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2 Very Different Feelings?
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Lynny
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Jan 17, 2009 05:23PM
Ok, I have liked this guy for almost a year, and he is a really good friend, and i can't see myself EVER not liking him, or just liking anyone else. I'm serious. When i found out he might like someone else, i wanted to do whatever i could to make sure that he was happy, and i would be happier if he was happy. But in this last month i have started talking to this other guy, and he is really sweet, yet totally weird, i kinda feel like i might like him TOO! But the feelings for both of them are VERY different. Any advice?
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see which 1 u like the most n by wat u said it looks like guy # 1 likes someone esle so he's not a n option so go with guy #2 this is a very confusing situation let me kno if this didnt help
well, there is the type of liking where you love somebody and then there is the type of like that you might want ot be friends or even more than friends,but if you still love the guy you have been talking about Lynny then i think you know who you love and who you like.If this other guy likes you back or even if you can make the relashonship grow then it would be cool,right?
Lynny wrote: "Ok, I have liked this guy for almost a year, and he is a really good friend, and i can't see myself EVER not liking him, or just liking anyone else. I'm serious. When i found out he might like some..."
awww I know how you feel. I would have done the same thing in order to make my crush happy but this situation is very....complicated. My only advice is to wait and see where your relationships with both guys lead to, whether it leads to love or just friendship. Hope it helps....
awww I know how you feel. I would have done the same thing in order to make my crush happy but this situation is very....complicated. My only advice is to wait and see where your relationships with both guys lead to, whether it leads to love or just friendship. Hope it helps....
Ok, you guys are really helpful, it's just that the second guy I told you about, ya, I found out that he likes me a couple of months ago... so that adds even more confusion... I dunno what to do...
yeah, do you like him back???????????
ok so basically think about your two feelings...is one of them only lust? or maybe it's just a crush? it could be one of the "i <3 you as a brother" sorta thing or maybe it could be true <3 my guess is you like the 2nd one better because of how you described him
when you say lust, what exactly do you mean???
lynny, about ur first comment in this topic, that sounds almost exactly like my situation. but im going to edit. 1) i dont like any other guy. 2) theres another girl who loves him, and its very obvious that he'd be going out with her if i wasnt here. 3) i love him alot, and just want him to be happy 4) he obviously cares for her in some way, and i wont object to any choice he makes about her. if hes happy, thats enough.
oh and he is my bf, and i dont have another guy who likes me.
yeah, it is comfusing. i feel for you lynny!!!
r u asking lynny or me? i assume lynny, but i could b wrong, i just wanna make sure.
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i ended up talking to him about it. it went well. still some unanswered questions, but its better. lotsa things were answered and cleared up. thanks to all who helped me!
awww ur welcome
omg you guys. ok so now i found out that they both like me. WTF AM I GOING TO DO! I LIKE GUY NUMBER 1 BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!!!! They are best friends and i am friends with both of them. I don't want to mess things up. should i just like leave it?
yea. give it some time. things will fall into place with time.
yeah do what amanda said...kay,so you dont like guy #2 at all? but your sure you like guy # 1 well Lynny maybe the guy you like will come to his senses and ask you to be his gf.
i agree good things come to thoes who wait!!
sorry not gonna comment...i don't really feel sane...
sry i havent been on! got banned from the compurter 4 a while! oops! lol!
......no i just feel that good things don't always come
well not always but sometimes it can go both wayz
gosh eric! i was having a good day! ;)
eric,you have me as a friend. thts a good thing tht HAS come to you. send ma message and tell me whats going on,ok?
