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Hey..I'm a girl and in the sixth grade also and we are the same age so I kno how you feel all these girls and guys are going out exept mii and my friends. If a guy asked mii out I would like it if he was funni abt it...I kno I like funni guys and apparently the signs you are getting from this girl seems like she likes a funni guy...So try to be yourself just meet her by her locker when she's ALONE (asking infront of her friends might be akward and thts a speacil moment she would probably want to have alone)So be like "Hey Buddy How's it going?"...Talk a bit then be like "So hey I was thinking I kind of like you and was wondering if you'd want to go out?"...Try not to come off too strong...Wait for her answer...If she says she wants to be friends dnt be hurt maybe she's just not ready to go out and wants to stay a kid...I hope this helps..
same experience here. i'm in the 9th grade though so its probably a little different. i've learned one important thing from experience, and that is the following. GO FOR IT B4 IT'S TOO LATE!!!!!! basicly it means that it would be better for you to know than to wonder and never know cause she isn't there for some reason...like mooving...trust me, you REALY don't want go through what i have......'...' i don't know if it's good advlce, but it's the one thing i would have done differently...
i agree with ridi dont come on too strong, but dont just say nothing and expect her to get it, and if she declines just say something like "okay, well i dont want this to ruin our friendship, so just friends?" and hopefully shell say yes. I hope that helps. so... in a nutshell- dont be too obvious, but dont expect her to get it if u just hint at it, dont look too sad or mad if she doesnt say yes.
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*high fives ridi back* oh yah!
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lolz
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need wat?
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So Dean what do you think of our advice?
u should stay friends if she doesnt want a relationship
Dean wrote: "The thing is my freind asked her out and she said no and I asked her why she said no and she said that she dosent want a boyfreind.Me and Kaille (the name of the girl) are good freinds, maybe we sh..."I think it's a lot better to ask sum1 out in person or on the phone at least rather than online
Yeah it's just a lot more personal that way
I got asked out in a note once...it made it a lot less awkward bcuz I rejected the guy lol
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I'm srry but the FaceBook asking out just seems...IDK...Weird like you kno it won't be special just sumthin posted on the internet...Tht doesnt realli show tht you care much...But if thts how everyone's doing in your area sure do it if you like the idea...I personally dnt but...But my opinion doesnt matter but Kaille might...But if she said she doesnt want a relationship just you kno...Dont ask her just yet...Maybe you should wait a while or ask her if she said no to tht guy becuz she had her eye on sumone else...(it could be you)...And then just try to be a REALLI GREAT friend for her...Then when she is ready ask her out ...I hope this works...
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lolz....But thts sweet..The guy asking you out on a note I mean...It shows he is shy...Poor Guy...
just ask her out and tell her if u are friends wit her there shouldn't be must tension u never know unless u try
*Ridi* wrote: "Sarah wrote: "I got asked out in a note once...it made it a lot less awkward bcuz I rejected the guy lol"lolz....But thts sweet..The guy asking you out on a note I mean...It shows he is shy...Poo..."
He was desperate...he asked me out 3 times! lol
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lolz....But thts sweet..The guy asking you out on a note I mean...It show..."
Ok Woah!...Doesnt he kno desperate guyz are.....a turn off to girlz?....
is shyness a bad thing? if it is then i'll prolly never get a girl friend, which is ok for me...
*Ridi* wrote: "Sarah wrote: "*Ridi* wrote: "Sarah wrote: "I got asked out in a note once...it made it a lot less awkward bcuz I rejected the guy lol"lolz....But thts sweet..The guy asking you out on a note I me..."
lol he's not very bright!!!!
Eric▲ wrote: "is shyness a bad thing? if it is then i'll prolly never get a girl friend, which is ok for me..."shyness isn't a bad thing. it's natural :)
Yuppers! I'm a really shy person too Eric!
That's probably why I've never had a boyfriend...oh well, I'm not gonna think about it right now =P
shyness is ok! i was nothing but shy when i first really talked to my future bf (well, ya no we're toghether now) but i was soooo quiet! i could barely make a sentance! lol! dont worry sarah! theres someone out there who loves you! you'll find them!!!!
Amanda wrote: "shyness is ok! i was nothing but shy when i first really talked to my future bf (well, ya no we're toghether now) but i was soooo quiet! i could barely make a sentance! lol!
dont worry sarah! the..."
it was easy for me to talk to my crush, because our "groups" were kindof like enemy groups..... and so i just kind of pretended to hate him... until he asked me out online.... :D
dont worry sarah! the..."
it was easy for me to talk to my crush, because our "groups" were kindof like enemy groups..... and so i just kind of pretended to hate him... until he asked me out online.... :D
I don't have trouble talking to my crush either...he's my bff
i dont have trouble talking to my bf either, we have sooo much to talk about, even when it doesnt even make sense. :)
lol I'm good a talking about stuff that doesn't make sense...I'll be like "she said that he said that he wanted her to tell you to tell me that she...wait, what?!" It's soooo fun!!!!
ditto to the talking about stuff that doesnt make sense. like my bf and i were kinda disagreeing (but in a loving way) about vampires. he said you can kill a vamp with a silver knife, i said no, u cant and we had fun talking like that. lol!
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sumtimes...Like at first if there a bit shy it's cute becuz it shows they are sensitive but later if your like going out for a while then you should loosen up a bit and shouldnt be so shy anymore
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lolz....But thts sweet..The guy asking you out..."
lolz...Imiaginr going out with a dumb guy!...Tht would be torture
Yes it would be! Stupid ppl give me headaches!
reply to post 45(SORRY cant copy and paste on psp) orly?
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its been almost 10 months ive been with my bf and im still shy. but not as shy as i was in the begining.
shyness is a wierd concept. But cool it helps you not say alot of things better not said (ERIC). WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT!! "DON'T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE I DID" YOU NEVER TOLD ME ABOUT WHOEVER "HER" IS
but in my opinion its really pointless to go out in middle skool, i've had 2 girlfriends and it really is just a game u always lose. and for the enevitable break up, make sure u either dont get pissed or get her pissed.