When we ask, “what happened?” in a scenario like this we are demanding a play-by-play. We want to know where hands and mouths and private parts were. We want to know who did what to whom (do we?). We want to know, after the physical tally, was there love? Well, that’s what I wanted to know anyway. But what if none of that happened at all? What if the true transgression was revealing our brokenness as a couple instead of anyone else’s bodies?
