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oooooh! i had a happy day for like the first time in a long time!
Nafissatou.traore wrote: "oooooh! i had a happy day for like the first time in a long time!"i need to rephrase thst! i think i mite puke of revenge and depression...
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WoW! I read the whole convo above. And now I am thinking... This is earth right? :D :D
Charlie I luv Gale Hawthorne wrote: "Aw, what happen?"u wrealy wnt to know cause its realy long...
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o.k here it goes...!:
well there i go we had this dance at my school not the tux and dress kind of way the one with thigh jeans boys talking about there nikes etc...!you know theirs music blasting and everyone is doing the nasty on each other got the point? so me and my two friends are like dancing there asses off and the teachers are like braking us apart! next thing you know i have my exboyfreid pulling me into him soo where like dancing and u know doing whatever and he literally grabs me in the ass I'm backing away and he grabs my arm and I'm like "back the f up" soo he just pushes me on him! and get this is all happening with chaos all around then finally i just let him do whatever so like two songs later I'm literally exhausted and am trying to get away from everything! i do and I'm talking to one of my guy friend where talking about the dance that's going around and all the groping that happening then next thing u know i have this best Friend that's not my friend anymore for like four years her and Trent /(boyfriend) are like entwined in each other? what f? i lock eyes with Trent and he just keeps on doing his thing! I'm like o.k i don't know what to feel so i go back to my locker like 30 minutes before the bell rings go to the computer lab and chill for a sec i realize this: 1)i mite as well be a whore or bitch or idiot to dance with Trent?
2)my boyfriend just again proved himself a jerk that pretends to be in love with me!
3)i just figured out again for the 30000000 time that i have bitches for friends this is alll my asses(my) fault and that if i don't punch someone there will be blood to pay at basketball practice tmorow!
p.s I'm right am i? this is my fault right? just needed someones opinion because in my opinion this would sooo not hurt me this bad if i would have NOT danced with him?
don't beat your self up I mean I get that you feel pissed off ans trust me I would be too but I think hating your life because of this isn't worth it.
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you know theirs music blasting and everyone is doin..."
Nothing is ever your fault. Because if you're guilty, that means you have a soul. If you have a soul, you're probably a nice person. The bad things and complications that happen in life are the result of bad people. Hence, it is not your fault.
GRRRRRRRRRR! i'm realy tired of him....
midnigtmystery wrote: "don't beat your self up I mean I get that you feel pissed off ans trust me I would be too but I think hating your life because of this isn't worth it."hes freaking... i dont know who he is anymore?!
i'd say tell him what you feel. Tell him that he isnt the same person anymore. Be frank. Thats the best thing you can do for the other person. But thats just what i say. Its upto you.
OK this always puts me in a good mood it's ok if you don't know what going on but it is FUNNY!! just watch it Rue-Lu beware it has cussing
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huh? FIVE FING STAIRSSSSSSS! i wish my cat can see this but it's in the other room!
did u at least think it was funny?
i just checked my facebook page and i whant to puke...~speechless~...
@Rue-Lu What?
@ Nafissatou.traore Why?
@ Nafissatou.traore Why?
i went to check my Facebook page and change my status then i see that Trent wrote a bunch of stuff that i wont repeat but the bummer is what my ex best freind wrote and i quote "the b***** broke women hood yesterday dancing with my Trent ?" Wat the f? u danced and practically had a make out with my f*** ex boyfreind? right in front of me?... shitshitshit this is just too much?
i'm about to delete my facebook page i know thats just wat they wnt!
don't give them what they want and you are stronger than them don't listen to their crap.You can beat them.
it's soo loud inside my mindwith all the words you said
they told me not to listen but i did
you got what you wanted
get out of my mind now
leave me with the respect of a dout
leave that hope alone
cause with the fuck you did to me thats all i have?!
but you are two and i'm one...
and eventualy that hope withers and dies
i hope with all my heart the you are happy
that you are laughing
because it will be a long time befor those kind of emotions leave my mouth
until next time...
i'm going to go to my room close the door take a shower turn off all the light crank up my ipod and start no thinking...
Wow, I just read all about what happened, Nafissa, and I am kinda shocked.
It turns out you're hanging in the wrong crowd, wrong people. No all of them are this way, but seems like some of em just are there not for the friendship factor.
Why are you going out with someone who is a total jerk, first of all? You deserve better, you know you do. You just gotta wait for the right person.
I know people are all like, "forgivingness" and all that stuff, but that doesn't always apply. You only forgive a person when they have actually deserved that from you. When they have learned from their mistakes. Looks like Trent hasn't learned from his previous mistakes.
I know how tough it is to think about all this and actually try to do something about it. You should probably try to ignore it for a while, but soon enough, you'll have to face it. And when you do, your decision will affect your future a lot, your friends, your feelings, etc.
So try to learn from your own mistakes. Some friends/boyfriends aren't meant for you.
It turns out you're hanging in the wrong crowd, wrong people. No all of them are this way, but seems like some of em just are there not for the friendship factor.
Why are you going out with someone who is a total jerk, first of all? You deserve better, you know you do. You just gotta wait for the right person.
I know people are all like, "forgivingness" and all that stuff, but that doesn't always apply. You only forgive a person when they have actually deserved that from you. When they have learned from their mistakes. Looks like Trent hasn't learned from his previous mistakes.
I know how tough it is to think about all this and actually try to do something about it. You should probably try to ignore it for a while, but soon enough, you'll have to face it. And when you do, your decision will affect your future a lot, your friends, your feelings, etc.
So try to learn from your own mistakes. Some friends/boyfriends aren't meant for you.
And about your ex-boyfriend. Does he not have any sense?! Try to date proper people in the future, people who will treat you with respect, the way you deserve to be treated.
I am not sure how you can get him to stop. (Would he still do that?)
This really isn't your fault. And why does it matter in the first place whose it is? As long as you know how to fix it, it's all good. Don't beat yourself over it.
Tell me how it turns out.
Your friend,
Ven
I am not sure how you can get him to stop. (Would he still do that?)
This really isn't your fault. And why does it matter in the first place whose it is? As long as you know how to fix it, it's all good. Don't beat yourself over it.
Tell me how it turns out.
Your friend,
Ven
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You should tell Trent what he did wrong and how you feel about it. Don't try to avoid him forever. It isn't gonna help.
You should tell Trent what he did wrong and how you feel about it. Don't try to avoid him forever. It isn't gonna help.
okay... he actually was not like that before he just started to be to controlive u know? then i dont know? i guess i will have to confront him sometime but get this: we been this road for about 3 times and i'm just tired of it kind of DONE with all the crap and they just lovee! to see me down the hall in my worst! soo i guess?wait i guess that's him at the door see y'all in 15...
i think i am the one who has been makeing all the chats
Rue-Lu wrote: "i think i am the one who has been makeing all the chats"huh? counfused?
this is sad very sad...life CANOT be any bether then THISSSS!!? ~sighting~
Nafissatou.traore wrote: "okay... he actually was not like that before he just started to be to controlive u know? then i dont know? i guess i will have to confront him sometime but get this: we been this road for about 3 t..."
So, either he changed or he was only pretending to be a different person at first..
3 times? That is exactly the reason you're not supposed to forgive him...
So? You act as though this is a battle. But there is no battle. You're afraid to lose, to lower your pride and dignity.
It takes a lot of courage and maturity to confront them...or to "lose" this battle. To let them see you at your worst. I mean, I probably would try to hold back my tears or something (I'm not sure how well that would work), but does it really matter if they see you cry? What? They'll remember it for a week or two at most? Ok, I agree, I probably wouldn't want anyone to see me cry either, but there really isn't much you can do about it. Just try avoiding them as much as possible, and when they do see you, act like you're happy or something. Give a smile. I don't know, just do the unexpected.
But I don't think you realize that by losing you're actually winning (if there is a battle :D).
In the future, try to avoid friendship with these type of people. They aren't worth their drama.
I really have no clue whether what any of what I said made any sense, but just think about it.
:)
So, either he changed or he was only pretending to be a different person at first..
3 times? That is exactly the reason you're not supposed to forgive him...
So? You act as though this is a battle. But there is no battle. You're afraid to lose, to lower your pride and dignity.
It takes a lot of courage and maturity to confront them...or to "lose" this battle. To let them see you at your worst. I mean, I probably would try to hold back my tears or something (I'm not sure how well that would work), but does it really matter if they see you cry? What? They'll remember it for a week or two at most? Ok, I agree, I probably wouldn't want anyone to see me cry either, but there really isn't much you can do about it. Just try avoiding them as much as possible, and when they do see you, act like you're happy or something. Give a smile. I don't know, just do the unexpected.
But I don't think you realize that by losing you're actually winning (if there is a battle :D).
In the future, try to avoid friendship with these type of people. They aren't worth their drama.
I really have no clue whether what any of what I said made any sense, but just think about it.
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Idk? I think he changed! Yhea three times I thats why I'm tired and frustrated because I gave him all these chances and he just crapped it back on my face!.
"I run solo now"
I like that. It's catchy. :)
I like that. It's catchy. :)
I'm kind of o.k today! Why? Teel you later! Mourning announcement in five min!
Yayy!!!
Morning assignemts probably suck..Have fun anyway. Have some extra fun doing the assignment for me. :D
Morning assignemts probably suck..Have fun anyway. Have some extra fun doing the assignment for me. :D
AHHHHH I HAVE TO WAKE UP AT 8 30 AND IT'S 1 IN THE MORNING. DARN YOU GOODREADS!!!!!!!
Lol! You're probably asleep right now, but you should've tried out some pushups and crunches! :D
Sam wrote: "Lol! You're probably asleep right now, but you should've tried out some pushups and crunches! :D"
I swear, they work everytime! (Seriously, I swear!)
I swear, they work everytime! (Seriously, I swear!)
Sam wrote: "Lol! You're probably asleep right now, but you should've tried out some pushups and crunches! :D"How would that work...
Owwww?! Someone stoll my teady bear Jamison!
Nafissatou.traore wrote: "Owwww?! Someone stoll my teady bear Jamison!"O...kay.
I met a girl who doesn't like pie. Isn't that crazy?