author does an excellent job in providing a voice and tone that reflects the seriousness of the content while also providing bits of levity to not make it utterly depressing. Find the full blog post at heatherlbarksdale.com
I received a copy of this story in exchange of a fair and honest review.
February 19, 2025
I found the book fascinating. It is packed with with information, some of which I will definitely use when I embark on my travels I 2025. Never again will I leave home with my phone packed with all my personal information and as for jewellery - leave it in the safe. Read this book if you think that you might have to deal with a real kidnap for ransom situation and remember that it could happen to any of us.
February 18, 2025
My teenage son is about to set off on his travels around the world. He’s an adventurer like me. Being prepared for the worst allows us to relax & enjoy the best! I love true crime so I thoroughly enjoyed the three previous books in “the response files” series by the same author - recommend this book to fellow adventurers!
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