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Not Fishy Enough: A Ridiculous Parable About Finding Worth Through Self-Acceptance
"Holy freakin' snail shells! What is this book?" asked Edwin.
This is a combination of a slightly short novel for kids over 8 and a self-help guide for the people who care about them. There are subtle jokes for adults and deeper meanings to explore as well.
This story is about Edwin. He is an odd-looking fish. At least that’s what everybody tells him. Well, they tell him he’s a fish, anyway. Not much of a tail for a fish. The scales are wrong, too. The fins are a bit, well, grabby. More on that later.
"Wait what? Tell me now," demanded Edwin.
Sorry, Edwin, you'll spoil the adventure.
"Fine. I'm out of here."
Now that he's out of earshot, I can tell you that it's about a crab adopted by fish growing up in an isolated tidepool with no other crabs. So, he grows up thinking he is merely an incompetent fish.
There is a section in the back of the book with discussion questions for many of the themes in this book. The questions are designed for classrooms, for mental health professionals, and for caregivers in general. In these pages, is an adventure of aquatic proportions. It’s about finding out who you are and figuring out what to do about that.
This highly unusual, but hopefully not too unusual, book is by Briton Kolber, a licensed therapist who specializes in helping geeks accept and find the best in themselves. In a world that may remind you of Finding Nemo, it explores themes found in The Ugly Duckling, Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, and Brené Brown's The Gifts of Imperfection. If you are a fan of the pragmatic wisdom of Brené Brown or the humor of Terry Pratchett, Douglas Adams, or Christopher Healy (The Hero’s Guide to Saving Your Kingdom) you will have a good time here. Illustrations by Nicoleta Dabijya add wonder and whimsy.
This is a combination of a slightly short novel for kids over 8 and a self-help guide for the people who care about them. There are subtle jokes for adults and deeper meanings to explore as well.
This story is about Edwin. He is an odd-looking fish. At least that’s what everybody tells him. Well, they tell him he’s a fish, anyway. Not much of a tail for a fish. The scales are wrong, too. The fins are a bit, well, grabby. More on that later.
"Wait what? Tell me now," demanded Edwin.
Sorry, Edwin, you'll spoil the adventure.
"Fine. I'm out of here."
Now that he's out of earshot, I can tell you that it's about a crab adopted by fish growing up in an isolated tidepool with no other crabs. So, he grows up thinking he is merely an incompetent fish.
There is a section in the back of the book with discussion questions for many of the themes in this book. The questions are designed for classrooms, for mental health professionals, and for caregivers in general. In these pages, is an adventure of aquatic proportions. It’s about finding out who you are and figuring out what to do about that.
This highly unusual, but hopefully not too unusual, book is by Briton Kolber, a licensed therapist who specializes in helping geeks accept and find the best in themselves. In a world that may remind you of Finding Nemo, it explores themes found in The Ugly Duckling, Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, and Brené Brown's The Gifts of Imperfection. If you are a fan of the pragmatic wisdom of Brené Brown or the humor of Terry Pratchett, Douglas Adams, or Christopher Healy (The Hero’s Guide to Saving Your Kingdom) you will have a good time here. Illustrations by Nicoleta Dabijya add wonder and whimsy.
126 pages, Paperback
Published December 20, 2022
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August 15, 2024
"Not Fishy Enough" by Briton Kolber dives deep into the waters of self-discovery, offering a transformative journey that blends whimsical storytelling with profound life lessons. At the heart of the narrative lies Edwin, a peculiar character who grapples with his identity, feeling like a crab in a world of fish. This story explores themes of self-acceptance, societal expectations, and the importance of embracing one's uniqueness through Edwin's adventures beyond his familiar tide pool.
Kolber's storytelling prowess is evident in the seamless integration of marine creatures as metaphors for diversity and individuality. From Edwin's initial struggles with acceptance to his eventual embrace of his true self, each chapter unfolds with depth and nuance. As a beacon of wisdom, Daedalus challenges Edwin and readers to embrace authenticity and question societal norms.
'Not Fishy Enough' is a captivating children's story and a thought-provoking self-help book. Through Edwin's journey, readers of all ages are encouraged to reflect on their beliefs and self-perceptions. Not only does it offer an entertaining narrative, but it also sparks meaningful discussions about acceptance and identity. As a result of Kolber's masterful storytelling and insightful reflections, "Not Fishy Enough" will appeal to a wide range of readers.
However, the book does have its drawbacks. Some readers may find the inclusion of sensitive topics, such as gender identity, inappropriate for the intended audience of children. However, its relevance is subjective, so I wouldn't deem it significant. A delightful, insightful, and relevant read, "Not Fishy Enough" deserves praise for its creativity, depth, and relevance. Whether you're a young reader or an adult embarking on a journey of self-discovery, I wholeheartedly recommend this book. With its exceptional editing and compelling narrative, I rate the book 5 out of 5 stars.
Kolber's storytelling prowess is evident in the seamless integration of marine creatures as metaphors for diversity and individuality. From Edwin's initial struggles with acceptance to his eventual embrace of his true self, each chapter unfolds with depth and nuance. As a beacon of wisdom, Daedalus challenges Edwin and readers to embrace authenticity and question societal norms.
'Not Fishy Enough' is a captivating children's story and a thought-provoking self-help book. Through Edwin's journey, readers of all ages are encouraged to reflect on their beliefs and self-perceptions. Not only does it offer an entertaining narrative, but it also sparks meaningful discussions about acceptance and identity. As a result of Kolber's masterful storytelling and insightful reflections, "Not Fishy Enough" will appeal to a wide range of readers.
However, the book does have its drawbacks. Some readers may find the inclusion of sensitive topics, such as gender identity, inappropriate for the intended audience of children. However, its relevance is subjective, so I wouldn't deem it significant. A delightful, insightful, and relevant read, "Not Fishy Enough" deserves praise for its creativity, depth, and relevance. Whether you're a young reader or an adult embarking on a journey of self-discovery, I wholeheartedly recommend this book. With its exceptional editing and compelling narrative, I rate the book 5 out of 5 stars.
July 29, 2023
An incredibly timely book - written for the younger crowd, with so many pearls for adult readers. It is funny, clever, extremely thoughtful, and necessary. Discussion prompts and questions at the end allow readers to dive deeper into their own experiences of being and feeling not fishy enough.
Amidst the paradox of ruthless comparison via social media while striving for individuality, and subsequently feeling awful about our unique gifts when lined up next to others, this book tells the story of a crab who believes he is a fish - per his family and community in their isolated tide pool. But he gets a whiff of something out there, something bigger happening, and discovers that indeed he is not a fish at all but one kick ass crab who can do crabby things.
One of my favorite lines: "Any social rule that makes you feel worthless of something you can't control probably needs to go," said Campbell (Edwin's new crab buddy). "Sometimes you swim the same way and sometimes you swim different."
I loved this book - it was a delight to read. Very excited to use the prompts more deeply personally, and employ the book professionally with future clients as I pursue advanced training in psychiatry.
Amidst the paradox of ruthless comparison via social media while striving for individuality, and subsequently feeling awful about our unique gifts when lined up next to others, this book tells the story of a crab who believes he is a fish - per his family and community in their isolated tide pool. But he gets a whiff of something out there, something bigger happening, and discovers that indeed he is not a fish at all but one kick ass crab who can do crabby things.
One of my favorite lines: "Any social rule that makes you feel worthless of something you can't control probably needs to go," said Campbell (Edwin's new crab buddy). "Sometimes you swim the same way and sometimes you swim different."
I loved this book - it was a delight to read. Very excited to use the prompts more deeply personally, and employ the book professionally with future clients as I pursue advanced training in psychiatry.
April 26, 2024
"Not Fishy Enough" by Briton Kolber is an inspiring self-help book that shares Edwin's journey as he navigates finding his place in the world. Through his story, readers can learn valuable life lessons about identity, belonging, and acceptance. Edwin, an adopted fish, feels like an outsider among his peers until he discovers his true identity beyond the wall that surrounds his home.
The book is divided into two parts: Edwin's story and discussion topics based on his experiences. The author uses storytelling to convey important points in a memorable way, tackling sensitive topics with care and sensitivity.
As a psychotherapist, the author brings firsthand expertise to the topics, making the book relatable and impactful. I highly recommend "Not Fishy Enough," rating it 5 out of 5 stars, praising its professional editing, motivational content, and universal appeal for both adults and younger readers.
The book is divided into two parts: Edwin's story and discussion topics based on his experiences. The author uses storytelling to convey important points in a memorable way, tackling sensitive topics with care and sensitivity.
As a psychotherapist, the author brings firsthand expertise to the topics, making the book relatable and impactful. I highly recommend "Not Fishy Enough," rating it 5 out of 5 stars, praising its professional editing, motivational content, and universal appeal for both adults and younger readers.
May 10, 2023
This is a combination of a slightly short novel for kids and a self-help guide for the people who care about them. This story is about Edwin. He is an odd-looking fish. At least that's what everybody tells him. It has a simple but inspiring tone.This book is short and surprisingly very insightful. It’s a book you want to keep with you at all times. The author doesn’t beat around the bush and still manages to deliver the message with utmost clarity.
In life , most of us are dealing with a variety of issues and the author has clearly introduced them and given a suitable solution. The book is a perfect book which can help you to find, survive and to take right decisions in this era. The book contains insightful materials. So if you want a short and simple guide then do read this book.
In life , most of us are dealing with a variety of issues and the author has clearly introduced them and given a suitable solution. The book is a perfect book which can help you to find, survive and to take right decisions in this era. The book contains insightful materials. So if you want a short and simple guide then do read this book.
November 27, 2023
When you read the book, you will find that you are in front of an enjoyable book for lovers of books with two dimensions. It is a children’s book with regard to the first part and self help In the second part. The book tells the story of Edwin, a creature who lived to think he was a fish, only to discover deeper secrets about himself through an adventure that changed his life and the outlook of those around him. To read my full review of the book, please read it on OBC and Let me know your thoughts. There's the link to my review
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May 28, 2023
An important message in a lovely book. I like that Not Fishy Enough combines entertainment, lovable characters, and a lesson of self-acceptance all in one. This story works on a child's level to hold attention and build connection with the characters, but it simultaneously shares a deeper positive message that instills self-worth. I am happy this exists!
March 28, 2024
talks about a lot of positive values for kids.
This book is a heartwarming tale of self-discovery and friendship that encourages people to embrace their uniqueness and follow their own path, no matter how unconventional it may seem. It’s mainly written for kids, but adults might also find it enjoyable because of the valuable lessons it provides.
This book is a heartwarming tale of self-discovery and friendship that encourages people to embrace their uniqueness and follow their own path, no matter how unconventional it may seem. It’s mainly written for kids, but adults might also find it enjoyable because of the valuable lessons it provides.
June 25, 2024
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Review of Not Fishy Enough - reviewer Tomi Ahmed - OnlineBookClub.org https://forums.onlinebookclub.org/vie...
Review of Not Fishy Enough - reviewer Tomi Ahmed - OnlineBookClub.org https://forums.onlinebookclub.org/vie...
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