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message 1: by Kübra ℂ⋆ (last edited Jul 16, 2011 11:54PM) (new)

Kübra ℂ⋆  (khadija_kubraa) Do you have any minor or major problems that you will like to share with us? We have many girls in this group that I am sure would like to help you out. If you’re shy, don’t worry coz I’m sure all the girls here wont judge or hate on you for your opinion/view/beliefs.

and i have all the girls a little something for all the girls out their who need that little bit of push to rise up!

"Who Honors those we love for the very life we live? Who sends monsters to kill us...and at the same time sings that we'll never die? Who teaches us what's real...and how to laugh at lies? Who decides why we live and what we'll die to defend? Who chains us...and who holds the key that can set us free? It's you. You have all the weapons you need. NOW FIGHT!"

message 2: by Thalia (new)

Thalia (thaliaanderson) I've had a weak back for the past...five or six years. It makes school really hard, and it makes sitting up really hard, and since I'm a stickler to ask for help, sometimes I'm just stuck at home. No doctors we've gone to can figure out what's wrong with me, and we can't afford to have an MRI, which is the next step in trying to find out what's wrong with me. I had to give up softball because of it, and sometimes I can't even stand up long enough to last four songs during choir competitions.

That's my sob story; while when I explain it, and when I think about it at a period of time when I'm not in immense pain, I view it as being completely minor. But when I'm enduring the pain and wondering when/if I'll ever be better, it feels like the only thing in the world. But that's a pretty big part of me, and I usually have to end up explaining it to people I know online anyhow, so there you arrreeee.

Kübra ℂ⋆  (khadija_kubraa) Hmm, well Thalia. Have you ever decided to research up your back pain on the web? Maybe if you do some research it could give you a little more knowledge on what you are dealing with.

Is there a reason why you can’t get a professional, private doctor?

All in all, NEVER GIVE UP! I am sure there will be a day when the time will come for you, were you will be able to do everything you love. Just keep on praying and never give up faith.......

Also i advise that your parents should take you to a doctor who is an expert in back pains and soars. The doctor down the street might not be able to do much as what you have could be far more dangerous and complicated. Sorry if I’m depressing you, but this is your life and you should take control of it.

Ruby~am I a part of the cure? (openupyoureyes) | 105 comments I hate my eyelids.

Kübra ℂ⋆  (khadija_kubraa) Why so?

message 6: by Thalia (new)

Thalia (thaliaanderson) Alexis: Unfortunately, there's not much on my type of pain. I fell, once, in the middle of my back, but the pain sort of...came and went, and got worse each time it came. I have upper back pain, while most back problems are related to the lower back. I had an x-ray and a bone scan (which is an x-ray, except more detailed), which didn't show anything (except a wee bit of arthiritis). We went to a back specialist, but all HE said was that I was having "growing pains". >>

I grew out of my child doctor, and with the economy and uncertainty about health care in the future, there aren't many doctors/hospitals accepting new patients, especially ones with existing conditions. Also, we don't have health insurance, so we have to be careful about how much goes into all of it. I haven't died or been severely wounded as of yet, so I'm okay with coping and taking Aleve if it means we get to keep the roof over our heads.

Ruby: Aww. D: Why don't you like your eyelids?!

Kübra ℂ⋆  (khadija_kubraa) Thalia: Fair enough. I like your opinion. Well then if it is growing pain, i am sure it will go away soon enough.
I do have an idea maybe......maybe you have little skin space so your bones don’t have much space to grow in......this also may be the cause of your pain >>> just a theory though.

message 8: by Thalia (new)

Thalia (thaliaanderson) Thanks for your opinion, hun. (: Anything is better than "You have growing pains. Go swimming."

Kübra ℂ⋆  (khadija_kubraa) Haha! No worries, anytime!
I was just wondering, how old are you?

message 10: by Thalia (new)

Thalia (thaliaanderson) I'm sixteen. (:

message 11: by Kübra ℂ⋆ (new)

Kübra ℂ⋆  (khadija_kubraa) Hmm, well you still have a looong time to grow! :)

message 13: by Kübra ℂ⋆ (new)

Kübra ℂ⋆  (khadija_kubraa) Im turning 15 in Oct.

◄○♦☻♦○►[]◘♪♪ | 12 comments yay.. but mine was april..
geez i'd like to be 5 again and start it all over

message 15: by Thalia (new)

Thalia (thaliaanderson) Oh my goodness, I feel old!

message 16: by Kübra ℂ⋆ (new)

Kübra ℂ⋆  (khadija_kubraa) Haha! lolz...ur not! Trust me!

message 17: by ◄○♦☻♦○►[]◘♪♪ (last edited Jul 17, 2011 12:57AM) (new)

◄○♦☻♦○►[]◘♪♪ | 12 comments really.. i feel way too old.. if i could, i'd start it with a fresh perfection in everything.. miss my old days:(

Ruby~am I a part of the cure? (openupyoureyes) | 105 comments Hahaah long story. I just have to live with it though.

message 19: by Kübra ℂ⋆ (last edited Jul 17, 2011 03:37AM) (new)

Kübra ℂ⋆  (khadija_kubraa) Well, Ruby....were here to listen ;)

Ruby~am I a part of the cure? (openupyoureyes) | 105 comments I just don't feel like explaining. It's not like anybody can do anything about it

message 21: by Kübra ℂ⋆ (new)

Kübra ℂ⋆  (khadija_kubraa) Hmmm, well *shruugs* up to u

message 22: by Kübra ℂ⋆ (new)

Kübra ℂ⋆  (khadija_kubraa) Oh HorseFreak i am sorry to hear that. I guess no one can help you over cyber space.......but i guess i can wish you luck.

Goodluck over the furure ♥

message 23: by Kübra ℂ⋆ (new)

Kübra ℂ⋆  (khadija_kubraa) anytime :P

message 24: by Thalia (new)

Thalia (thaliaanderson) Aw, Horse, that's terrible! I know things will get easier as time goes, even if it doesn't seem like it now. Keep your faith, and you're a stronger person because you've endured so much. <3


I made this video way back in March, but I still feel the same.

Ruby~am I a part of the cure? (openupyoureyes) | 105 comments That video was beautiful. I almost cried :( I'm so sorry for you for feeling that way.

message 26: by ♥Sky♥ (new)

♥Sky♥  | 182 comments Mod
I've gained weight!

message 27: by Brigid ✩ (new)

Brigid ✩ Well ah, I don't have any terrible problems at the moment.
Except I'm on a trip with my family right now and they're all puking ... It's gross. O_o

ß®ï:Dģε₮  *The Gothic Nerd of Revenge!* o.O | 244 comments Thalia wrote: "I'm sixteen. (:"

me too. :)

message 29: by Madelyn (new)

Madelyn (mad31lina) | 309 comments Thalia wrote: "Aw, Horse, that's terrible! I know things will get easier as time goes, even if it doesn't seem like it now. Keep your faith, and you're a stronger person because you've endured so much. <3


That's a really good video :)

message 30: by Thalia (new)

Thalia (thaliaanderson) Ruby & Madelyn: Thank you both! Lately, I've been putting too much emotion into my videos, I feel. I get too connected to the characters I use. XD

Unfortunately, one of my best friends sort of...ditched me because of the video. And then her friends started attacking me on tumblr because I "stole her song" and if I "cared about her at all, I wouldn't have used that song".

I lost a friendship over a song. What in the.

Brigid: Oh man! Why is everyone sick?!

message 31: by Sherry (new)

Sherry (sdmccarty) I almost lost a friend because I worked hard, dieted, and exercised like a boss to lose weight. Honestly, what up with that? People are weird. If you lost them over something like that, they weren't worth knowing.

message 32: by Brigid ✩ (new)

Brigid ✩ Thalia wrote: "Ruby & Madelyn: Thank you both! Lately, I've been putting too much emotion into my videos, I feel. I get too connected to the characters I use. XD

Unfortunately, one of my best friends sort of...d..."

Um, I don't know. Because of germs? lol. My little sister got it and then kinda gave it to everyone else. :P Luckily no one's puking anymore. ... Although I don't want to jinx it. XD

message 33: by Thalia (new)

Thalia (thaliaanderson) Sherry: Oh man! Sorry to hear that. :/ Maybe she was just jealous of you.

You'd think that a person who IMs you saying, "You know; I think you're one of the few people who I'd go to the ends of the earth for" wouldn't be the same one to ditch you over something so small. It's like, "... wait, are you delusional?"

Brigid: Hahahha, well, thumbs up for not puking!

message 34: by Sherry (new)

Sherry (sdmccarty) haha, maybe. I think it was because I was "the fat one," and then she became the heaviest and couldn't deal with it. It's not a big deal now. She spent her month calling me a b*tch, and I spent the month trying to logically explain how and why I happened to start exercising like a mad man. Now, we cool.

Seriously. If they would go to the end of the earth for you, then something small like that shouldn't matter. If they really 'cared/loved' then they would just want you to be happy.

Not puking is good! I hope that lasts for a very VERY long time!

message 35: by Savita (new)

Savita (haltranger) | 417 comments Umm...Sometimes I worry that the voices in my head are suicidal.

Holy shiznit I sound psycho.

message 36: by Andrea (new)

Andrea | 18 comments You should really talk to someone close to you, someone whom you can trust. If you dont have anyone to talk to, talk to God . He is always willing to listen. Oh and you need to listen to the song 'why' by rascal flatts. Shows just how much everyone around you is affected by suicide. I cry everytime i listen to it. Good luck, i pray you find the happiness to see you through when your thoughts become dark.

btw, you dont sound like a psycho : )

message 37: by Savita (new)

Savita (haltranger) | 417 comments I'm still working on that. I'm a bit too introverted of a person.
Rascal Flatts, love their songs...Never heard Why, though.
Thank you!

(You have no idea how much that means to me...)

message 38: by Andrea (new)

Andrea | 18 comments No problem at all! There were a couple kids at my school who committed suicide over the past 5 or so years, and it was a heart breaking time. I never really knew them personally,just a conversation here or there, but i just wonder if someone would have shown they cared if they would have changed their minds. When i read your comment, i just couldnt pass it up. You can send me a message anytime if you ever need support!

Oh, and Im pretty sure you can find the song on youtube!

message 39: by Savita (new)

Savita (haltranger) | 417 comments I'll look for it on a day I'm not supposed to be doing summer homework...*cross eyed*

message 40: by Andrea (new)

Andrea | 18 comments haha! Thats exactly how i feel!

message 41: by Savita (new)

Savita (haltranger) | 417 comments There's soooo much, and I've got tons left. And I'm leaving the US for two weeks starting on Tuesday!! I won't be able to work!!

message 42: by Andrea (new)

Andrea | 18 comments it seems like the summer always goes by so fast! Here it is july, and i've got lots to do! Where are you traveling to?

message 43: by Savita (new)

Savita (haltranger) | 417 comments Singapore, for family.
July's almost over...And I didn't even get to read half the books I wanted to...

message 44: by Andrea (new)

Andrea | 18 comments Cool, i've never been out of the country, or even on a plane. I guess that's a problem in its own way! : ) ill be a senior this year, so i guess reading what i want to read is out of the picture until next summer! So much to do, so little time to do it!

message 45: by Savita (new)

Savita (haltranger) | 417 comments O.O Yikes. You make me feel little. I'm gonna be a freshman.
Yay. Fresh meat, at my school...

message 46: by Andrea (new)

Andrea | 18 comments It will go by so quickly, you will turn around and you'll be a senior! Freshman year wasnt bad, but i remember feeling small compared to the juniors and seniors too. Just remember to have fun!!

message 47: by Savita (new)

Savita (haltranger) | 417 comments I'll try--I'm taking all the advanced classes available, and I'm terrified.

message 48: by Andrea (new)

Andrea | 18 comments You'll be fine! I did that through high school too! (wow already talking about it in the past!) Trust me, youll be glad you did it. If you do your best, you will have nothing to regret!

message 49: by Savita (new)

Savita (haltranger) | 417 comments Yeah. *deep breaths*

Kinda sucks, though. One of my bffs (we've known each other for eight years, same school, lots of shared classes) is going to a private school.

message 50: by Andrea (new)

Andrea | 18 comments Yeah i understand. It does suck. But you can still hang out together right?

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