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Jessica I didn't at first because some time had to pass for me to notice the patterns. And he has tons of people duped still. The only ones who really know the real person he is are the women, like me, who have had a romantic relationship with him. The thing that really made it evident to me was he kept accusing me, and others close to me, of doing the things that HE was doing (projection). That and shooting and killing our dog and blaming me for it stating I should never question his loyalty to me since it was because of me she is dead. He would make the craziest acts "make sense" somehow. But the projection and the Jekyll/Hyde persona were telltale signs and he could go from charming to Hulk in the snap of a finger and his emotions could change on a whim. It was the worst experience of my life. The abuse he has inflicted on so many women is to unimaginable depths and I am lucky I got out alive. But short encounters with them will not reveal their psychopathy.