as much as we say, “Fuck ‘em,” we are social creatures who crave acceptance, and those digs can add up and turn into self-loathing or making poor decisions to numb it all out. People can suck, and they can say shitty, hurtful things when they are trying to decompress or connect, and you have to find a healthy outlet to deal with this workplace hazard in a way that does not compromise your tips or your safety.

