The amount of time and money women spend on average—the self-loathing, self-criticism, addiction to perfectionism, incessant advice giving and getting from girlfriends, obsessing over the wrong guy, starving ourselves, working out, preening, improving, body shaming, trying to figure out what men really want, waxing, lasering, exfoliating, and religiously lubricating—as if it was our life’s work!

