David Gill’s Reviews > Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men > Status Update

"[The abuser] tries to take your anger away in order to snuff out the capacity to resist his will. Finally, he perceives your anger as a *challenge* to his authority, to which he responds by overpowering you with anger that is greater than your own. In this way he ensures that he retains the exclusive right to be the one who shows anger. " It's as if this author was in meetings I've had.