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message 1: by [deleted user] (new)

Condescending fake-friendliness masking resentment and loathing.

I want to read your book of Highly effective habits.


message 2: by Ian (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye MJ wrote: "Condescending fake-friendliness masking resentment and loathing."

I liked this review, even though it's very long.


message 3: by MJ (new)

MJ Nicholls I have a good habit: every morning I punch a businessman. Gets the endorphins flowing. Ian: tsk, be a team player!


message 4: by Ian (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye MJ wrote: "Ian: tsk, be a team player!"

Phooey, it's much more fun pissing from outside the tent.


message 5: by Manny (last edited Apr 14, 2013 12:42PM) (new)

Manny Well, I've already suggested one explanation for this book in my review. But having just read a de Ségur fairy tale, here's a second possibility: Stephen R. Covey was a kind, noble philosopher who foolishly offended a powerful witch. She put a curse on him that made everything he said come out as a cross between managerspeak and psychobabble. Then the good fairy came by shortly after (for some reason, she's always late), and said that she couldn't change what her sister had done, but it would still make him very rich.

Actually, I like this one better. Go Madame de Ségur!


message 6: by Ian (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye Some people are born rich and others have richness thrust upon them, and then there is us.


message 7: by [deleted user] (last edited Apr 14, 2013 12:54PM) (new)

Ian wrote: "Some people are born rich and others have richness thrust upon them, and then there is us."

Some people are just mean to be ineffectual. It is a sub-tenet of the Laws of Perpetual Misery.


message 8: by Ian (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye I never mean to be ineffectual. It just happens that way.


message 9: by [deleted user] (last edited Apr 14, 2013 01:01PM) (new)

Ian wrote: "I never mean to be ineffectual. It just happens that way."

Happiness is a tangible source of energy. It has to be distributed evenly in the world, but never fairly.


message 10: by MJ (new)

MJ Nicholls I think this gibberish is beyond the reach of most witches. They have a very creative vocabulary compared to.

Anyway, who wants to change? I am who I am today through long years of self-loathing, isolation and disgust for the human race. I worked hard for my status!


message 11: by Ian (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye I share your self-analysis.


message 12: by [deleted user] (last edited Apr 14, 2013 01:20PM) (new)

MJ wrote: "Anyway, who wants to change? I am who I am today through long years of self-loathing, isolation and disgust for the human race. I worked hard for my status! "

Ditto.


message 13: by Ian (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye MJ wrote: "I think this gibberish is beyond the reach of most witches. They have a very creative vocabulary compared to.."

Witches have their own highly effective ways:

http://www.potw.org/archive/potw283.html


message 14: by Yolande (new)

Yolande Still my favourite quote of Macbeth: "Double, double, toil and trouble; fire burn and cauldron bubble!" It's catchy.


message 15: by Scribble (new)

Scribble Orca MJ wrote: "Stephen R. Covey wrote: "What you are shouts so loudly in my ears I cannot hear what you say."."

You're being too harsh here, MJ. Give the guy a break. He was just revealing his hipster cool paraphrasing Pink Floyd.


message 16: by Traveller (new)

Traveller Rule of effective persons #1: "Like reviews after doing a quick scan of them, and if you're going to comment, make it snappy".


message 17: by MJ (new)

MJ Nicholls If you can't say it in nine syllables----


message 18: by Mike (new)

Mike Puma So you don't like Steely Dan because they never were a calandar-worthy boy band, huh?


message 19: by Ian (last edited Apr 15, 2013 04:11PM) (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye Mike wrote: "So you don't like Steely Dan because they never were a calandar-worthy boy band, huh?"

I wonder how many people know where the name Steely Dan came from?


message 20: by Mike (new)

Mike Puma You, me, a couple others.


message 21: by Ian (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye Mike wrote: "You, me, a couple others."

It's not on MJ's shelf.


message 22: by Mike (new)

Mike Puma He gets around--smart money's on his knowing.


message 23: by Ian (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye Haha, he will by the time we hear from him.


message 24: by Mike (new)

Mike Puma (I always kinda liked Steely Dan--the band)


message 25: by Ian (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye Mike wrote: "(I always kinda liked Steely Dan--the band)"

Me too. Much underestimated as (and possibly, by) intellectuals. I still love the guitars in "Reelin' in the Years".


message 26: by Mike (new)

Mike Puma I saw them a couple years ago. Quite good, but def not easy to look at.


message 27: by Ian (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye Mike wrote: "I saw them a couple years ago. Quite good, but def not easy to look at."

People say the same about us/me.


message 28: by Mike (new)

Mike Puma Oy!


message 29: by MJ (new)

MJ Nicholls I always associated that band with snoozy mediocrity, but maybe I was wrong! And I don't know whence their origins. I'm sure it's all rather fascinating.


message 30: by Ian (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye It's a matter of opinion only. And yet it is.


message 31: by Antonomasia (last edited Apr 16, 2013 01:28AM) (new)

Antonomasia In the British music press when I was a teenager, Steely Dan were a byword for the dullest of dadrock. And though these days I find quite a lot of the other contents of (dadrock bible) Mojo interesting (!), I kind of still see them in that context, as I've never heard of them attracting younger fans.


message 32: by Ian (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye NME:

"The band's music is characterized by complex jazz-influenced structures and harmonies played by Becker and Fagen along with a revolving cast of rock and pop studio musicians. Steely Dan's "cerebral, wry and eccentric" lyrics, often filled with sharp sarcasm, touch upon such themes as drugs, love affairs, and crime. The pair are well known for their near-obsessive perfectionism in the recording studio, the most extreme example being that Becker and Fagen used at least 42 different studio musicians, 11 engineers, and took over a year to record the tracks that resulted in 1980's Gaucho--an album that contains only seven songs."

In other words, they are the MJ of rock.


message 33: by MJ (new)

MJ Nicholls Ian wrote: "In other words, they are the MJ of rock. "

Pfft. My brother (near twice my age) and father (thrice my age) are Steely Dan fans so I must have attached the "dadrock" label to them for that reason. They sound brilliant in theory. It's interesting how the "near-obsessive perfectionism" of bands makes absolutely no difference to how the audience receive an album. My Bloody Valentine's Loveless is beautiful but reeks of the gaslamp as Kingsley said about Martin.


message 34: by Mike (new)

Mike Puma Children.


message 35: by Antonomasia (last edited Apr 16, 2013 03:52AM) (new)

Antonomasia It's interesting how the "near-obsessive perfectionism" of bands makes absolutely no difference to how the audience receive an album.
It simply seems to gain them more respect from other musicians and aspiring musicians. Whereas the casual radio listener can't really tell the difference.

In other words, they are the MJ of rock.
And perhaps it's other writer-types who most appreciate writing like yours.

Especially those bits where so much meaning is distilled into far fewer words than I would generally take to say the same thing. Having tried, I know it's quite difficult. < /sycophant>


message 36: by Yolande (new)

Yolande Wikipedia says the album 'Loveless' took nearly two years to make and they nearly bankrupted their record label! Woohoo! I love alternative rock bands, I am definitely checking them out. I am always in search of new (to me) music.


message 37: by Ian (new)

Ian "Marvin" Graye MJ, how many copies of Loveless do you have? If two or more, then haven't you disproved your argument?

Fathers are never to be trusted in their asssessment of their sons' creative or romantic ventures.


message 38: by MJ (new)

MJ Nicholls Thanks, Anto. The only reason I condense is I set myself about ten minutes to write most reviews, with exceptions.
Yolande: Loveless is a brilliant chill-out album, except it is louder than anything in history. I wrote lots of Belch to it.
Ian: I had a copy but I sold it. Still have it on my (now) dead hard drive, with all my other music. Sob!


message 39: by Antonomasia (last edited Apr 16, 2013 07:42AM) (new)

Antonomasia There is a skill to well-written brevity though. It requires the best choice of words and that takes more time for some than for others.

This Blaise Pascal quote is something which I could apply to more and more of my emails, especially in the last year or so: “I have only made this letter longer because I have not had the time to make it shorter."


message 40: by mark (new)

mark monday Steely Dan has soul! "White Soul"! i read somewhere that that exists and so i am willing to suspend disbelief. for teh children. the white children.


message 41: by mark (new)

mark monday oh and Loveless. happy sigh. what a wonderful album!


message 42: by Mohit (new)

Mohit The review is beyond me. Its full of loathing and unfounded criticism. Appears to be more like an image of emotions formed in MJ's mind than a serious attempt to analyze the worth of this work


message 43: by Scribble (last edited Jul 14, 2013 02:58AM) (new)

Scribble Orca Mohit wrote: "The review is beyond me. Its full of loathing and unfounded criticism. Appears to be more like an image of emotions formed in MJ's mind than a serious attempt to analyze the worth of this work"

This comment is beyond me. Its[sic] full of loving and unfrowned critter schism. A pears Toby moah! Like am I mage of emoticons terraformed in a Maister Joe mind the step seriously a temptation anal & Isis wrath of work.


message 44: by Natalia (new)

Natalia You are clearly not ready to understand this book. Refer to Principle 1: response-ability. Move on veeery slowly from there.


message 45: by Toby (new)

Toby Kool and the Gang are alright!


message 46: by Ahmed (new)

Ahmed Mohammed Wikipedia says the album 'Loveless' took nearly two years to make and they nearly bankrupted their record label! Woohoo! I love alternative rock bands, I am definitely checking them out. I am always in search of new (to me) music.


message 47: by MJ (new)

MJ Nicholls Loveless is one of the most blissful aural experiences you can have while conscious. Savour the virgin listen.


message 48: by Bekbau (new)

Bekbau kok


message 49: by MJ (new)

MJ Nicholls and bul


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