Martina says, ‘A woman’s need for love was created by patriarchy to help men succeed in life. Women give love an independent value, while men give it an instrumental one.’ And, oh, she was yelling this part, I remember it, she said, ‘You are making the choice to give love an independent value, and you can choose to give love an instrumental value. Then you will be free of this nonsense, this pain you make for yourself. Don’t you see? Loving you makes my life more possible, but loving you is not my life!’
