Fun ways to encourage family and other youth-adult conversations, this book is filled with intriguing questions, guaranteed to stretch the imagination and bring out each other's personality and true self.
A lot of the questions were repetitive, just worded differently. My kids were bored and confused for most of the questions but we did have a bit of fun on a few good questions. Next time I’ll google conversation starters.
I am a mentor in this big brother program called I Have A Dream (IHAD) www.ihadla.org They handed this book out at one of the mentor training sessions to help give us ideas and open up communication with our mentee's.
The book is a lightning fast read. The questions are open ended and deep. I can easily see the mentee's talking for a while trying to answer a lot of the questions. As a mentor, you could just show up with the book and go through the questions one by one, but that would feel too academic. What I plan to do is give the book to my mentee and have him write inside it his answers to the questions. When I re-read the book with his answers, it should help me find out which questions I should probe deeper into.
The best part of the book is the last two pages about internal and external factors. If you as the mentor can internalize it, then as a mentor or future parent, it will provide a good framework to help govern your decision making.