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message 1: by [deleted user] (new)

If you have concerns in ur life, whether its self image issues, lack of confidence or anything and u wanna talk about it...heres the place to come...

Evie is the head of the counselling bc she came up with the idea but all pitch in my suggestions or ideas to help the person grow :D


message 2: by [deleted user] (new)

Hi guyses! I'm Eve. If you would prefer to PM about ur issued that's fine. And Aubrey, you know it!! XD


message 3: by [deleted user] (new)

Yeah I did sorry Aubes! But I think it might b good!!! What better way to help support each other??? So many people forget that soo much stuff can run through our brains and it's just passed off like it doesn't matter...but it does!!! And we are going to help each other through it!!!

And Evie just bc ur the head of this thread doesn't mean u can't comment on ur own issues okay??? As i said before I'm okay at handing out advice just not soo good at using my own advice...this group is for everyone!!

Try not to let this thread get off track this is purely to help each other out... :) don't hate me Aubes


message 4: by [deleted user] (new)

OK! No prob! I'm like the counseling mod except I'm not actually a mod.


message 5: by [deleted user] (new)

Hahaha if u wanna change that just pm me ;)


message 6: by [deleted user] (new)

Change what now? :P


message 7: by [deleted user] (new)

Haha the mod status.


message 8: by [deleted user] (new)

Hmmm... :)


message 9: by [deleted user] (new)

I just found another issue i have with myself Evie.....I have this really strong streak in myself that i have to make everyone around me happy...when i word it like that it doesnt sound like a bad thing...but i mean in every sense of the word...i hate it when people get cranky and argue and i try to always work as a mediator between them...if someone asks me to do something i just do it bc it makes them happy....Is this a really bad thing bc its really exhausting trying to find solutions all the time?????


message 10: by [deleted user] (new)

Ohh hello there....how did u no i was writing something??


message 11: by [deleted user] (new)

No dont put me in a coup either...i wouldnt like that!


message 12: by [deleted user] (new)

David wrote: "everyone lay down on the couch lol"

Im too wired to lay down...im happy pacing


message 13: by [deleted user] (new)

If you really like doing it, it's a good thing! But if people start yo come to you all the time instead of figuring out themselves, or you start to find it burdening, then it's bad.


message 14: by [deleted user] (new)

Hi Kaitlyn!


message 15: by [deleted user] (new)

Apparently its counselling session time for us girls


message 16: by [deleted user] (new)

Whoa, slow down peeps. What's coup therapy?


message 17: by [deleted user] (new)

I think she meant group


message 18: by [deleted user] (new)

Oh!! Yes, group therapy is kinds what we're doing.


message 19: by [deleted user] (new)

If you prefer to have your issues stay private just pm ne.


message 20: by [deleted user] (new)

Caps lock off. This is a calm place.


message 21: by [deleted user] (new)

Come back soon.


message 22: by [deleted user] (new)

No caps lock Evie...i can use expression right though??


message 23: by [deleted user] (new)

Of course.


message 24: by [deleted user] (new)

So what are our lessons for today....


message 25: by [deleted user] (new)

Expression is encouraged here.


message 26: by [deleted user] (new)

Today's lesson: your attitude


message 27: by [deleted user] (new)

Confidence is all about attitude. And frankly, y'all's attitudes stink.


message 28: by [deleted user] (new)

Okay....do i need an attitude adjustment?


message 29: by [deleted user] (new)

Hmmm yeah mine stinks bad!!


message 30: by [deleted user] (new)

A big one. If you tell yourself you're ugly, or you'll never amount to anything, etc, you'll start to believe it. That affects your attitude.


message 31: by [deleted user] (new)

I think im going to need food for this session....im going to stress eat my way through it


message 32: by [deleted user] (new)

No need to be stressed. This is a stress free place.


message 33: by [deleted user] (new)

Princess Evelyn (Sugar, Spice, And Everything Nice) wrote: "A big one. If you tell yourself you're ugly, or you'll never amount to anything, etc, you'll start to believe it. That affects your attitude."

Its not that i tell myself im ugly....i just dont believe in the other thing.


message 34: by [deleted user] (new)

I stress about anything and everything....


message 35: by [deleted user] (new)

And we are going to change that.
Tell me 10 things you hate about yourself asap.


message 36: by [deleted user] (new)

ummmmmmmmmmm do i have to say them??


message 37: by [deleted user] (new)

In order for me to make my point yes.


message 38: by [deleted user] (new)

I really dont want to....but okay i suppose....


message 39: by [deleted user] (new)

Don't worry, this is a judgment free thread.


message 40: by [deleted user] (last edited Mar 03, 2016 08:21PM) (new)

Well if im going to do this i might as well be honest
My size - just to clarify when i say size - its more i have to stay small bc if i put on weight it causes issues with my back...so its an added stress to maintain a healthy size but at the same time i worry bc i dont want to put weight on...hence at 21 i only weigh 48 kgs at the height of basically 6ft
when i look at myself i just see imperfection
feeling severe anxiety all the time
paranoid of people looking or talking about me
the feeling that u cant be happy its just a black tunnel
being in the spot light in a group
insecurities
always comparing myself against someone else
Lots of other things but i dont no how to word them


message 41: by [deleted user] (new)

OK, everytime one of these bad attitude thoughts run through your head, think instead:
1. I am perfect in Eve's eyes
2. I will be fine. Nothing's wrong.
3. I bet those people are admiring my awesomeness
4. I am happy.
5. No one is judging me.
6. I am just as good as someone else.


message 42: by [deleted user] (new)

Dave's idea works too but trust me I'm certified.


message 43: by [deleted user] (new)

Thanks Dave... it just doesnt work...it makes me feel stupid talking to myself in a mirror


message 44: by [deleted user] (new)

I am sorry, my phone is dying. Think about what I said OK? You're my sister and always will be.


message 45: by [deleted user] (new)

Princess Evelyn (Sugar, Spice, And Everything Nice) wrote: "OK, everytime one of these bad attitude thoughts run through your head, think instead:
1. I am perfect in Eve's eyes
2. I will be fine. Nothing's wrong.
3. I bet those people are admiring my aweso..."


A few of them seem easy enough to do...but others just seem impossible


message 46: by [deleted user] (new)

Princess Evelyn (Sugar, Spice, And Everything Nice) wrote: "I am sorry, my phone is dying. Think about what I said OK? You're my sister and always will be."

Thats okay...awww i just gained another sister :)


message 47: by [deleted user] (new)

yeah thanks for the help lols....i have some points i need to work on....

and i suppose that does...
Evie had to go her phones dying


message 48: by [deleted user] (new)

Hey ur not supposed to read it *frowns*


message 49: by [deleted user] (new)

haha alls good...i wrote it down i have to expect its going to be read.


message 50: by [deleted user] (new)

if thats the case u must have a lot going on in ur head as well!!


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