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The Forever War by Dexter Filkins
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Mar 06, 2009

it was amazing
Read in March, 2009

Dexter Filkins, the author of The Forever War, is a New York Times foreign correspondent who covered the middle east from Afghanistan's Taliban rule in 1998 to Iraq through 2006.

I should probably confess right away that I'm not a fan of journalism. I resent the whole idea of getting information from people who are in the business of selling it. I don't know what the alternative would be, but seems like a conflict of interest.

On top of that, there is the issue of bias. We all have it. I'm not sure it's possible to communicate without it. So, when it's somebody's job to write/talk/share about an issue, I don't believe anyone is completely able to leave it out. It's a lot more obvious to detect when your own bias stands in opposition. I can't read Arianna Huffington or Ann Coulter without some serious eye rolling, but Peggy Noonan? I think she's brilliant. I think she's fair. I can't see her bias as easily, but I'm sure that's because I agree with her, most of the time.

I must agree with Dexter Filkins too because I had a very hard time detecting any bias in his book. The Forever War doesn't give a chronological time line of the war on terror, or even a history or reason for the conflict up to this point. Instead, the book's focus is much more narrow. Using small snippets from his observations, conversations and the various situations he found himself in as an American journalist living in a fundamental Islam dominated middle east, the war takes its own shape without much molding from the author. Through Filkin's reporting, the war is viewed from many various perspectives. The Taliban's, Afghani women, American soldiers, American politicians, American ambassadors, Iraqi Sunni's, Iraqi Shiites, Kurds, hardliners, moderates, families, women, children. Iraqis as gracious hosts. Iraqis blind to American goodwill. Iraqis determined to keep their country in chaos. Iraqis as the neighbor or friend you wish you had.

As he sometimes traveled under the protection of the US Forces, he was able to observe their behavior too. Like their Iraqi counterparts, soldiers and military leaders ranged from the truly valiant, noble even, to complete jerks. But, because he told individual stories and reported moments in time as they happened, very few of his reports are tinged with the burden of hindsight or the sensationalism that I so loathe. It's incredibly present. A snapshot with words.

Filkins manages to keep himself out of his reporting most of the time as well. Even when he's part of the story, such as when he runs in shorts that he knows bothers Muslim modesty, it's not about his running or even his legs, it's about the Iraqi guard's humor, generosity and discomfort. When he's not part of the story, his presence is hardly noticeable. For example, he doesn't editorialize an interview with an Iraqi jihadist. The emotion, that spills out of the pages is one of the jihadist's single-mindedness and hatred for the infidels, not of Filkin's response. No apologies. No excuses. When he's interviewing a 19 year-old American soldier from Pearland, Texas, the pages fill with the soldier's optimism, hope and unquestioning obedience to his superiors, not Filkin's east-coast, Harvard educated sensibilities.

Sometimes, the book becomes more than raw reporting. Sometimes, Filkins allows his own confusion and conflicting emotions to tell this story too. Like the time he gets lifted into an angry anti-American mob, and his certain soon-to-be death, but before any harm befalls him, he is pulled back into the safety of his car by his Iraqi driver. Gratitude for one Iraqi and fear of another. Conflict.

If there should ever be required reading on the present day conflict in Iraq, The Forever War should hold a place at the top of that list. While it is a book that no doubt Filkins hopes will sell, I don't think he's trying to sell a view of this war to the left or to the right. Instead, like a meaningful piece of art, he captures what war is - past, present and future: hope, corruption, fear, courage, sacrifice, weariness, destruction, honor, death and change - all together. Forever.
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message 1: by Heidi L. (new) - added it

Heidi L. Hmmm, this looks very interesting. I'm currently reading "Infidel" which is also very enlightening.

Lucy Heidi, I'm loving it so far. I'm always thinking about it when I'm not reading. It's complicated and as of yet, unbiased. Hard to read too. Gruesome, irritating, sad, frustrating.

message 3: by Michelle (new)

Michelle As you know, I don't love nonfiction, but this does sound interesting. Great review.

Lucy Once I got past the first few chapters, and adjusted my expectation for plot, conversation etc., I had a hard time putting this book down, which not only surprised me but my husband as well. This is not anywhere close to the kinds of books I love. But, for me, it's this book that I can't stop thinking about.

I googled him and read a recent interview, a basic follow up to this book which was obviously finished before a lot of the calmness we see in Iraq today was even thought possible. I've never heard of him before, or read any of his work, but his thoroughness gets high marks from me. I think it would be an excellent book group discussion, but I have yet to be in a book group where this would be a book most of the ladies involved would want to read. I keep trying to talk about with my family and others who haven't read it and it's not quite the same.:)

Plus, it IS about war so there's lots of carnage. It's not edited to clean it up. Some of the language and detail is quite blunt. Also, he drops these Iraqi, Arab and Afghani names like he would Bob, Billy or Ben, but because the names are so unfamiliar, it's hard to keep track of some because the names seem so similar to each other.

Anyways, I hope you do read it. I'd love to know others' reactions. I am always uncertain if I love a book because it's really great, or if it's more tied into when or why I read it.

mark Good review. I just finished it and will add my 2 cents w/a review. I came to it by way of Ana Menendez's novel, "The Last War." A fictional account, a female account, Filkins wife's account, of the same experience.

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