Your personality, abilities, interests, and dislikes vary with time, but you have influence over those changes. What can you do to change yourself into the person you most desire to be? Recognize the contrasts between your present self, past self, and future self. Imagine your ideal future self after To increase your chances of success, make your goals as explicit and detailed as you can. Finally, create (and re-create) an identity narrative that is in line with the person you want to become, then tell people about it! Your conduct is driven by your identity, and over time, this behavior shapes your personality. You will thus become the best version of yourself if you start acting like it.