P He's saying that the traits/personalities/lives we imagine others to have really just show what's important to us and how we think. In actuality, it reveals very little about the lives of the people in the game. It's a theme throughout the book- that we fall in love with the idea of a person and not the person themself.
Maria If people look at someone and judge them with preconceived ideas, that is likely all they are going to see. What they find in a person as a result says more about them as it shows what kind of preconceptions they had. Preconceptions held say a lot about the person holding them, such as their life experience, stereotypes, interactions with different people, etc.
Fangirl Obssessed With Reading Every Good Book on Earth. when i judge someone you a part of your soul/heart. you show the qualities you would like to see or not in a person. when you play treasure hunt you think over the clues but the answers you come up with define the origin of your thoughts. imagination doesnt reveal much about who we imagined but rather about us and how we imagined that person.