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You're Not Crazy - You're Codependent.: What You Need To Know If You've Been Affected By Addiction, Abuse Or Trauma

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"Jeanette is in my head, like a loving parent, showing me how to make better choices."In this revised edition of the book that's been helping people understand and overcome codependency for over a decade, you now get the added benefit of learning how to build your best life after codependency.It's vital to understand what codependency is and how it's sabotaged your life. But that's not enough to help you become who you were always meant to be. Here you'll find simple steps that will lead you to discover who you really are and how to create the life you truly want. Stop faking it and start living!

150 pages, Kindle Edition

Published April 27, 2013

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January 9, 2025
I felt the author's pain; she has been through a lot, and I’m glad the 12-step program worked for her. However, this book feels more about her story than helping the reader to heal from codependency. While she vividly describes her unstable childhood and adopts a victim mentality, she completely avoids self-reflection as a parent. For example, she mentions her daughter’s struggles with substance abuse but fails to examine how her own patterns, inherited from her parents, may have contributed.

This lack of self-analysis weakens the book’s credibility. Healing from codependency requires brutal honesty and self-awareness. While her story of struggle is powerful, its impact is limited without full picture of the situation and deeper reflection and accountability.
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May 27, 2025
Great book

I have a spouse that is co dependent. Helped me understand some of what she is going through and to also help me to help her
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