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Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst by Rick Brinkman
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“إن الأشخاص الذين يعتقدون أن كل شيء ممكن هم القادرون على الاكتشاف والابداع”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“قد لا تكسب كل معركة، ولكنك تستطيع أن تكسب مزيداً من الاحترام !”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“لسوء الحظ، لا ينسى احد ابداً ما حدث”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“ان الكلمات باعتراف الجميع سهل قولها، ولكن العسير هو قولها باخلاص”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“القناصة لا يستطيعون التصيد لو لم تسمح لهم بالاختباء”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“إن الاغصان التي تنحني بفعل الثلوج تعيش حتى ترى شتاءً آخر”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“بعد مئة عام من الآن، ماذا ستعني هذه المشكلة؟”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“أداء الأشخاص الى حد ما يرقى أو ينحدر إلى مستوى توقعات الآخرين بالنسبة لهم”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“عندما تتعرض مجهودات شخص للحصول على التقدير للإحباط بسبب عدم مبالاة الآخر، فقد يتحول هذا الشخص إلى "القنبلة الموقوتة”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“بعض الناس يخفون شعورهم بالدونية لمدة عشرة سنوات قبل ان ينفجروا غاضبين”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“إن كراهية أناس يكرهون أنفسهم هي بمثابة سكب المزيد من البنزين على نيرانهم المتأججة بالفعل، بينما المطلوب هو بعض التفكير الهادئ والتصرف السلس.”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“إن المخاوف الغامضة والمشاعر السلبية تتعارض مع التفكير الواضح”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“لو أن التندر حقيقة يؤذيك تعلم أن تصبح سيداً لا يقهر على ردود فعلك”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“التوقيت قد يكون مهماً، والتوقيت المناسب يتطلب صبراً”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“الصمت اذا يمكن ان يكون نوعاً من العدوانية المغطاة”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“There are attitudinal changes that you can make in yourself that will set you free from your reactions to problem people.”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“لا يتعاون أحد مع شخص يبدو مناهضاًُ له”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“في العالم الحقيقي، لا يحب كل الناس السخرية، أو ليس لديهم القدرة على الضحك على استهزاء كان يعرف طريقه جيداً”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“complaining to people who can do nothing tends to lower morale and productivity, while postponing effective action.”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“If you don’t resist it, once critical people have had their say, they’re done with it. Say “Thanks for being honest” or “Thanks for taking the time to let me know how you feel” or “Thanks for caring so much.” Simple, subtle, and sweet.”
Rick Kirschner, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“Expressions of negativity can be virulent, spreading like the flu through teams of people.”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“In your relationships with others, be wary of criticizing. Feedback helps people improve their performance, and as such, is a positive thing. Criticism rarely improves, and generally destroys, whatever it is aimed at. When people offer suggestions or share their ideas and accomplishments with you, practice noticing and talking about what you like before offering your feedback on how to improve it.”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“Perhaps you’ve heard the proverb, “Give people a fish and they eat for a day, but teach them to fish and they eat for a lifetime.” Well, it is also true that “you can lead people to water, but you can’t make them fish.”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“your behavior changes as your priorities change.”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“Interrupt the Attack. The best way to interrupt people, whether they are yelling or not, is to evenly say their name over and over again until you have their full attention—first name, last name, title, whatever name you use for them in the normal course of your relationship. In the case of attacking Tanks, it works best to say their name firmly, clearly, and repeatedly, until they stop attacking. Five or six repetitions should be enough to bring the most determined Tank to a halt. Although some Tanks may attempt to override your voice by raising the volume of theirs. Nevertheless, persevere, and continue to repeat their name until they come to a complete stop.”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“Know-It-Alls control people and events by dominating the conversation with lengthy, imperious arguments, and they eliminate opposition by finding flaws and weaknesses to discredit other points of view. Because Know-It-Alls are actually knowledgeable and competent.”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“Studies show that people who love their jobs, as well as husbands and wives who are happily married, feel appreciated for what they do and who they are.”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can’t Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“Any attempt to attack, defend, or withdraw will work against you. Instead, you must restrain these reactive tendencies, find the courage to stand your ground, and then step forward in the face of this determined opposition.”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“Or recall a time in your own past when you stood up to a bully. If you know people who know how to handle your Tank, imagine being those people and thinking or feeling whatever it is they feel or think that allows them to be more effective. Identify models of people who have the self-confidence, self-esteem, and self-control to deal calmly and professionally with pushy people. For example, imagine what it would feel like to be Clint Eastwood, saying, “Go ahead. Make my day.” Whichever of these methods you use, make it a mental habit to rehearse dealing with your Tank at least a few times, until you feel comfortable with the prospect of using it.”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst
“Whenever you’re being verbally assaulted, attacked, and accused, your goal must be to command respect because Tanks simply don’t attack people they respect. Aggressive people require assertive responses. Your behavior must send a clear signal that you are strong and capable because anything less is an invitation for further attacks.”
Rick Brinkman, Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst

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