This book is a study of the last stages of human life and the thoughts, fears, hopes, and actions of those humans living in it. It is intended to guide us through the challenges of today’s longer lives to ensure relevance, purpose, and joy.
I’ve had this book on my to read shelf for several months. I think I was a little scared to read it since it’s basically telling me how to live what’s left of my life. Something I wasn’t quite ready to hear. But as in his first book “Much Abides” it has great advice on what we can expect in our later years and how to find joy and purpose in our daily lives. Human connection is so important to happiness particularly as we age. Isolation due to illness or loss of friends and family has a negative effect. We need to stay connected, be listened to and understood. The secret bullet for those who flourish during these years is Gratitude. Be grateful for everyday we are given and find the joy. Dr. Edwards helps those with dementia and their families navigate the last years of life. His deep concern for human life and the respect he shows patients and families is a real gift. The stories shared in this book are testaments to his devotion to his patients.
The author tells it like it is with both candor and compassion. The stories are so real, the book is one I could not put down. Even though some stories are painful, you know they are true, and they end in a hopeful note. The author’s emphasis on controlling one’s internal dialogue is something that has changed my life as well.