Coping with Erectile Dysfunction: How to Regain Confidence and Enjoy Great Sex by McCarthy PhD, Barry W., Metz PhD, Michael E. (2004) Paperback

by Barry W. McCarthy

There seem to be no end to the "authoritative" explanations and "guaranteed" easy treatments for erectile dysfunction (ED). Since the so-called Viagra revolution, conventional wisdom holds that the problem can be fixed simply by taking a pill. The truth of the matter is, though, that ED is often a complex condition affected by physical, psychological, relationship issues-and it's a problem shared by both a man and his partner. This book is the first ever to address this common problem using a comprehensive biological, psychological, and social approach. It offers a proven-effective program for regaining erectile function, building strong and intimate relationships, and having great sex.

Genres: Sexuality

Paperback

First published November 1, 2004

Reviews

[Michelle · Rating 3 out of 5]

From a practitioner point of view, this was a good book. However, it was a bit limited in the sense that it was totally heterosexual couple oriented.

[Critical Hysteria · Rating 1 out of 5]

No comment.

[Liam Carter · Rating 3 out of 5]

Navigating the turbulent waters of erectile dysfunction can feel like an uphill battle, but Barry W. McCarthy and Michael E. Metz offer a lifeline in their book, "Coping with Erectile Dysfunction." This guide is not just about medical jargon; it’s a heartfelt exploration of intimacy, confidence, and understanding in the face of a common yet often taboo issue.

McCarthy and Metz employ a relatable, down-to-earth style that resonates with anyone who’s ever felt lost in the sea of health information. They don’t just throw statistics at you; they share real stories that highlight the emotional weight carried by those experiencing erectile dysfunction. Their approach encourages readers to view this challenge as a shared journey, inviting partners to join the conversation rather than shying away from it.

One of the standout features of this book is its emphasis on rebuilding confidence. The authors provide a treasure trove of practical exercises designed to help individuals regain their sense of self-worth. They delve into the psychology behind erectile dysfunction, addressing the mental hurdles that often accompany it. For those wanting to dig deeper, resources on erectile dysfunction can offer additional insights.

Moreover, McCarthy and Metz emphasize the importance of communication, not just about the problem but about desires, fears, and expectations. They advocate for an open dialogue between partners, transforming what could be a source of shame into a platform for connection and intimacy.

In summary, "Coping with Erectile Dysfunction" is not just a book; it’s a companion for anyone struggling with this issue. McCarthy and Metz have crafted a narrative that is as informative as it is reassuring, proving that regaining confidence and enjoying great sex is possible with the right tools and mindset.

[John Wood · Rating 3 out of 5]

This book is well-written and helpful, but it was published in 2004, so it is dated, assuming only heterosexual relationships and many cultural beliefs have changed. It covers the physical and psychological psychosexual problems and lets the reader decipher possible causes and solutions and where to turn for reliable help.

[Carmon · Rating 4 out of 5]

Lots of redundancy but lots of practical ideas about expanding couple sexually and fostering intimacy by removing performance-based view of sex.

[Angie Hernandez · Rating 2 out of 5]

As a s3x therapist, this book is incredibly helpful for cishet clients who are boomers probably. The book is tone deaf and outdated for everyone else. There is some solid, helpful approaches to derive out of this book if you’re a practitioner but I’d be very careful to recommend this to folks (especially queer folx). Big yikes.