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This answer contains spoilers… (view spoiler)[Yes, the tea that Josh drank was the memory-modification tea. Even though he said he could keep their secret, they had to make him forget everything just in case. It would have been too easy for Josh to become compromised and spill the tea (if you’ll pardon the pun) if he were left to his own devices. (hide spoiler)]