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I've seen some reviews on GR that blast Janet for being bourgeois and condescending to other trans individuals who choose not to go through with the surgery... anyone have thoughts on that? I personally think it's a bunch of bullshit, she is telling HER story and is honest about what she has experienced in her life, and what lead her to make the choices she made. But that's just my opinion.


I also don't understand. Particularly the criticism saying that she was condescending toward those who for one reason or another decided that surgery was not for them. I felt like she went to considerable lengths to call out that not everyone wants or needs gender confirming surgery because they feel complete and correct just as they are, and that she chose to have surgery simply because it was what was right for her.
I really enjoyed the book as well. I am glad I chose to go the route of audiobook, because a) I think that she has such a wonderful voice, and b) I really enjoyed hearing her story right from the source!