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346 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 2009
Sartre looked hard at my face through his walleyes, then said: “Well, I envy you. I have never cried for a woman in my life.”
Beauvoir was crushed. Sartre sensed it, so he quickly tried to explain. “When Castor [Beauvoir] and I decided to have what you call an open relationship, we realized that passion inevitably leads to possessiveness and jealousies. So, as you know, we decided that our relationship would be ‘necessary’ but that we would be free to have others, which we called ‘contingent.’ That demanded that we eliminate passion, the kind of hard emotions which often manifest themselves with tears. But I now realize . . . well, I envy you-you can cry at forty, and I never have at seventy.”
I could see that Beauvoir was suffering deeply. Obviously, she had often shed a tear for her lover, Sartre or another, and obviously was hurt that he had not.