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The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution: The Secret to Breaking the Conflict Cycle in Your Marriage
Get a proven marriage expert-designed formula to help you resolve arguments in a healthy way!
Do you feel like you and your spouse are tip-toeing around each other? When you disagree, do you often find yourselves in one of these common scenarios - walking away completely or blowing up at one another? Haven’t found that missing puzzle piece yet, and feel stuck in the same old rut of arguments that go round and round and never get resolved?
It’s time for you to have a healthy way of tackling conflict when it arises. Why? Because you deserve to have a respectful, loving marriage where each of you can hold space for different opinions.
Authors Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo are passionate about helping Christian couples create their own extraordinary marriages. They do this through their books and their top-rated marriage podcast, "The ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show," through which they connect with an audience of over 50,000 listeners around the world. The information in The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution is based on their personal experience and from seeing the marriages of countless people they have worked with improve. They have learned some hard-knock life lessons and discovered key principles that have kept their marriage (and sex life) alive and flourishing… and they did it together. Let them do the same for you!
Inside, you’ll
How to visualize what’s actually happening to you and your spouse during the conflict cycle, and know when to stop, reflect, and redirect before a disagreement spirals out of controlHow to understand the key triggers behind the thoughts, emotions, and feelings that typically arise when you are in opposition with your spouseHow to recognize patterns in ‘how’ you argue so you can identify a more effective way to interrupt themEffective strategies to handle conflict better and recover from a dispute fasterAnd more…Conflict is a natural occurrence in all thriving relationships. And if you weren’t taught how to handle it effectively, you’re not to blame. Break the cycle of dysfunctional arguments today.
Get The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution today and learn how to constructively resolve conflict that will deepen your connection with your spouse.
Do you feel like you and your spouse are tip-toeing around each other? When you disagree, do you often find yourselves in one of these common scenarios - walking away completely or blowing up at one another? Haven’t found that missing puzzle piece yet, and feel stuck in the same old rut of arguments that go round and round and never get resolved?
It’s time for you to have a healthy way of tackling conflict when it arises. Why? Because you deserve to have a respectful, loving marriage where each of you can hold space for different opinions.
Authors Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo are passionate about helping Christian couples create their own extraordinary marriages. They do this through their books and their top-rated marriage podcast, "The ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show," through which they connect with an audience of over 50,000 listeners around the world. The information in The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution is based on their personal experience and from seeing the marriages of countless people they have worked with improve. They have learned some hard-knock life lessons and discovered key principles that have kept their marriage (and sex life) alive and flourishing… and they did it together. Let them do the same for you!
Inside, you’ll
How to visualize what’s actually happening to you and your spouse during the conflict cycle, and know when to stop, reflect, and redirect before a disagreement spirals out of controlHow to understand the key triggers behind the thoughts, emotions, and feelings that typically arise when you are in opposition with your spouseHow to recognize patterns in ‘how’ you argue so you can identify a more effective way to interrupt themEffective strategies to handle conflict better and recover from a dispute fasterAnd more…Conflict is a natural occurrence in all thriving relationships. And if you weren’t taught how to handle it effectively, you’re not to blame. Break the cycle of dysfunctional arguments today.
Get The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution today and learn how to constructively resolve conflict that will deepen your connection with your spouse.
139 pages, Kindle Edition
Published April 30, 2023
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May 8, 2023
Intimacy can be difficult at the best of times... Now have that shared between two people who view life in two uniquely private ways and you have any relationship. Being personally autistic, this struggle is magnified as communication is key to everything.
This book has helped my girlfriend and I minutes into reading the book and we both plan reading, but also putting into practice what is presented here. Everyone could be better at intimacy, but very rarely are we taught how to be. I for one could have been a test case in that... And it is rare that I find a book so helpful to look at it again a year, five years or ten hears to reflect and refresh, but this one will be on that short book lists I keep. I hope next year when I refresh with this book that I have put half if not all this helpful advice to good use.
This book has helped my girlfriend and I minutes into reading the book and we both plan reading, but also putting into practice what is presented here. Everyone could be better at intimacy, but very rarely are we taught how to be. I for one could have been a test case in that... And it is rare that I find a book so helpful to look at it again a year, five years or ten hears to reflect and refresh, but this one will be on that short book lists I keep. I hope next year when I refresh with this book that I have put half if not all this helpful advice to good use.
March 12, 2024
Marriage is worth fighting for. This fabulous, thought-provoking, insightful book explains the cycle of conflicts and how to break them by responding differently in the future. Although my marriage is now almost perfect, I went through a lot of turmoil in the past, and this book showed me how much I’ve learned over the years. Anyone who argues will benefit by reading “The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution,” even if you aren’t married, although the book was written for married couples. But if you are, your marriage is worth fighting for, just not by arguing, but instead by doing the work of learning how to overcome obstacles through the helpful examples found in this easy-to-follow book and using the techniques in it. Let’s face it: we all have our differences, and change is a choice.
May 12, 2023
This is the best marriage conflict resolution book I have ever read!
This is the best marriage conflict resolution book I have ever read and one of the best books I have read in the past few years. What I find amazing is how the conflict cycle is broken down and explained in very plain ways to understand. Additionally, the practical exercises in the book that will help any marriage, whether it’s going a little sideways or whether nothing seems to be amiss at all.
This book is an absolute MUST for anyone who’s married or thinking about marriage.
This is the best marriage conflict resolution book I have ever read and one of the best books I have read in the past few years. What I find amazing is how the conflict cycle is broken down and explained in very plain ways to understand. Additionally, the practical exercises in the book that will help any marriage, whether it’s going a little sideways or whether nothing seems to be amiss at all.
This book is an absolute MUST for anyone who’s married or thinking about marriage.
May 11, 2023
written with compassion
This book in the series provides an actionable roadmap for virtually all couples whether they’re currently in heavy conflict or not. A method to check in with each other and ourselves. A real gift.
This book in the series provides an actionable roadmap for virtually all couples whether they’re currently in heavy conflict or not. A method to check in with each other and ourselves. A real gift.
March 15, 2024
Great wisdom
This provides some good insight for working at conflict in a marriage. I'm grateful for the opportunity to read it.
This provides some good insight for working at conflict in a marriage. I'm grateful for the opportunity to read it.
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