Long before they may have had any romantic or sexual experience at all. Young women judged insufficiently feminine by their peers are today asked outright, “Are you trans?”
No, people who have asked me if I was trans was professionals after I had questions about it. Nonprofessionals just said i was a dyke or ask invasive sexual questions. Could that happen more now a days? Maybe. But i think that is because there is more awareness to being trans.
