This is probably the most impactful book I have read in many years after many years of reading and exploring innumerable teachers and traditions. This is what spirituality is, devoid of all fluff. David’s ability to be utterly direct with no bullshit, is astounding. He leaves no room to escape, apart from through yourself, as it has to be.
I can tell he speaks from internal experience and authority from his own liberation of emotions and suffering. It is refreshing to see someone speak directly to the core of the path, with no ‘intellectual masturbation’ as he calls it. I myself am prone to reading more and more, only to try and fill the hole within wjth spiritual intellectualism.
I will now be reading this book over and over again, and trying to drop reading anything else as much as possible. Beautifully, it is not that David has done anything revolutionary here, but rather the spectacular element is his ability to give the essence of what this work is all about, with little to no deviation is what truly takes me aback.
He has reminded me of the simplicity of the work, but that does not mean it is easy work at all. Simple, but certainly excruciating until it is more and more effortless. It is for this reason that so few are able to free themselves from egoic delusion, as it involves so much pain, and so much surrender of positionalities and avoidances. It is death, over and over again. So many teachers completely disregard this work, which David has made clear is complete delusion.
This work has been the culmination for me of an understanding that has been becoming more evident over time, that the body-mind conditioning will still play out so long as we do not break the loops. Even a non-dual realisation does not break these loops, unless we are a truly saintly soul who is ripe like Ramana maharshi. Some of us may at some point glimpse the unconditioned reality, may even know deep down that there is nothing to attain and have some lived sense of this, and yet our narratives and conditioning plays on until it is faced and addressed.
Yes we are the light, we are the love, but only to the extent to which we live as an unfettered channel for it. The work lies in removing all that blocks it, anything else is avoidance.
I will now happily be singing loving songs of affirmation to myself, listening to my inner pain and hurt, and all my ‘sticky stuff’ inside, to understand it and love it along the way. I will be excited to wake up and tell myself how worthy and loveable I am, and rewrite all the narratives I have constructed that no longer serve me.
We all have so much pain that we do not address that drives our life unknowingly, and it will continue that way until we meet that pain, that poor child and hold them dearly, loving them and being there for them.
I am very grateful to David for this work, I think he has a message that all should hear, as it is the message that we need to create a loving world and raise loving children. We need to hear, acknowledge and digest this in order to return to the love that is inside every one of us.