Where's the Gift? Using Feedback to Work Smarter, Learn Faster and Avoid Disaster

by Nigel Bristow, Michael-John Bristow

Why do only a few people truly excel? Some point to innate talent. Others suggest education. Research doesnt support either. In Where's The Gift? youll discover the secret that few have the ability to capitalize on feedback, in all its forms, will do more to drive success than IQ, education or talent will.In this remarkable book, Nigel and Michael-John demonstrate that there is incredible power in feedback. Whether you call it advice, suggestion, criticism or even insult, feedback gives you the power to change, build stronger relationships, achieve more of your goals, and to do so with fewer bumps and bruises.Research demonstrates that achieving goals is much easier when feedback is present. In Wheres the Gift? you will learn why the most unhelpful feedback is no feedback at all. You will also Get the timely feedback you need to achieve your goals.- Handle criticism with less anxiety and frustration.- Turn critics into collaborators and colleagues into coaches.- Make sure that when someone has a concern involving you, you are the first instead of the last to know.- Use feedback to ensure the success of any company priority, such as customer service, safety or quality.- Find the hidden gift in ALL feedback, even the vague, the inaccurate, or the unfair.Where's the Gift? employs a classic African folktale and a simple story backed by years of research and real-world experience. The message appeals to individuals from all walks of life, and has already had a major impact on people and corporations around the world. The straightforward lessons in this book will make you more effective at work, school and home, and the benefits will last a lifetime.

90 pages, Kindle Edition

First published August 16, 2010

Reviews

[Taylor M · Rating 4 out of 5]

I found it insightful and easy to read. Though the concepts seem quite simple, the whole premise of the book is that small changes in the way we receive feedback will lead to large payouts in the end. I would highly recommend it to anyone who finds giving and receiving feedback a challenge.

[Kristen · Rating 5 out of 5]

Reading this at the right time! I think the amount of space on this topic (length of the book) was spot on and there was enough nuance, but not so much, that you walked away with clear steps for applying the methods described.

[Barb · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book has some really useful tools. A good book to re-read occasionally to be reminded of how we can benefit from feedback, no matter how it is delivered.

[Danielle · Rating 5 out of 5]

Simple read with great actionable takeaways. I found this book to be insightful on how to look at feedback and use it for your own benefit.

[Carri · Rating 4 out of 5]

Gives good insight into how to accept feedback, whether given kindly or not.