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The Child Called "IT"
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Jul 22, 2010 07:05AM

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Dave had many battles to fight on a daily basis at a young age. He had to steal food to eat and sometimes he didn’t eat at all. Sometimes he went without food for days. His mother sent him to school with dirty clothes and his classmates teased him. She didn’t let him bathe, so when he went to school he had a bad odor. Dave could not eat at the dinner table with his siblings. Some days he would eat scraps from the trash. The most horrible action a mother could do to their own child, Dave’s mom did it. She stabbed him. I don’t understand how could a mother that is supposed to love her child do so much harm to her child?
Although the first chapter should have been the last chapter, I still enjoyed the sequence of events. Chapter two started with Dave being a happy five year old boy and, in the last chapter Dave’s worst nightmare came true when his father moved out. This allowed for him to be abused by his mother daily.
The story was told from Dave’s point of view who is the author of the story. I liked how the main character, Dave, never gave up and always tried to think of ways to outsmart his mom. The message in the book was very clear which was to always have hope no matter what the situation is. I enjoyed the ending because Dave was rescued from his mothers cruel ways.
I would recommend this book to anybody that likes true stories and an easy read. This book should also be read by mothers that abuse their children because they will understand the child’s point of view.
The questions I would like to ask, Is what happened to the mother? Did Dave’s other siblings get taken away? When Dave was removed from his home, Did his mother get arrested? Why did it take so long for his teachers to turn Dave’s mother in?

1. When I read this book it felt like I was Dave. That his pain was my pain. When he was mad I was mad, and when he cried, I cried. I've always heard about kids being abused and hurt, but this was just plain crazy. It was obvious his mother needed help, but no one was brave enough to get her some help.
2. I loved how he wrote this book. It was definitely one that kept me turning the pages. He really made you feel as if you were right there along with him. It made me so mad to see his dad give up, and just leave. I remember when he said,"I'm so sorry, Dave, but I just can't stay in this house anymore." It made me think like if you couldn't take it how much worse do you think it was for Dave? Who actually endured everything? Like Cameron I didn't like how he told the ending first, and then went into the story, but I loved the ending. I felt like I had been released from a burden that I had been carrying on my shoulders was lifted off in the epilogue. I can't wait to read The Lost Boy. This book clearly shows that hope and perseverence will get you very far in life even when you think that all hope is gone.
3. I would recommend it for anyone in the age group 10 and up. Or for anyone who would enjoy a book that is an easy read and keeps you turning the page.Also for those who would like to learn more about child abuse, because I believe you're never too young to learn about these things.
4. My questions were:
Whatever happened to the mother? Did she get help or just continue in her evil ways?
why did she only beat Dave and not Ronald, Stan, Russel, or Kevin?
What did Dave ever do to his mother that she would lash out like that against Dave, but none of his other brothers?
What happened to his teachers?
Were they allowed to visit Dave?
How come people didn't realize sooner what was going on with Dave?

All of you had great responses to this book! I especially appreciated the thoughtful questions that some of you asked and the emotional responses you had!

1. This was a great book and I loved it! I like this book because it was an interesting with lots of attention grabbers throughout. It wasn't boring at all. As I was reading this, it brought out a sad emotion in me. I felt scared and worried when I saw that Dave would get beaten continuously for no reason at all which explains my emotion of sadness.
2. The plot was about Dave being abused and treated badly by his alcoholic mother. Although I liked the book, I didn't find the plot so enjoyable because it was sad to me. I think there is a message in this book to alcoholics. The message to alcoholics is not to be around children because they are unstable and they can start abusing the kids. The style was written with the author Dave Pelzer telling us his own story. I like this style because you get it from his perspective and it makes me feel like its believable because he's telling it and not someone else. The characters of the book are Dave, his mom, his dad, his brothers and his teachers that cared about him. Of these characters I enjoyed reading about Dave and his teachers. I enjoyed reading about Dave because of the terrible things he went through. In the story Dave's mom did not make him part of the family anymore by not letting him eat with the family or making him sleep in the garage on an uncomfortable cot. He was also stabbed by his mother and his mother made him sit in the bath tub full of ice and freezing water naked several times. Dave also stole food repeatedly for his starvation. His teachers were enjoyable to read about. Mr. Ziegler his homeroom teacher, Miss. Moss his math teacher and the principle Mr. Hansen were all very concerned about him and tried to help by calling the police. I didn't like the ending because dave's father had left the family so dave had no one to go to for protection. In the last paragraph was a sign of death because he felt like it was the end of his time and that he was going to die because his father had left. His mother said, "you are all mine now. Too bad your fathers not here to protect you."
3. I recommend this book to everyone especially the kids who are being abused. I think everyone should read this book so that we know the signs of someone being abused and we can try to help them. Kids who are currently being abused should read this because Dave went through abuse and grew up to be a successful man so abused kids can hope to become just like him.
4. The questions I have are:
-Did the mother go to jail for the abuse?
-Does Dave see his father or brothers anymore after he left the home?
-Did any students try to help him at the school?
-Did the neighbors see any abuse? If so why didn't they help?


2) Every aspect of this book I enjoyed, but the message in my opinion was most important. I believe the message was about learning to overcome obstacles in your life and living with the pain even when you don’t think you can take it anymore. So instead of a story about an abused child it was about David’s survival.
The plot itself was good, but I would have rather had the first chapter be at the end so the story itself excluding the epilogue would have ended on a more cheerful note. Reading a book written by a limited narrator always seems more interesting to me therefore I enjoyed the style in which it was written.
3) I would recommend this book to everyone from preteens on up. One thing I took from this book was when you feel down and can’t take it anymore to remember everything will someday get better. I think that is important, because no ones life is perfect and everyone will have problems that will need to be overcome. When you are living in the shadows it only means light is nearby.
4) Why did David’s mother only abuse him?
Why didn’t his father or brothers help him?