Why Did He Cheat on Me?: The Truth Behind Why Men Stray

by Rona Subotnik

Millions of us ask ourselves that very question every year. And then we ask ourselves the bigger Why? Is it me? Is it him? Is it That Woman? Or have we just grown apart?In Why Did He Cheat on Me?, bestselling author and infidelity expert Rona Subotnik helps you understand what drives men to be unfaithful--and what you can do about it. From the first telltale sign to rebuilding trust, marriage counselor Subotnik takes you through the sometimes painful, always challenging process of dealing with infidelity, The fallout from infidelityLife transitions that can prompt affairsUnspoken wants and needs that affect your relationshipThe art of forgivenessArmed with this insightful, prescriptive book, you can move forward with your life. Whether you decide to stay with your husband or not, you'll enjoy better, healthier, happier relationships--with or without him.

240 pages, Kindle Edition

First published January 1, 2010

Reviews

[Abigail Gomes · Rating 5 out of 5]

𝐒𝐎 𝐒𝐀𝐃 𝐌𝐘 𝐅𝐈𝐀𝐍𝐂𝐄 𝐂𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐓𝐄𝐃 𝐎𝐍 𝐌𝐄! 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐒 𝐍𝐎 𝐌𝐎𝐑𝐄 𝐁𝐄𝐂𝐀𝐔𝐒𝐄 𝐈 𝐅𝐄𝐄𝐋𝐄𝐃 𝐒𝐀𝐌𝐄 𝐃𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐀𝐆𝐎, 𝐌𝐘 𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐀𝐆𝐄 𝐖𝐀𝐒 𝐅𝐔𝐋𝐋 𝐎𝐅 𝐋𝐈𝐄𝐒 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐈 𝐍𝐄𝐄𝐃𝐄𝐃 𝐏𝐑𝐎𝐎𝐅 𝐔𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐋 𝐈 𝐒𝐀𝐖 𝐀 𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐌𝐄𝐍𝐓 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐖𝐎𝐍𝐃𝐄𝐑𝐅𝐔𝐋 𝐇𝐀𝐂𝐊𝐄𝐑, 𝐌𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐨 𝐒𝐩𝐲 𝐓𝐞𝐚𝐦 𝐎𝐍 𝐈𝐍𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐆𝐑𝐀𝐌, 𝐖𝐇𝐎 𝐆𝐀𝐕𝐄 𝐌𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐏𝐑𝐎𝐎𝐅 𝐈 𝐒𝐄𝐄𝐊 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐂𝐄𝐑𝐍𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐌𝐘 𝐂𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓𝐍𝐄𝐑, 𝐇𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐋𝐘 𝐑𝐄𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐌𝐄𝐍𝐃𝐄𝐃 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐇𝐀𝐂𝐊𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐑𝐄𝐂𝐎𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐘 𝐒𝐄𝐑𝐕𝐈𝐂𝐄𝐒 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐋𝐃𝐖𝐈𝐃𝐄... 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐄𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐥: 𝐦𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐟𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐲𝐫𝐢𝐱@𝐠𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐥.𝐜𝐨𝐦

[Julie Edwards · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book has really helped me make a strong relationship with my husband. My previous boyfriend cheated on me (even though I am an amazing girlfriend)...and he cheated on me with his ex...who lives THOUSANDS of miles away...and who cheated on him with three different guys...So...OF COURSE I was wondering WHY?! This book helped me get over the trauma, yet still allowed me to be upset. It taught me CRUCIAL communicating methods, that I now use with my husband. I have since the beginning of our relationship and he always comments on how I communicate with him more (and better) than anybody he's ever been with. I notice I used to talk accusingly and now know to own up for my feelings and not place the blame on someone else for how I feel. I would DEFINITELY recommend this book. It is an easy read that I believe EVERYONE should read, whether they've been cheated on or not. She didn't use intimidating words, but instead, gave you the feel she knew what you were going through and that it was normal. I would definitely read this again.