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Ha. I like the tidbit about the rebel/obliger couple. I feel like that's exactly where my spouse and I are at! Funny, because I never understood why he absolutely refused to be on time! Now, it makes more sense that it's in his nature to rebel. (Easier to figure him out than to figure out where I am.)

"From what I've observed, our Tendencies are hard wired, and while they can be offset to some degree, they can't be changed." "Yer whatever our Tendency, with greater experience and wisdom, we can pears to counterbalance its negative aspects."

I know, I know.. I'm still in the introduction. I have to update that I just eat up her words. She's good at writing in a way that is fluid - she doesn't make you have to read and reread to make sure you got it right. Looking forward to it.

This is very interesting -- I think I'll end up finishing today too!

Weirdly, reading Rubin's methods for scheduling and planning make me want to be rebellious and NOT do that. I'm a fan of order and schedules and plans, but reading how she does it is kind of unappealing and makes it feel so rigid and tough to do.

I fall between two Tendencies, I think.

I'm all inspired to make start some better habits!