You are not alone in your watching and waiting and canceling plans. You are not alone in your wandering and aimlessness. You are not alone in the guilt you feel over time you wish you had spent differently. You are not alone in the texts piling up and the dishes filling the sink and the spilling of drinks because you just weren’t paying attention. No one talks about it, but we turn into different people when grief settles in, and so I need you to know that the list-making of worst-case scenarios and how you’ll cope isn’t something you are walking through by yourself. You are keeping your phone
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