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"You Think You Know. You have No Idea" Revised
She met her rapper husband, DMX at age 11. They began dating when she turned 18; he was also living in Yonkers at that time. Simmons is estranged and legally separated from her on and off again husband Earl Simmons, better known by his stage name 'DMX'. She resides in Mt. Kisco, New York with their four children; Xavier, Tacoma, Sean, and Praise Mary Ella. The world only knows his side of the story and what they see in the media. Here is your chance to hear her account of what happened and how she continues to strive for success, despite living her life on a platform for the world to see. This book will detail the good, the bad, and the ugly of the life of Tashera Simmons and DMX, and their lives together. She does not like it to be referred to as a tell-all; because she thinks that alludes to it snitching on intimate details of his life. What it will expound on is how despite adversities and turmoil, she is able to still have a positive outlook on life and appreciate all the things that have come her way. If you want to read a book about walking by faith, You Think You Know, but You Have No Idea , is a must read page turner. It gives you a detail experience of Tashera s life, and also inspires others to continue to have hope through the adversities they face in their own lives.
232 pages, Kindle Edition
First published April 22, 2014
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January 15, 2015
Save yo money
Look, I really like Tashera. I purchased the book to support her. However this book feels is lacking in the middle. It skips years and you are suddenly at the end. The editing is bad, but you can easily figure out what is being said.
I'm a DMX fan, but a woman first, so when I saw them on couple therapy and fix my life, I was shocked to see what DMX was like.
Look, I really like Tashera. I purchased the book to support her. However this book feels is lacking in the middle. It skips years and you are suddenly at the end. The editing is bad, but you can easily figure out what is being said.
I'm a DMX fan, but a woman first, so when I saw them on couple therapy and fix my life, I was shocked to see what DMX was like.
February 8, 2015
Wow
Tashera may God keep u ur my idol
Tashera may God keep u ur my idol
May 23, 2015
All I can say is wow.
Words can't describe how I feel I'm speechless. I'm 15 years in and leaning on my faith and God has been pulling me through . Thanks for writing this book .
Words can't describe how I feel I'm speechless. I'm 15 years in and leaning on my faith and God has been pulling me through . Thanks for writing this book .
September 11, 2015
A courageous story
I got the message in the book about loving one self enough to know when to walk away. She is a very strong woman.
I got the message in the book about loving one self enough to know when to walk away. She is a very strong woman.
May 16, 2014
The digital copy of this book has a lot of missing words & grammatical errors.
September 25, 2022
Excellent Read!
Wow, this woman has been through alot. By the grace of God, her story is inspiring others that find themselves in the same situation. It funny how I could hear Tashera's voice as I read this book. It almost felt like she was literally sitting in front of me and telling her story. I would recommend this book to anyone that faces issues with a family member or spouse on drugs. It really gives you an incite on what its like to live with someone on drugs. It also allows you to examine how a person enters the enabling stage. You really do lose yourself without noticing. You become torn between what your heart says vs what you know makes sense. Overall really good read.
Wow, this woman has been through alot. By the grace of God, her story is inspiring others that find themselves in the same situation. It funny how I could hear Tashera's voice as I read this book. It almost felt like she was literally sitting in front of me and telling her story. I would recommend this book to anyone that faces issues with a family member or spouse on drugs. It really gives you an incite on what its like to live with someone on drugs. It also allows you to examine how a person enters the enabling stage. You really do lose yourself without noticing. You become torn between what your heart says vs what you know makes sense. Overall really good read.
April 10, 2021
To the author of this book
I purchased and finished this book in one night 04/09/2021 after learning DMX died allowing Earl Simmons to live on in peace in the after I have always seen the pain that his wife, help mate and soul mate that wrote this book actually experienced with him.. I am so thankful Mrs Simmons shared her story and is still able to rep her husband in a loyal God loving way and anyone who seen you as stupid does not know how our heavnly father works and is unable to see a person from the inside out. My prayers go out to Mrs Simmons and her family and may Mr Earl Simmons finally rest in peace
I purchased and finished this book in one night 04/09/2021 after learning DMX died allowing Earl Simmons to live on in peace in the after I have always seen the pain that his wife, help mate and soul mate that wrote this book actually experienced with him.. I am so thankful Mrs Simmons shared her story and is still able to rep her husband in a loyal God loving way and anyone who seen you as stupid does not know how our heavnly father works and is unable to see a person from the inside out. My prayers go out to Mrs Simmons and her family and may Mr Earl Simmons finally rest in peace
April 14, 2021
Shocking
Reading this was shocking but I don't know why when I've worked with addicts for years. I guess we all put X on a pedestal and despite knowing he was on drugs didn't expect addict behavior. The way he always included Tashera in his songs you would have expected him to treat her better. I feel so sorry for the things that Tashera went through but I'm glad she found the strength to leave. He is my favorite rapper and one of the realest in the game but between the fame and drugs he forgot she was the realest on his team. RIP DMX.
Reading this was shocking but I don't know why when I've worked with addicts for years. I guess we all put X on a pedestal and despite knowing he was on drugs didn't expect addict behavior. The way he always included Tashera in his songs you would have expected him to treat her better. I feel so sorry for the things that Tashera went through but I'm glad she found the strength to leave. He is my favorite rapper and one of the realest in the game but between the fame and drugs he forgot she was the realest on his team. RIP DMX.
June 12, 2021
Tears of Joy
This Heroine's story reinstated w/every painful issue, emotion, and burden I've ever bore. A real page-turner and I laughed and cried at every turn. Tashera's life story is a true testament that a real loving, eternal God exists. And his ear is open to the broken hearted's pain and cry. The book is also rightly titled in that I would hear bits and pieces of some of the Drama X was in. She definitely sheds a light that removes all doubt and speculation. As told candidly from her perspective/experience. True warrior, excellent writer, and totally amazing woman.
This Heroine's story reinstated w/every painful issue, emotion, and burden I've ever bore. A real page-turner and I laughed and cried at every turn. Tashera's life story is a true testament that a real loving, eternal God exists. And his ear is open to the broken hearted's pain and cry. The book is also rightly titled in that I would hear bits and pieces of some of the Drama X was in. She definitely sheds a light that removes all doubt and speculation. As told candidly from her perspective/experience. True warrior, excellent writer, and totally amazing woman.
April 10, 2021
A Great Read
This was a powerful read it tell of the life of Tashera Simmons before and after she married DMX. She was mistreated and suffered greatly at his hands. She lost herself and put up with years of verbal abuse and infidelity. She found hope and herself again. It’s a worthwhile read.
This was a powerful read it tell of the life of Tashera Simmons before and after she married DMX. She was mistreated and suffered greatly at his hands. She lost herself and put up with years of verbal abuse and infidelity. She found hope and herself again. It’s a worthwhile read.
April 22, 2021
This book is life changing!
Wow! This book was everything! A glimpse into the life of Tashera Simmons. Riveting and touching! For anyone going through something in silence.... self esteem, self worth and disrespect! Good read! I read this in one day! GOD can move mountains and he did for Tashera! GOD bless you and your kids! You are truly a good one!
Wow! This book was everything! A glimpse into the life of Tashera Simmons. Riveting and touching! For anyone going through something in silence.... self esteem, self worth and disrespect! Good read! I read this in one day! GOD can move mountains and he did for Tashera! GOD bless you and your kids! You are truly a good one!
May 3, 2021
Looked forward to reading this.
Worth it. Besides the spell and grammar mistakes. The book will have you engaged all the way. Great story of her life and experience with ( DMX ) may he Rest In Peace. She will always be the First Lady to me for him, no matter what girls he was with.
Worth it. Besides the spell and grammar mistakes. The book will have you engaged all the way. Great story of her life and experience with ( DMX ) may he Rest In Peace. She will always be the First Lady to me for him, no matter what girls he was with.
May 16, 2021
Great read and straight to the point.
I gave the book four stars because of the many typos. The book was great straight to the point everything was relevant to the story line. I really enjoyed reading Tashera’s book and her sharing so much of their life with us. Thank you Tashera and R.I.H Earl Simmons aka DMX........
I gave the book four stars because of the many typos. The book was great straight to the point everything was relevant to the story line. I really enjoyed reading Tashera’s book and her sharing so much of their life with us. Thank you Tashera and R.I.H Earl Simmons aka DMX........
April 13, 2021
Interesting
Sad story but I am so happy she has made her way out of what held her back. Ms. Simmons seems like a wonderful soul. I hope she and her children will continue to grow and prosper.
Sad story but I am so happy she has made her way out of what held her back. Ms. Simmons seems like a wonderful soul. I hope she and her children will continue to grow and prosper.
April 24, 2021
Awesome Amazing
Read in one setting. Like talking to your girlfriend! Highly recommended!!! I love Tashera Simmons too now that I have heard her voice!! #RIP.DMX MAD LOVE FOR YOU BOTH AND THE KIDS #FOE One.
Read in one setting. Like talking to your girlfriend! Highly recommended!!! I love Tashera Simmons too now that I have heard her voice!! #RIP.DMX MAD LOVE FOR YOU BOTH AND THE KIDS #FOE One.
May 1, 2021
This book is awesome!!!
Omg I really enjoyed this book . I had flashbacks of my own experiences with a man I loved and the love he had for drugs . My four kids and the woman I am today . I love her for writing this !!! Much blessings
Omg I really enjoyed this book . I had flashbacks of my own experiences with a man I loved and the love he had for drugs . My four kids and the woman I am today . I love her for writing this !!! Much blessings
May 5, 2021
God is Good
Lean not on your own understanding but God , He is a miracle worker when you can’t see your way through. I’m glad I finally made time to read tashera book . I loved every minute of it ‼️
Lean not on your own understanding but God , He is a miracle worker when you can’t see your way through. I’m glad I finally made time to read tashera book . I loved every minute of it ‼️
May 11, 2021
Raw truth
I love how she opened up about her life with Earl &Dmx mind you I'm a fan of his music but after reading this I'm a bigger fan of hers shod bless her and her family #strong spirit#strong Lady
I love how she opened up about her life with Earl &Dmx mind you I'm a fan of his music but after reading this I'm a bigger fan of hers shod bless her and her family #strong spirit#strong Lady
September 11, 2021
Inspiring look at a beautiful women who loved an icon
This was a good book. It was not a book to down DMX thank God. It was a strong women who didn't know how strong she was, who loved a broken man.
This was a good book. It was not a book to down DMX thank God. It was a strong women who didn't know how strong she was, who loved a broken man.
October 30, 2021
Reading this story about the Author took me back to my growing up as a little girl. And brought on emotions about family members that have gone through pain and hurt by their parents. I am currently still reading this book and cant wait to see how her life story ends in her words and not the actions betrayed on television. What I am saying is know the truth told from the Author.
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May 23, 2017She's right...I had no idea.
May 15, 2020
Thank you
This book truly helped me gain even more strength to not go back to a toxic relationship. Thank you :)
This book truly helped me gain even more strength to not go back to a toxic relationship. Thank you :)
April 13, 2021
A touching story
The story was so touching to see her undieing love for the love of her life. God has truly given her peace with what has been dealt to her.
The story was so touching to see her undieing love for the love of her life. God has truly given her peace with what has been dealt to her.
April 15, 2021
Healing
Awesome therapeutic book written by a women that was determined to find her way. I totally can relate.
Life is a gift and should never be taken for granted.
Awesome therapeutic book written by a women that was determined to find her way. I totally can relate.
Life is a gift and should never be taken for granted.
April 16, 2021
Great Read
The story was real, inspirational and touching. It let's us know that God is real and without him we are nothing.
The story was real, inspirational and touching. It let's us know that God is real and without him we are nothing.
May 8, 2021
3 Stars
Transparent, sad, honest, strong, forgiving and genuine is the view I got from the author.
I gave it 3 Stars due to poor editing!
Transparent, sad, honest, strong, forgiving and genuine is the view I got from the author.
I gave it 3 Stars due to poor editing!
May 19, 2021
Well told Autobiography
I love the whole book, it's a definitely a must read!!! Wow loved it I would give the book 10 stars if I could!!
I love the whole book, it's a definitely a must read!!! Wow loved it I would give the book 10 stars if I could!!
August 29, 2021
X
Book was great! She was very discriptive and transparent....Gadgets went through a lot. She deserves everything for sticking by him and his bullshit. An amazing woman....
Book was great! She was very discriptive and transparent....Gadgets went through a lot. She deserves everything for sticking by him and his bullshit. An amazing woman....
April 26, 2025
Really good book
Very good read.it catches you from the beginning..It show you there is light at the end. You get a good look into her life.
Very good read.it catches you from the beginning..It show you there is light at the end. You get a good look into her life.
April 17, 2022
I enjoyed reading about her early life and her family. Then learning about her relationship with DMX but then it got slightly confusing and rushed. All I learnt (which I already knew) was he was an addict and a cheater. The book rushed their relationship and became repetitive when talking about his respect lack of respect for her. I guess when you’re in that sort of relationship and the wife, you convince yourself that you’re somehow on a pedal stool especially when they continue to depend on you.
I did feel sorry for her and glad she left the relationship. I wish she spoke more about her relationship with her family especially her mother after what she did!
I did feel sorry for her and glad she left the relationship. I wish she spoke more about her relationship with her family especially her mother after what she did!
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