Sheila Gregoire's Reviews > The Sex-Starved Wife: What to Do When He's Lost Desire
The Sex-Starved Wife: What to Do When He's Lost Desire
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I generally love Michele Weiner-Davis' work, and women who live in sex-starved marriages will find a lot of comfort here. She explains the plight and emotions of these women well, and gets to the root of the issues of why men don't want sex.
What I was uncomfortable with, though, was that she didn't seem to take pornography seriously enough. She acknowledged that it was a big cause of men's low desire (and in my work as a marriage and sex author and blogger I'd say it's the biggest cause in men under 40), but she seems to think porn is okay in marriages as long as both partners are happy with it.
Given the research that is coming out on how horrible porn is to marriage and to men's sex drives, I just think the book would have been stronger if Weiner-Davis had come out stronger against porn.
What I was uncomfortable with, though, was that she didn't seem to take pornography seriously enough. She acknowledged that it was a big cause of men's low desire (and in my work as a marriage and sex author and blogger I'd say it's the biggest cause in men under 40), but she seems to think porn is okay in marriages as long as both partners are happy with it.
Given the research that is coming out on how horrible porn is to marriage and to men's sex drives, I just think the book would have been stronger if Weiner-Davis had come out stronger against porn.
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Quotes Sheila Liked
“Relationships are such that if one person changes, the relationship changes.”
― The Sex-Starved Wife: What to Do When He's Lost Desire
― The Sex-Starved Wife: What to Do When He's Lost Desire
“When it comes to men, it's often easier done than said.”
― The Sex-Starved Wife: What to Do When He's Lost Desire
― The Sex-Starved Wife: What to Do When He's Lost Desire
“If it works, don't fix it; do more of it.”
― The Sex-Starved Wife: What to Do When He's Lost Desire
― The Sex-Starved Wife: What to Do When He's Lost Desire
Reading Progress
Started Reading
March 17, 2014
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Finished Reading
March 25, 2014
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