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The Four Loves by C.S. Lewis
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Nov 01, 2014

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bookshelves: christian-life-and-thought
Recommended for: Christians interested in serious reflection
Read from November 01 to 07, 2014 , read count: 1

Though Lewis is a favorite writer of mine, this is the first time that I've read this particular short volume, presenting his theological, moral, psychological and philosophical reflections on the human experience of the four kinds of "love" referred to (by different Greek words) in the New Testament. One reviewer spoke of this as an "apologetic," and indeed Lewis wrote many apologetic works, designed to make a rational case for Christianity for unbelieving readers. However, this isn't one of them. Here he's presupposing that the Bible and the Christian gospel are true, and writing to offer readers who share that view his insights into how, in the light of that truth, we should think about love in its various manifestations. Non-Christian readers would probably not be interested in that approach to the subject (although, since all truth is God's truth, he draws his thoughts from a lifetime --this was published three years before he died-- of observation of human beings, not simply from Scripture and theology). It's also not a book that's designed to be a "practical" manual, laying down all sorts of rules for day-to-day conduct. Rather, it's concerned with helping people to think about the subject rightly, in the consciousness that "ideas have consequences" for behavior. The vocabulary and thought, as always in Lewis' writing, is aimed at the ordinary intelligent layman; it avoids jargon, and while it's profound, it's never pedantic.

The six-chapter structure of the book is simple and logical. First, he introduces the subject of love in general in Chapter 1, moving beyond the facile labeling of "gift-love" as invariably positive and "need-love" as invariably inferior and negative, and expounding the idea that "God is love" (and not the converse). Chapter 2, by way of prolegomena, treats our "Likings and Loves for the Sub-human," including love of nature, and patriotism; these aren't the types of love for personal beings spoken of in Scripture, but have a certain "continuity" with them. Finally, he devotes a chapter to each of the "loves" addressed in Scripture: the natural affection of family and close association; freely-conferred friendship; Eros, or romantic love; and "charity" (Latin, caritas; Greek, agape), the kind of unconditional, self-giving love God has for us and desires us to have for Him and for each other.

Simply recounting the chapter schema, however, doesn't reflect the variety and depth of insight here, and summarizing it in the limited space of a review wouldn't do it justice. This is a meaty, pithy book to sink your intellectual and spiritual teeth into, and designed to make you think. Even when you disagree with him (and I do on one or two minor points), here as elsewhere, Lewis is always intellectually stimulating, and leads you to insights you wouldn't have come to without the interaction. But what he proffers, he does so with a profound humility that commands my respect and admiration as much as his wisdom. His was a first-rate mind; and it's always a privilege to read his work.
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message 1: by Ron (new) - rated it 4 stars

Ron You're correct; it isn't an apologetic. (I got lazy. Thanks.)


Werner No harm done, Ron. (And you wrote a good review!)


message 3: by Urs (new)

Urs  
You're already finished? :O I haven't found the time to start yet... *sigh*

Great review. Of course! x)
 


Werner Thanks, Urs! If you haven't had time to start it yet, don't worry; most of November is still ahead of us, and this is a quick read (not shallow, but quick).


message 5: by Urs (new)

Urs Werner wrote: "Thanks, Urs! If you haven't had time to start it yet, don't worry; most of November is still ahead of us, and this is a quick read (not shallow, but quick)."
 
Thanks, for the encouragement! :)
 


message 6: by Nina (new) - added it

Nina Very insightful review. Makes me want to read it.


Werner Thanks, Nina! If you read it sometime, I hope you find it rewarding.


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