In this book well-known interviewer, writer and broadcaster Eleanor Wachtel shares a number of conversations and letters she exchanged with her friend Carol Shields, an iconic Canadian writer and winner of many awards, including a Pulitzer Prize and The Governor General’s Award. They first met in 1980 and Wachtel interviewed Shields in 1987 after the publication of her novel "Swann". They felt a connection, became friends and talked and corresponded over the years, their relationship enduring over two decades until Shield’s death from breast cancer in 2003.
The interview and private correspondence reveal two sides of Shields. In the former readers see her public self, while Wachtel’s very skillful interview process leads Shields to comment on her work. The letters show a more open, personal and relaxed side of her as a friend, particularly after the diagnosis of her terminal illness. When Wachtel spoke to Shield's directly about her breast cancer diagnosis in 1997, her response was honest and forthcoming, as she described how it took her about a month to accept what was happening. These passages show how Wachtel was able to successfully merge her role as a professional interviewer and personal friend.
Wachtel shares Shield’s background and experiences, showing how they were often reflected in her work, although never directly. Shield’s writing focused on the everyday lives of women and in this account, readers learn why this subject was of such interest to her. She wanted to present women as she knew them, as intelligent and kind and not like what she referred to as “the bitches and bubbleheads” she had read about in past fiction.
Those who wish to explore Shield’s background will find the interviews a sparing but good source to learn about her middle-class upbringing in the Chicago suburb of Oak Park, how she like other women in the sixties, did as was expected of her and became a wife and mother, only beginning to write later in life. These conversations also show both Wachtel’s and Shield’s love of writers and writing, sharing a sense of their personal and professional bond.
Wachtel wanted to share with others what she knew of Shield's intelligence, kindness and compassion, to honour the memory of the woman she admired. She includes an essay on coming to terms with the loss of her friend and her personal reflections on Shield’s death.
For those not who have not yet had the pleasure of reading some of Carol Shield’s large catalogue of work which includes books of poetry, ten novels, collections of short stories and two books of criticism, this is a good introduction to her work. It is also a heartfelt remembrance to a dear friend, a personal, well written account of an enduring friendship and the depth of loss when one loses such a deep connection with another.