Transform your ex relationship struggle into freedom. Ever wondered what keeps most women struggling in the pain and anger of their ex-relationships and why they keep having their buttons pushed? This book identifies what these factors are and will give you a pro-active approach to free you from your past in a quick and painless fashion, giving you back your "inner mojo" and a sense of peace, so you can move on without looking back. Why struggle and go it alone when you don't have to? Free yourself of the past today and create your new life!
A must read for women who want to move on after a break up and not just survive, but thrive. Where so many suffer the grief of a failed relationship, the author gives practical guidance on how to move on and create a better life for yourself. A definite life saver!
Remember that punch in the face your ex gave you? Or the time he crashed your new car into the river? Or the time he pushed you down the stairs for a "joke" and broke your arm in two places? Or when he posted your naked selfies on your Facebook and then changed your password so you couldn't remove them? Everything bad he did **must** have a positive because no bad action can be created in a vacuum, right? SO, if you can't find at least one positive for his action, you obviously aren't working hard enough to move on with your life and that's a you problem, hoe.
Marina is an awesome proponent of taking self responsibility, which can be slightly counter cultural in a society that seems to want to lay blame squarely at the door of someone else. She encourages readers to look inside themselves to see what they contribute to the pain of not moving on from an ex relationship, she provides tools and how-to steps in her book. Marina candidly shares her experiences of relationship break ups - as well as some great examples from her clients, demonstrating you are not alone - AND you can move on to a MUCH BETTER LIFE. Whilst the journey of self responsibility is not always easy, it requires us to grow and to become all that we are ... go on, treat yourself to allow yourself to become who you really are by finally letting go of your ex!
If you're stuck and can't move on, it's probably because you're really angry with your ex. Marina Pearson has a great idea: Think about what you've learnt and be grateful to him! I know this is a hard but it helps you to think: How is my behaviour making the situation worse? She also helps you to look at the difference between 'He is selfish' and 'He did a selfish thing'. It might seems small but the first one justifies you to behave badly (and keep the whole cycle going) and the second one which is easier to forgive. And ultimately, if you can forgive then you can move on. I've recommended it to a client too who found it accessible and helpful