Attached, The New Rules, Why Men Marry Bitches 3 Books Collection Set

by Amir Levine

Please Note That The Following Individual Books As Per Original ISBN and Cover Image In this Listing shall be Dispatched Attached, The New Rules, Why Men Marry Bitches 3 Books Collection Is there a science to love? In this groundbreaking book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Amir Levine and psychologist Rachel S. F. Heller reveal how an understanding of attachment theory - the most advanced relationship science in existence today - can help us find and sustain love. The New The Rules taught a generation of women how to turn their dating misery into marriage success. Dating gurus Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider showed millions of women how 'playing hard to get' could help them capture the heart of Mr Right. Their book proved controversial, sparked worldwide debate and became a publishing phenomenon. Why Men Marry Never shy and always laugh-out-loud funny, Why Men Marry THE EXPANDED NEW EDITION, is a classic bestseller that you will read over-and-over each time you need to feel more confident in your relationship. With girlfriend-to-girlfriend detail and the heartfelt advice you would only get from a big sister, Argov explains why being an extra-nice "people pleaser" won't necessarily make a man more devoted.

Paperback

Published January 1, 2020

About the author

Dr Amir Levine, MD, is an adult, child and adolescent psychiatrist and neuroscientist. He has been conducting neuroscience research at Columbia University, New York, for several years under the mentorship of Nobel Prize laureate Eric Kandel.

Reviews

[Bianca Karrer · Rating 3 out of 5]

6/10
I have a mostly secure attachment style with some anxious tendencies. To book started off good and helpful as I once had a really avoidant ex who made the anxious side in me come out for sure and it was calming to read about why I might have been so anxious during that time, when I am usually pretty collected, secure, have no problems being alone and also don’t worry much about not finding a partner, being alone for some time or communicating my needs.

BUT I really didn’t like how avoidants were all thrown into one box. Portraying them as the evil ones.
I don’t believe that every avoidant has no interest in commitment, constantly gives mixed signals and is just overall a really awful person.

I agree with the reviews that say that this was probably written from an anxious persons perspective and lense and lacks to see these three types objectively. Helping to understand each one, where their triggers might come from and what to do to solve them instead of portraying secure as the good ones, anxious as the victims and avoidants as the bad ones to stay away from.