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How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
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did not like it

I’m so disappointed in this one. It’s been on my to-read list for years and I finally decided to pick it up. Firstly, it’s written in 1936 so it’s a bit outdated. But I knew this going in and was told by multiple people it’s timeless and a must read. But ... not so timeless. The examples were outdated and THE EXAMPLES! They where mainly business based, they were extremely egotistical, repetitive, and stretched out. Every point was basically a way to put other people before you and fake your way to make them like you. Not my forte. Many points started with “let the other person feel” ... “make the other person think” ... basically meaning fake your way through their BS. I skimmed through the last half and just found myself rolling my eyes the whole time. For a man that says people focus on themselves too much and use ‘I’ in every sentence ... he sure does think the world of himself and his success. Wasn’t a fan :/
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Reading Progress

November 17, 2020 – Started Reading
November 17, 2020 – Shelved
November 29, 2020 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Bella (new)

Bella Omg i read this a while back and thought the same thing I don't understand why its so hyped.


message 2: by Toni (new)

Toni Omg this is on my want to read list but I value your opinion so much and find myself aligning with your ideas so I’m just gonna head over there and take this off 😬😬 lol


message 3: by Josiane (new)

Josiane Nantel Thank you for your honest opinion ✨


Nina I have to be honest this is quite a schock for me. This is a book that changed my life. While I totally get that some parts are easy to feel like the book and the examples are outdated (which .. they are tbh) I still got so much value out of it. It´s really interesting how people can see the same book SO DIFFERENTLY. It´s all about perception I guess. ☺️


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