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I found Alberto Angela's A Day in the Life of Ancient Rome: Daily Life, Mysteries, and Curiosities very interesting on this subject.

Homosexuality was also interesting, as it gradually developed into something 'normal' within the Empire. There were times when it was banned, e.g. the issuance of a law called Lex Scantinia (around 200 BC), which outlawed among others same-sex practices and of course, the Christian era.
Sex outside marriage was OK for men but if a wife committed adultery and was caught, the best she could hope for was to escape with her head still on her shoulders.
Since most marriages were contracted for by the heads of the family, sex was mostly a tool for creating progeny. Sex for fun, was usually pursued outside of the home. Prostitutes were a part of daily life.
Homosexuality was acceptable as long as Rome still treasured the strong Greek influence in their culture and as long as those who were married produced sons and daughters. All else was acceptable.
The Grass Crown by Colleen McCullough which describes the rise of Sulla best illuminates the sexual practices of, at least, the upper classes.
Since most marriages were contracted for by the heads of the family, sex was mostly a tool for creating progeny. Sex for fun, was usually pursued outside of the home. Prostitutes were a part of daily life.
Homosexuality was acceptable as long as Rome still treasured the strong Greek influence in their culture and as long as those who were married produced sons and daughters. All else was acceptable.
The Grass Crown by Colleen McCullough which describes the rise of Sulla best illuminates the sexual practices of, at least, the upper classes.
A book I just got out of the library (Roman Life: 100 B.C. to A.D. 200) looks interesting and is on the general subject. It also has a CD-Rom tour of The House of the Vetii in Pompeii attached. Apparently it has several different tours, depending on whether you tell it you're a slave, a clint, the owner, etc. Looks thoroughly illustrated, as well, which I like.
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Roman Life was interesting (and had many pictures), but The Fires of Vesuvius: Pompeii Lost and Found is first-class. It asks what do we know about ancient Pompeii, and how do we know it?
I have already gotten through such topics as one-way streets, the "Four Styles problem," how do we know a brothel when we see one, and the question of the population (estimates range from 6400 to 30,000 - that's quite a range) and if the area was self-supporting in food or not. Among many others.
I have already gotten through such topics as one-way streets, the "Four Styles problem," how do we know a brothel when we see one, and the question of the population (estimates range from 6400 to 30,000 - that's quite a range) and if the area was self-supporting in food or not. Among many others.

Are there copies of those frescoes (from the Golden House, I think it was) in the book? If it aint a brothel, it's the next best thing... and I don't shock very easily!
ETA: it wasn't called the Golden House... I can't remember if it even had a name, but the frescoes are very graphic... I was travelling with a group of American/Canadian college students too. *squirm*
Nero's Golden House was in Rome, so I doubt there are pictures of it in this book.
There are some rather "frisky" pictures, yes.
There are some rather "frisky" pictures, yes.
There's been some discussion of sex industry, but I think the main chapter is a bit later than I've gotten so far.
Well, I was on to the sex industry discussion last night. Very interesting. There was definitely at least one brothel in town. Some think there were up to 35, but their criteria for deciding what's a brothel seems rather ... skimpy ... in some cases.

As far as I know, even if the previous Emperors had had their share of same-sex lovers, they never showed it in public unlike Hadrian, I presume?
It was because Romans thought homosexuality was Greek culture (And Hadrian was an avid fan of Greek culture).
Silvana wrote: "Speaking about sex, there is something interesting about Hadrian. He contentiously showed off his (male Greek) lover, Antinous everywhere, and he even brought this Antinous everywhere during his tr..."
Sometimes, I think, the Romans were as conflicted about homosexuality as we are now.
Sometimes, I think, the Romans were as conflicted about homosexuality as we are now.
Susanna wrote: "From what I understand, it had a lot to do with who was being perceived as the penetrator."
Interesting speculation. Would fit with the idea of Roman Men as macho types.
Interesting speculation. Would fit with the idea of Roman Men as macho types.
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The Grass Crown (other topics)Roman Life: 100 BC to AD 200 (other topics)
The Fires of Vesuvius: Pompeii Lost and Found (other topics)
A Day in the Life of Ancient Rome (other topics)
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