The Keys to a Happy and Healthy Marriage

by Joyce Meyer

Learn the secrets of a successful marriage from #1 New York Times bestselling author Joyce Meyer, who has been happily married for over fifty years.  

Whether you've been married for thirty days or thirty years, you want a marriage that outlasts difficult times, grows in love and intimacy, and matches God's perfect plan for relationships. But our marriages don't always look the way we thought they would—you may be suffering through a marriage crisis, financial difficulties, or spiritual attacks. Or perhaps you aren't struggling in your marriage, but you want to make your relationship as strong as it possibly can be. In The Keys to a Happy and Healthy Marriage, you'll hear from beloved Bible teacher Joyce Meyer about how to unlock powerful truths from God's Word for you and your marriage, overcome roadblocks to healthy relationships, live in peace with an insecure person, and take the focus off yourself and your spouse and instead look to the Lord. 

Along with her lifetime of biblical wisdom, you'll benefit from Joyce's practical and personal experience that will help you grow in your marriage. Regardless of what stage of marriage you are in, you can experience hope and courage in God's promises of healing, restoration, and a life full of His goodness!

192 pages, Hardcover

Published June 17, 2025

About the author

Joyce Meyer is one of the world's leading practical Bible teachers. A New York Times bestselling author, Joyce’s books have helped millions of people find hope and restoration through Jesus Christ. Through Joyce Meyer Ministries, Joyce teaches on a number of topics with a particular focus on how the Word of God applies to our everyday lives. Her candid communication style allows her to share openly and practically about her experiences so others can apply what she has learned to their lives.

Joyce’s programs, Enjoying Everyday Life and Everyday Answers with Joyce Meyer, can be seen around the world through television, radio, and the Internet. Joyce has authored more than 100 books, which have been translated into more than 100 languages and over 65 million of her books have been distributed worldwide. She teaches in cities across America as well as internationally. Joyce Meyer Ministries has offices in nine countries.

Joyce’s passion to help hurting people is foundational to the vision of Hand of Hope, the missions arm of Joyce Meyer Ministries. Hand of Hope provides worldwide humanitarian outreaches such as feeding programs, medical care, orphanages, disaster response, human trafficking intervention and rehabilitation, and much more – always sharing the love and Gospel of Christ.

Her latest book, LIVING A LIFE YOU LOVE, releases Spring 2018.

Hachette Book Group has sold over 30 million copies of Joyce Meyer's books.

Reviews

[✨️ Jessica's Bookshelf ✨️ · Rating 3 out of 5]

I love Joyce Meyer and thought this was an insightful read. It was a shorter read backed by scripture. I did take issue with her on even if you're upset with your husband and don't want to make love, it should still be a priority. However, there were great encouragement parts and other insightful pieces so I'll rate this one with a middle of the road rating despite my issues with certain parts that I'll just disregard.

A big thanks to Netgalley and the publishers for this e-arc in exchange for my honest review.

expected publication June 17, 2025

[Tiffany · Rating 3 out of 5]

Many thanks to FaithWords and the author for providing me this ARC.

"Regardless of what stage of marriage you are in, you can experience hope and courage in God's promises of healing, restoration, and a life full of His goodness!"

This book is packed with Joyce's practical insights and personal experiences, designed to help you grow in your marriage.

I found this book to be a pleasant, easy, and heartwarming read. I appreciate how her writings encourage reflection and self-inquiry while incorporating scripture.

Pub Date Jun 17 2025

[Cassie Webb · Rating 4 out of 5]

She used a lot of scripture to lead her points which was good. Other people also had a an issue with her comment about if you are upset with your spouse and don't want to make love, it should be a priority to offer yourself anyway. I also had an issue with that comment. Your spouse will have a harder time enjoying it as well, and sex needs to be willing on both sides. the importance of depending on God not your spouse for your happiness. I think this book is more geared toward people that get married without dating long/getting to know the other person too deeply with a lot of talk of learning to love the other person but not necessarily feeling that before. you must put God first and that love can flow into your spouse and others. i liked the encouragement to speak kindly and with manners to your spouse, and to continue dating your spouse in marriage, because it will help lead to a happy marriage. The talks about sacrificing for your spouse were good too. Do the right thing for the right reason/attitude, not the wrong one. if you aren't happy about something, don't blame your spouse, see what you can fix/do differently yourself. Presumption and assumption cause issues. She implied that a parent should not work to take care of the kids which i don't fully agree with as a working woman who doesn't plan to be a stay at home mom. I received an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

[Barbara Powell · Rating 4 out of 5]

Short and to straight forward book with points about making marriage successful from a Christian perspective whose also been married for a long time. There's nothing superfluous about it, it's straight to the point and backed by scripture. She also gives anecdotes on how she has used these bits of wisdom in her own marriage.
Filled with practical insights, this is a must read for every married couple or those getting married.
Thanks to FaithWords and NetGalley for this eArc in exchange for my review.

[Jolene · Rating 3 out of 5]

Although I’m a fan of Joyce Meyer, this one didn’t quite resonate with me. Some of the advice felt out of touch with what might work for everyone. Every marriage and relationship is unique, and while it’s valuable to look to God and our beliefs for guidance, it’s ultimately through understanding our partners that we find what truly works.

[Dianelys · Rating 4 out of 5]

“God intended for you and your spouse to become a blend when He joined you together. Just as the coffee and water, you really can't even tell if it's coffee or water now. It looks like a new substance. And we wouldn't have any idea how to get it apart again. In marriage, a husband and a wife become one new person joined together in Christ Jesus. God wants to join us together in such a way that there's no question about whether we can be torn apart. We are one.”

“The devil hates marriage and will pursue the fruitful and happy unions of productive, life-giving couples. It is better to be extreme in protecting our marriages than to be too loose and ask for problems.”

[Alex Lynn · Rating 5 out of 5]

I love almost everything Joyce Meyers writes and this was no exception.

She talks about how she had to learn how to love and also the blessing of a Godly spouse (this is seriously SO underrated. I am very blessed to have a Godly spouse and I don't take that for granted, EVER!)
She goes on to say that in a marriage, you are one. You come together as one, you make decisions as one, etc. I couldn't agree more with her on this. While you are two separate people, in a marriage, you are one. "So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Matthew 19:6

She talks about knowing what love is and what love isn't, knowing that true love requires sacrifice. How to be a good spouse, how to understand your spouse (I highly recommend reading the five love languages book, because it is very eye opening!) Communication is so important in a marriage, especially listening to your spouse, not just hearing what they're saying, but actually listening. Timing is everything in communication.


Favorite Quotes:

"If we study God's Word and then do what God puts on our hearts, we will blessed and happy. We can have strong, healthy marriages, but we need to be willing to sacrifice and serve."

"Understanding bears good fruit in a marriage by causing us to truly care about each other and helping us know how to meet each other's needs."

"Our priorities needs to stay in line with God's Word, and we need to do things in God's order."

"Your relationship with God and family is much more important than anything else."

Thank you to NetGalley, the publisher, and of course Joyce Meyer for this amazing book! All opinions are my own and my review reflects as such. :)

[Maggie | TheeReadingRedhead · Rating 4 out of 5]

📕 Standalone
🎭 Genre: Non-Fiction/Self Improvement

🥜 In a Nutshell: Covers the most common issues in marriages and gives tips to improve them from a Christian worldview.

✅ Bible Verses Referenced
✅ Real Life Stories and Comparisons
✅ Practical Advise for Marriage

As someone who has been married almost 20 years, I know that marriage takes a lot of work. Recently I had noticed that my husband and I had fallen into a routine where we became focused on our jobs, our child, and our responsibilities without giving much time or effort to each other. While I know this happens from time to time, we had been living in that state for a while so when I saw this book on NetGalley, I thought it would give some good insights to get back on track. This was a quick read and I appreciated the layout of the book. It was organized really well and gave some good nuggets of truth. I highlighted quite a bit and I am going to share some of those with my husband as well. There wasn't anything ground breaking or new in the information but I do like that everything was approached with a Biblical lens. Bible verses were given to show how we should respond to different marital problems as well as how we should treat our spouses. There were some personal stories that Joyce shared but not too many either. (I am usually not a fan of using a lot of personal stories in non-fiction but this book had just the right amount.) Overall, this book gave some good insights on marriage that could benefit anyone who is married whether they have been married for years or just recently married.

Thank you to NetGalley and the author for the ARC! All opinions expressed are my own.

[Abee Bittle · Rating 3 out of 5]

Joyce Meyer, a prominent Christian author and speaker known for her practical Bible-based teachings, brings her signature encouragement and clarity to the topic of marriage in her latest book. With decades of ministry experience and a strong following in the evangelical community, Meyer approaches relationships through the lens of faith, grace, and intentional growth.

This book serves as a heartfelt reminder that marriage is a sacred gift—one to be honored, nurtured, and appreciated. Meyer emphasizes themes like gratitude, selflessness, and spiritual partnership, encouraging readers to take a proactive and prayerful approach to strengthening their relationships.

While many insights resonated, some topics felt like they could have benefitted from a deeper dive. Several sections ended just as they were becoming compelling, leaving the reader wanting more elaboration or practical application. Still, the overall tone remains uplifting and grounded in biblical truth.

This book may be a helpful resource for couples seeking faith-centered encouragement or a reminder of the purpose and power of marriage through the Christian lens.

NetGalley provided a complimentary ARC of this book and the opinions are my own.

[Chrys · Rating 3 out of 5]

Joyce Meyer’s The Keys to a Happy and Healthy Marriage offers a practical and faith-centered approach to building a strong and fulfilling marriage. With her signature blend of wisdom, biblical principles, and straightforward advice, Meyer addresses key areas such as communication, trust, and emotional intimacy.

One of the book’s strengths is its emphasis on mutual respect and understanding, reminding couples that a thriving marriage requires intentional effort and a willingness to grow together.

Some of the perspective often feels one-sided. The book primarily focuses on dynamics where one spouse is emotionally and spiritually strong, while the other struggles—a framing that may not resonate with all couples.

While Meyer offers practical insights rooted in biblical principles, many topics could have been explored in greater depth. Concepts like mutual emotional growth, balance in faith journeys, and shared accountability in a marriage feel underdeveloped, leaving room for a deeper exploration of both partners' experiences.

For readers seeking a foundational guide with a strong emphasis on Christian values, this book provides encouragement and direction.

[Nic · Rating 4 out of 5]

Thanks to Netgalley for the ARC of The Keys to a Happy and Healthy Marriage by Joyce Meyer. It hits shelves June 17!

This one, like all of Meyer's books, is written from a Christian perspective, and what I appreciated is how she doesn’t sugarcoat marriage. It's not endless passion, but she instead shares how love matures beyond butterflies into deep, lasting commitment.

One part that stuck with me was that Meyer and her husband still don’t agree on everything, but the good news is that those differences no longer divide them. It’s not about fixing every problem, but learning to navigate them with grace, patience and faith.

It also made me reflect on how often I communicate from my point of view without fully considering the other person’s. This leads to misunderstandings and assumptions that aren’t even true (iykyk).

If you’re looking to strengthen your marriage or just want a grounded, faith-filled perspective, this book is full of gentle reminders and practical wisdom.

[Jeanette Durkin · Rating 3 out of 5]

I really wanted to like this book. Joyce Meyer is a well known author and her books often offer good advice. I was turned off by her referrals to her happy and healthy marriage. It's great that she has a happy and healthy marriage. Her husband, in her words, is a saint. I was hoping that the book would offer more practical approaches for women who don't have a saintly husband.

***There's one part in particular that I really had an issue with and could be a huge trigger for someone who dealt with trauma or sexual abuse. She states: "If you are too upset with your spouse to make love, it is probably more important to lovingly offer yourself at that time than ever before." There should be more emphasis on communication and progressing toward loving intimacy. It might just be me taking this personally but as I stated, others might find it triggering too.

I was provided a complimentary copy of the book from NetGalley. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

[Samantha Balentyne · Rating 3 out of 5]

This was the first book that I read from this author. It seemed up my alley with my husband and I actively working on our marriage after having 2 little girls. I can relate to Joyce when she starts off about having temper tantrums to get attention from your loved one. It was the only life I knew with my ex fiance. It’s how I dealt with situations and once I was loved, actually loved by my now husband, that doesn’t happen anymore. I struggled as others have with still having sex when you are mad at your husband. I know that scripture states to give all yourself to your husband and be an obedient wife but I’m not sure they way it was described was the best way. Overall I enjoyed this book and the scripture was nice to have to look more into those verses for when I need them most!

Thank you #Netgalley and #Faithwords publishing for offering this book to me as an ARC in exchange for my honest review.

[Blessing Okwuofu · Rating 5 out of 5]

In The Keys to a Happy and Healthy Marriage, renowned Christian minister, Joyce Meyer, shares insightful notes to help Christians build and sustain a healthy marriage - becoming one in Christ, sacrificial love and dealing with the three major issues in marriage: communication, money and sex. I also love how she shared her experience and growth in the marital journey. I recommend this book to every married couple and those who intend to get married.
I got the ARC from FaithWords via Netgalley. All opinions expressed are mine

[Katrina Ellvanger · Rating 4 out of 5]

I have read many books and bible studies by Joyce Meyer. I have loved them all. This was just as good! I love all the Godly advice she gives and she uses the Bible to back up her advice. She talks about her own life’s ups and downs and the lessons she has learned from it. I love how she’s so down to Earth and is so humble. This book was very informative and I learned a lot from it.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for this ARC!

[Crystal Storms · Rating 5 out of 5]

The Keys to a Happy and Healthy Marriage was filled with practical tips and encouragement that empowered me in my marriage. I enjoyed Joyce's honest stories about her own challenges and growth through their years of marriage.

[Ariel · Rating 3 out of 5]

This is a great book to read in small snippets. Chapters you can get through within 3-5 minutes each, making this a great book to have on your nightstand and read a little at a time. Great practical advice that I feel like is pretty common sense but good reminders.

[Jennifer Sweeney · Rating 3 out of 5]

Quick read from Joyce with sound teachings, but nothing new here.

[Lauren Porter · Rating 3 out of 5]

Some good insights but nothing that isn’t common sense or said elsewhere already.

[Kirsten Barrick · Rating 5 out of 5]

excellent read always enjoy Joyce's books 📚
I really enjoy having diffrent perspective on things and a better understanding on certain subjects

[Orsayor · Rating 4 out of 5]

After being married for over 16 years and knowing my husband for 20, I can say with confidence that marriage takes daily effort, grace, and a lot of patience. In The Keys to a Happy and Healthy Marriage, Joyce Meyer offers the kind of wisdom that meets you where you are. Whether your marriage is in a tough season or thriving, this book reminds you that a strong relationship starts with keeping God at the center.

We rarely argue and honestly, I think our biggest arguments happened back when we were just friends with benefits. Maybe that was God’s way of letting us get all that drama out of the way before we said I do. These days we laugh more than anything and continue learning how to show up for each other with love and understanding. Joyce’s message hits home. Marriage is not about being perfect. It is about growing together through every high and low.

I give this book 4 stars. It is honest, full of heart, and a great reminder that a healthy marriage is built one choice, one prayer, and one day at a time. - Orsayor